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Aiah, 54
United States, Maine, Kennebunk

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About Me

We are all a mix of nurture and nature. In my case the nurture included a lot of arts, culture and liberal politics. Nature gave me my pale skin, red hair, blue/grey eyes and a perfect 0.7 hip to waist ratio. Before I knew the curves were an asset I found I had a pretty good brain that needs a lot of stimulation. I've heard "treasure" and even "odd duck", meant in the nicest way, to describe the fact I don't exactly follow the herd. So unique brew is probably an apt description. It's no big surprise I work in a creative position. And it follows that I frequent galleries and lectures probably more than most. I listen to NPR, watch Charlie Rose and have been buying my food from farmers markets since I was a kid. Those that don't give their word lightly. People who are passionate, be it for their work, their hobby or life in general. Friends describe me as an ever-curious good conversationalist who can make people feel comfortable. I have a knack for finding those interesting little places and things that aren't on the public radar. So there's the touch of the explorer. Very often you'll find some leaf, seed pod or shell in my pockets.On a day-to-day level I possess a good amount of stick-to-it-ive-ness that keeps me grounded. I don't match the flighty artist stereotype at all. After eighteen years of marriage and over twenty years in my vocation, commitment and tenacity come naturally.But being grounded doesn't mean I've spent a lot of time standing still. I have adventured to some out of the way places. Travel is a mind-expanding experience.What might be a matching brew? Not sure...I am like my worst client in that regard, I keep thinking I will know it when I see it. I do think taking any action ripples out toward a final positive outcome. Even if it seems like a numbers game or random chance, to my mind even the small step of coffee, increases both our odds of finding that someone we are seeking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Traveling Spanish Turkish Vietnamese
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  • Ambrosia from Kennebunk | Woman | 51 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Update URGENT- I have been on a few dates and I have no idea what has happened to men. I have been so disrespected, show up and the person doesn't even look like themselves~ really?? I have been stood up, twice...who does that?? I am looking for a man, one that is comfortable being a man and I being a woman. I WILL not sleep with you on the first date, or the second...if the chemistry is there then let things happen naturally. I am a very passionate woman that knows what she wants and knows what she doesn't want. If you are shy, you need to move on. If you have a hard time taking the lead, then move on. If you are going to invite me to a family gathering and then not speak to me, move on. I am looking for a man that is looking for a real woman. I don't want to train, or fix what the last wife or girlfriend broke. I don't like pictures of Harley Bikes, the big fish, or the boat you can't live without. That would be like me posting pictures of me getting my nails done, shopping trips to the Mall and the new purse of the month...right that doesn't sound so appealing. I want to see YOU....I am not shallow, however I am stunned with the men that "claim" they are looking for one thing and looking for another. I am as my pictures show me. I actually wear between a size 2 and a size 5. I have long dark hair, and I take good care of myself. I will not lie to you and don't want to be lied back. If you tell me that you are 50 years old, please don't show up as a 60 year old. I want a MAN...a mans man. But yet, can love and protect me in ways that no one else can. I make no mistake, I am looking for my husband. If I were looking for someone just to sleep with, I could have that everyday to the week. Are there any real men left? Please know that I don't care if you smoke, if you love your bike, or love to fish and show them off...I will be fishing with you...but this site is not the place for it...Update- please no one liners, it gives me nothing to reply back to. A simple hi or hello I will not reply back.Let's be honest here. We are on here because we are looking for what we don't have, a partner, friend and just maybe our soul mate.I have been single for several years now and never really found myself alone. But today as I sit here I realize that I am missing that one thing that I so desire, a relationship with someone that I can grow old with. If that scares you and that's not what you are looking for then you need to move on. I will not become a serial dater, but I will look until I find the one that God has for me.A little about me. I am true friend, however to have a friend you must be a friend. My language of love is communication. It's very important to know how to love your partner. Just because mine is communication doesn't mean that yours is, but it is important to for me to know, so I can attend to that love lanugage. There is one of my favorite books called 5 Lanugages of Love..its a must read before getting into a relationship.I have two beautiful daughters and 3 grandchildren. I love my family and just love family gatherings.I would love to find someone that enjoys the same.I love gardening, campfires and good company, and love to watch football...My faith in God is very important to me....I could not have made it this world without him.. Coffee is cheap.Drinks are an auditionLunch is an interview.Dinner means business...the business of romance.

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  • Nya from Kennebunk | Woman | 51 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am interested in a man who wants to experience what life has to offer and spend time adventuring with me. I would describe myself as athletic, well rounded, educated, well read and positive. I am an active person with biking, skiing, and working-out at the top of a long list of things that I like to do. Family, home improvement, my career, cooking and gardening are important items on the list. I love traveling and have been all over the world, for both business and pleasure. I am happy with who I am as a person and am looking for a man that is happy with his life. If you are that guy and would like to get to know me better then *** can work on figuring out if we are well-matched. Lets talk on the phone. *** texting are functional but really would rather get to know you first by phone.

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  • Samiyah from Kennebunk | Woman | 51 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a separated 51 year old woman who loves life and what it has to offer. I am romantic, kind women who knows how to treat her favorite man. I am looking for a man that I can communicate with and become my bestfriend as well as my lover. I am wanting to share my life with someone special to enjoy the good things in life these things can be as simple as holding hands, cuddling on the couch and experiencing new things. I am a down to earth woman, with morals. I think a kiss, hug and kind words goes along way I am not high maintenance and believe happiness is more important than material things. As life is to short to be on your own and not share it with a special someone. Coffee or tea, walk along the water front, dinner and conversation and see if we have the chemistry.

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