Montana

• Kennebunk
• Maine
• United States

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Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

I'm actively seeking a live/work situation, but if in that process I meet my "soulmate," that would be awesome. But I know finding what I really want in a soulmate (and note, I'm good with staying alone until if/when I find that guy) can take some time. My primary goal right now is to live in a more rural-ish, healthy home (ideally an organic farm, or other healthy environment--non-smoking, etc). Live/work, which means I live there rent (and utility cost) free (I provide my own food), with possibly a small stipend depending on the terms (negotiable)...and in exchange, I work for you as a platonic "wife," personal/business assistant, secretary (excellent writing/editing skills, mucho speedy typist), home manager, personal health coach/counselor, etc. I'm also a visual artist, and love helping with home decor...web design, photography, anything where I'll be working with color and design. Just a multi-talented girlie ;-) So I have much to offer in this exchange.======== Seeking Soulmate =========I'm a LIBRA, not a Virgo, although I do have a strong Virgo influence. If you think astrology and the like is bunk and/or you're not open to actually learning, discovering the truth about that which you know-not (as opposed to just swallowing what some old book says), then hit the back button, please. Thank you and toodles ;-) Please have an awesome sense of humor. I want a guy who enjoys communication, and who is intelligent and confident enough to describe himself nicely in writing or in person. Proper spelling and grammar am good ;-) Too much for me to ask? Then, babe, you're on the wrong page ;-)I know everyone says they're unique and all, but I really am :-) Look much younger than my age. On a physical level, I'm particularly drawn to kind of a mountain man look (although I'm open in that regard...any truly confident, not arrogant, intelligent guy is appealing). A well-kept mountain man, nice beard/moustache...writerly, artistic...who exercises and takes very good care of himself.Health-conscious (not optional***or more of these is part of his lifestyle: exercise, yoga, organic food, never eat junk food, etc ... Sorry, but I could not be happy with someone who wasn't also health-conscious and into exercise and taking care of their bod. You don't have to be perfect (I'm not), but you do have to be very conscientious about taking care of yourself. No Cheetos or Hostess cupcakes in my cabinets :-D More like chia seeds and coconut butter (very healthful).Also, f-o-o-t-b-a-l-l is blecky, hehe. So please don't be a lover/watcher of s-p-o-r-t-s, and big points if you rarely watch TV at all (I do love to watch comedy...SNL, Seinfeld, etc). I love nature and animals, love hiking...living in the country. I'm very creative, enjoy writing and doing just about anything with color--painting, collage, interior design, web design, etc. Art, I love art. My ideal guy would be very creative, writer, artist, loves to read, honest, very intelligent, great sense of humor, open-minded, non-conformist, compassionate, very interested in things like permaculture and solar power...organic gardening and all that :-)Hmm, what else about me. I can be intense, love to conversate--and I think I'm very funny. Non-religious spiritual, and would require the same in a partner. I'm a Libra, we make the best partners--loving, compassionate, sexy, sweet...we create beautiful, comfy homes. Very affectionate with those we love. I enjoy a wide variety of music--old rock, new country, and a little of this, little of that (pretty much anything but rap). Strong interest in metaphysics (if you don't know what that means, you're probably not the one for me, ha, it means I love things like astrology and TAROT cards, and joo-joo beans, lol...just kidding on that one, I have no idea what joo-joo beans are, lol), nonconformity, the law, human rights--especially women's and children's rights, and taking care of our planet.Under the heading of "goals and aspirations" would be freedom and self-sufficiency. I wanna live in the country, ideally very secluded, organic garden, and "off the grid" as much as possible and still be comfortable--solar power and all. I love the peace and quiet, the sweet sounds of the woods, a concert of birds on a beautiful spring morning...a deep black sky all sparkling with stars on a perfect summer evening... Well, first dates are tricky. Either ya' click or you don't. And it you don't, it's not fun. So a first date is best planned to be short-n-sweet. Maybe a coffee shop or similar. More lengthy dates that I'd enjoy would be hiking, a walk/picnic in the park, dinner at an organic healthfood restaurant, horseback riding...rent a movie and cozy it up at home by the fireplace :-)

Hailie

• Kennebunk
• Maine
• United States

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Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

I love to have fun. I enjoy most music and dancing, line, ballroom or rock. Really like fishing and can bait my own hook. I occasionally go sunning on the beach or my back yard and sometimes tan at the gym. I know a good deal about computers. I have a real passion for traveling but have not done near enough, yet. I enjoy going to the dog or horse track and the casinos to play the slot machines and poker. I so like traveling anywhere to do just about anything. .I so enjoy camping, both by tent, which I have and RV when available. I savor a nice cool morning waking up to the birds in the woods with a strong cup of coffee and making breakfast on the open camp fire.I watch some TV, News, movies (suspense drama, comedy and action and maybe even a cartoon), American Idol, Big Brother, and Big Bang Theory. I would have to say I am adventurous either flying or driving by car or motorcycle.I know the importance of exercising and attending Zomba or Power Pump classes. . I occasionally take my puppy for a bike ride or for walks. Wash my own car and cut my own grass. I really take pleasure in eating out and trying new foods. I have been told I am a really great cook. I can cook Cajun foods and a whole bunch of Southern.D. as a timekeeper. Just until the turnaround is over then back down south. I am a Certified Animal Control Officer and I love to save the animals.I have 3 grown children and 6 grandchildren ages 6 to 12. I spend some of my free time working and helping others. I go into the jails and talk to the woman and speak at many venues about changing your life and the importance of having God in your life. I attend a Catholic church on a regular basis and would love to find a man that would like to go with me.I am looking for someone that does not work too much and likes to enjoy life. Someone that understands that family is important and that takes responsibility for their family and finances. I am over the games and want a mature man with a big heart. A want a man by my side that is kind and gentle to me but will protect me if ever need to be. I want to emphasize that I don’t need a man I just want to share my life with someone and walk this spiritual path together. Dinner at a nice quiet restaurant so we can talk and get to know each other than maybe go to a movie.…. A nice long spring motorcycle ride, stop for lunch and enjoy each other.

Tia

• Kennebunk
• Maine
• United States

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Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

Loving life and looking to share it with a well read, active Southern Gentleman.My dogs are family and family is very important to me. I do not have children of my own, but am a fabulous Aunt!I love to laugh and try to keep a sense of humor about life.I am very independent, but would love a shoulder to lean on every now and then.I own my own home and power tools.I know how to sew.I work a lot right now, but have no problem taking off to spend time with someone special.I prefer a walk on the beach to just about anything.I am a liberal thinker and conservative voter.I love flowers. My favorites are daffodils,gardenias and hydrangeas.I love to give and receive full body hugs! I love classic rock and roll, but listen to almost any type of music... I sing quite loudly while alone in the car and sound just fabulous! LOLMovies and books are both a big part of my life. Again, I am all over the place with my tastes here. I am currently reading beach trash, the Bible, The Tenth Insight, and catching up on my Kellerman, Cooking is a particular passion and I have been often complimented on my skills... everything from Down Home Southern, to Greek, Cajun, anything with Seafood, and BBQ that will make your mouth water for more... I could go on forever about food, but you might get the wrong idea...I also make the best healthy salads you have ever eaten and grow my own herbs.I believe we must have friendship to have a successful relationship. Mutual respect and a genuine desire to make it work are necessary in the long run. Yes, I want my pulse to quicken a bit when you are near, but to catch me you must hold my mind and enrich my soul as well.I am old enough to know who I am and that I can certainly live the rest of my life on my own; however, it is nice to have someone to share life with. I love to pamper those I love with small gifts, special meals, time and attention and am quick to show my appreciation when receiving the same.I look forward to hearing from you. First meeting: somewhere public to see if we want to have an actual dateFirst date: Something outside near the water... picnic on the beach, walk on River Street, Boat ride (have to be yours because mine needs a part for the motor), Outdoor concert, the possibilities are endless.