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About Me

I consider myself humanitarian, open, down to earth, loyal, affectionate with an off beat teasing sense of humor. Seeking someone with similar values and interests who is inquisitive, analytical, and values social justice (no racists or classists please) and who wants to do his part to make a little difference in the world.- I believe strongly in the spirit world but am agnostic and do not follow organized religion (though lean towards Taoism). I am seeking LTR with an educated man (at least a Bachelor's degree) about ***of any race or ethnicity who is within traveling distance. I am of average build (5'4", ***lbs)with reddish brown hair that is almost to my shoulders. I smoke about 8 cigarettes a day and am trying to quit. Also looking for a man who is secure, can manage his emotions, and is not afraid of getting close to someone but who can compromise and give space and also understand my busy schedule for at least the next year (am back in grad school- this time for Ph D in poli sci and am working fulltime/ I have a Masters in sociology and another in psych). I miss the fun, comfort and growth of a romantic relationship and have not dated for a while. I have a grown son who lives in LA. Appearance and physique are not important to me but I prefer a certain chemistry. Hoping to find someone who can laugh at the absurdity in life and especially himself despite our tough world. Want a guy too, who likes to go out some and have fun-maybe slow or fast dance once in a while or go out and hear some nice sax (but no hard drugs or excessive drinking) and who can kick back and snuggle at home too. Some coffee at a cafe or bookstore or poetry venue. Maybe for second date some lunch or brunch- Ideally, by some water and/or with a little jazz in the background.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Michele

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    There are many things that are important in a good relationship. Honesty and trust are biggies. It is my opinion that once you have established these, couples can get through anything. Your family values must come first in your life. I have 2 beautiful children and they mean everything to me. I would hope to meet someone who can share the great and the not so great times with us. I love kids and would welcome my partners children with open arms. It is also important for partners to take time for just themselves.....even if it's just a walk on the beach or a simple dinner in a quiet little restaurant to talk about our day. Open communication and unselfishness are also important in a healthy relationship. I'm all for giving each other space and enjoying our hobbies; some together, others maybe not (for example, I will NOT insist on joining you on the golf course :). I feel I am mature enough as a woman to be able to share these qualities with someone. My friends would describe me as confident, aggressive, passionate, independent and knowing exactly what I want in life and going after it. Spiritual awareness is something that I work hard at to achieve. You need not feel necessary to join me here, although I would welcome you to. I try always to remain active, healthy and fit. I've recently began training with kettlebells and Kickboxing which I love! Talk about a workout! I love going to ballgames, taking a walk through the fall leaves and sitting by a blazing fire in my comfy sweats cuddled with someone special. Or, if you'd like, I can dazzle any crowd with my flirtatious nature and charm. You don't have to worry about "taking care of me". It would be nice to help to "take care of each other", in good times and bad! If you think you may be a match, let's chat. Well, after maybe a few telephone conversations, I'd enjoy meeting for coffee or a drink and taking it from there; wherever it may lead.

  • Margene

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I love to laugh and joke around. Im a sweet, loyal, southern girl. I love southern rock, country, and rock music. I love cats and I have 2 black and white cats, teddybear & Max. I love to cookout, play pool, and go bowlingl. My goal is to have a happy life. Im a photographer so I love taking pictures. I like to travel when I can. Im interested in the paranormal (I do have 5 spirits in my house) and no Im not crazy, LOL I would would love to meet someone that will always make me laugh and that is loyal and honest.

  • Marcene

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Christian, Lots of fun, laid back, love to dance and yes, I can 2 step, although I'm not much on the bar or club scene, so it may be just You and Me dancing in the living room. Honest to a fault, Out spoken, but never rude. A one-man woman. I have a good sense of humor, a great cook, I am a hopeless romantic that loves moonlit walks on the beach and long conversations by the fire. I can fish with the best of em, and yes, I bait my own hook. I don't mind getting dirty, I like my blue jeans, T-shirt, and ball cap but I love to dress up for my guy too. I am very easy going with just enough fire thrown in. I enjoy Baseball games and I don't mind football. I am a Be Me kind of Gal. I believe this, Every heart gets broken at some point in life, but it should never keep you from loving again. I don't Cheat, I don't Lie, but I hope I Steal your Heart. Somewhere Mutual, where we can talk and get to know one another, maybe for coffee.

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