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Randy, 55

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About Me

I consider myself humanitarian, open, down to earth, loyal, affectionate with an off beat teasing sense of humor. Seeking someone with similar values and interests who is inquisitive, analytical, and values social justice (no racists or classists please) and who wants to do his part to make a little difference in the world.- I believe strongly in the spirit world but am agnostic and do not follow organized religion (though lean towards Taoism). I am seeking LTR with an educated man (at least a Bachelor's degree) about ***of any race or ethnicity who is within traveling distance. I am of average build (5'4", ***lbs)with reddish brown hair that is almost to my shoulders. I smoke about 8 cigarettes a day and am trying to quit. Also looking for a man who is secure, can manage his emotions, and is not afraid of getting close to someone but who can compromise and give space and also understand my busy schedule for at least the next year (am back in grad school- this time for Ph D in poli sci and am working fulltime/ I have a Masters in sociology and another in psych). I miss the fun, comfort and growth of a romantic relationship and have not dated for a while. I have a grown son who lives in LA. Appearance and physique are not important to me but I prefer a certain chemistry. Hoping to find someone who can laugh at the absurdity in life and especially himself despite our tough world. Want a guy too, who likes to go out some and have fun-maybe slow or fast dance once in a while or go out and hear some nice sax (but no hard drugs or excessive drinking) and who can kick back and snuggle at home too. Some coffee at a cafe or bookstore or poetry venue. Maybe for second date some lunch or brunch- Ideally, by some water and/or with a little jazz in the background.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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