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About Me

I consider myself humanitarian, open, down to earth, loyal, affectionate with an off beat teasing sense of humor. Seeking someone with similar values and interests who is inquisitive, analytical, and values social justice (no racists or classists please) and who wants to do his part to make a little difference in the world.- I believe strongly in the spirit world but am agnostic and do not follow organized religion (though lean towards Taoism). I am seeking LTR with an educated man (at least a Bachelor's degree) about ***of any race or ethnicity who is within traveling distance. I am of average build (5'4", ***lbs)with reddish brown hair that is almost to my shoulders. I smoke about 8 cigarettes a day and am trying to quit. Also looking for a man who is secure, can manage his emotions, and is not afraid of getting close to someone but who can compromise and give space and also understand my busy schedule for at least the next year (am back in grad school- this time for Ph D in poli sci and am working fulltime/ I have a Masters in sociology and another in psych). I miss the fun, comfort and growth of a romantic relationship and have not dated for a while. I have a grown son who lives in LA. Appearance and physique are not important to me but I prefer a certain chemistry. Hoping to find someone who can laugh at the absurdity in life and especially himself despite our tough world. Want a guy too, who likes to go out some and have fun-maybe slow or fast dance once in a while or go out and hear some nice sax (but no hard drugs or excessive drinking) and who can kick back and snuggle at home too. Some coffee at a cafe or bookstore or poetry venue. Maybe for second date some lunch or brunch- Ideally, by some water and/or with a little jazz in the background.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    *** I DO NOT DATE BLACK GUYS. Sorry ***~~ No Longer looking for anything other than friends. ~~Just a simple country girl here. I am an honest, caring, dependable person who loves her horses and God and would love to find someone who has the same interest to share life with. I have old values and believe that marriage is suppose to be forever and that you are faithful, respectful and honest with each other. It doesn't take much to make me happy. I love the simple things in life but enjoy being pampered once in while. I love the outdoors and barrel racing. I have been raising a few grullos and incorporating that color into my running horses. I know how to stand by my man and am not afraid to stand up for him to anyone! I enjoy staying home but like to take a road trip occasionally. I know we all have our quirks and I try not to judge anyone. Most of all, I Know that no two people will agree and get along ***% of the time so we have to TALK and work things out and not Run away. I am beginning to wonder if honest, loyal, Loving, respectful, passionate, sincere, romantic, stand up for what and who you believe in, qualities exists any more? Does it? I hope to find a kind, loving, compassionate man who is a one woman man. He would know where he stands and what he wants from this life. One who is grown up enough at this age in our life to not be chasing the young girls. Yes, We ALL would love to stay young but that just is not going to happen, so Face it, we are aging. He would know how to treat his woman with respect and gentle hands, to walk as one. One who is not afraid to stand up for what and who he believes in. One who loves with all his heart. One whose lady means as much to him as his own body and will protect her as such, in mind and body. One who believes in God, our creator. This may seem like a lot to ask to some, but to me, it is Natural........ I hope you have a Nice Ride through this life! :-)Have a Great Day and God Bless! Maybe lunch or a trailride. What ever is comfortable for both of us. :-)

  • Jerry

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Thanks for reading my profile. I am a fun and kind lady with a side of sarcasm. I like all kinds of music. I like to try new things. I am looking for a true companion so we can do things together. I will do what you like if you do what I like. And I don't mean just in bed, naughty guys. Like shopping, sports etc. I am a lot of fun to be around and I see the funny side of things. I am very positive I'm told. I am very honest but sometimes that gets me in trouble. I must find my filter. I like to chat a bit on here before meeting. But have been known to meet without chatting much. See? I can compromise. Thanks for enduring my little monologue. :) Please no serial daters. I am a one guy woman. Don't want to be a member of some guys harem. I have two adult daughters who are very important to me. So a family lover is a plus. I love all people being a hairstylist so I will love your kids and pets and family. Yes, pets are family too!!! I also like lots of attention so if you don't have time to chat during the week and only contact me for the weekends I'm not your lady. I like to meet for coffee or tea but if you want to have lunch that's cool. I'm easy going. So lets hang out!

  • Kina

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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