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Carlie, 55
United States, Maine, Oakland

Offline, last seen Fri, 24 Apr 2026 18:30:11

About Me

Im looking for my last first love,that click,that spark, my soul mate,partner in crime,lover,my best friend ,whos loving,faithfull,funny is a big time bonus, communication and honesty is a must! That's the big key to a having a healthy relationship if you cant have that?Big red flag right there!.looking for someone to spend the other half of my life with. Im not a quitter I will stick by your side threw good times and bad. And Im sure not into the game playing,to old for that anymore and this heart doesn't want to be hurt anymore.Ive always gave OVER100% in my relationships to make it work,But I must have that back in return,...Im sure hes out there somewhere looking for me as well,maybe its you?,Im not looking for the perfect man,just perfect for me,glass half full half empty,Im glad just to have the glass. Me? Im easy to get along with just go with the flow I don't look my age and sometimes don't act it, try to make the best of everything and laugh it off.I most of the time have a smile on my face or got my giggling going on, but I do have my serious side when need be....Im loyal, honest and trusting big hearted and love just about everyone, Im happier in my jeans and being a down to earth girl would take the country any day over the city just seems Ive had enough of it.,.My kids are all the family I have left plus 1 grandchild so my hearts open to you and your family most are package deals ,Just missing the last puzzle piece in my life to make it complete.So lets turn the page,and close the book and both delete this site.Well good luck in the pond looking for your fish..plus and if you don't have a pic and cant post one on here don't bother its only fair,mine are up to date,and always told I look better in person then my pics,and you out of staters pleazzz ,,really???... HAVE A GREAT DAY AND SMILE AND SEND A MESSAGE MY WAY! also the chat doesn't work..FYI and you scammers I may be blonde but Im not that dumb,so lets not even try to go there please move on to the next profile! Coffee,tea,drinks,quite place to talk, .....and "NOT INTO THE BAR SCENE" ...only go when a good band is playing!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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