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Merrill, 54

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About Me

I am a social being who genuinely cares about my family, friends, and the future for all our younger generations. I believe charity begins at home with our own families, and that laughter brings clarity and joy to most situations. I enjoy exploring new places and try to keep a positive spin on my life. I am not a high maintenance person, am at a point in my life where I would like to travel and do all the things I couldn't while raising my family. I enjoy Zumba, the gym, dancing, and walking for exercise. I also love going to museums, watching live music venues (I love most genres), festivals, travel, cultural cuisine, boating and the beach, as well as an occasional casino trip. I do also enjoy curling up to a good movie, a consuming book, or venturing out to hit a good yard sale or antique shop, and negotiating a great deal. Am fairly traditional when it comes to relationships and once committed I am a very faithful lady.Looking to find a best friend, and if love follows so be it! I enjoy someone who is creative, youthful yet mature, compassionate, witty, and open to experiencing new places. I enjoy intelligence in all people and especially folks who are interesting and diverse. Traits I value in others and practice myself are loyalty and HONESTY as a partner and friend. It's also very refreshing to find a good listener and communicator. I LOVE a great sense of humor. What I seek in others I really try to practice myself!!! WALK YOUR TALK is my motto...Let's go watch a live band and dance!!! I really believe that there is a certain electrical feeling that occurs between two people when they are a match. We all know *** we like and need within our relationships. Chemistry is a natural force...and one to be reckoned with !

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jesus

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Being single for several years has given me a great life of independence, creating wonderful friendships and many life experiences of my choosing. I would love to share these things and many more with someone as well as join their experiences too. What makes me, me, are honesty, huge sense of humor, faith, love of outdoors, dancing, horseback riding, seafood, family and being social whenever possible. I am spontaneous and love to travel and see new places. I would love to find the man that can knock my socks off..being picky is a good thing. I will know him when I see and meet him. Game on!! It's worth the wait. I'm looking for Mr. Right, not Right Now so no need to reply if that's you.

  • Montana

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I'm actively seeking a live/work situation, but if in that process I meet my "soulmate," that would be awesome. But I know finding what I really want in a soulmate (and note, I'm good with staying alone until if/when I find that guy) can take some time. My primary goal right now is to live in a more rural-ish, healthy home (ideally an organic farm, or other healthy environment--non-smoking, etc). Live/work, which means I live there rent (and utility cost) free (I provide my own food), with possibly a small stipend depending on the terms (negotiable)...and in exchange, I work for you as a platonic "wife," personal/business assistant, secretary (excellent writing/editing skills, mucho speedy typist), home manager, personal health coach/counselor, etc. I'm also a visual artist, and love helping with home decor...web design, photography, anything where I'll be working with color and design. Just a multi-talented girlie ;-) So I have much to offer in this exchange.======== Seeking Soulmate =========I'm a LIBRA, not a Virgo, although I do have a strong Virgo influence. If you think astrology and the like is bunk and/or you're not open to actually learning, discovering the truth about that which you know-not (as opposed to just swallowing what some old book says), then hit the back button, please. Thank you and toodles ;-) Please have an awesome sense of humor. I want a guy who enjoys communication, and who is intelligent and confident enough to describe himself nicely in writing or in person. Proper spelling and grammar am good ;-) Too much for me to ask? Then, babe, you're on the wrong page ;-)I know everyone says they're unique and all, but I really am :-) Look much younger than my age. On a physical level, I'm particularly drawn to kind of a mountain man look (although I'm open in that regard...any truly confident, not arrogant, intelligent guy is appealing). A well-kept mountain man, nice beard/moustache...writerly, artistic...who exercises and takes very good care of himself.Health-conscious (not optional***or more of these is part of his lifestyle: exercise, yoga, organic food, never eat junk food, etc ... Sorry, but I could not be happy with someone who wasn't also health-conscious and into exercise and taking care of their bod. You don't have to be perfect (I'm not), but you do have to be very conscientious about taking care of yourself. No Cheetos or Hostess cupcakes in my cabinets :-D More like chia seeds and coconut butter (very healthful).Also, f-o-o-t-b-a-l-l is blecky, hehe. So please don't be a lover/watcher of s-p-o-r-t-s, and big points if you rarely watch TV at all (I do love to watch comedy...SNL, Seinfeld, etc). I love nature and animals, love hiking...living in the country. I'm very creative, enjoy writing and doing just about anything with color--painting, collage, interior design, web design, etc. Art, I love art. My ideal guy would be very creative, writer, artist, loves to read, honest, very intelligent, great sense of humor, open-minded, non-conformist, compassionate, very interested in things like permaculture and solar power...organic gardening and all that :-)Hmm, what else about me. I can be intense, love to conversate--and I think I'm very funny. Non-religious spiritual, and would require the same in a partner. I'm a Libra, we make the best partners--loving, compassionate, sexy, sweet...we create beautiful, comfy homes. Very affectionate with those we love. I enjoy a wide variety of music--old rock, new country, and a little of this, little of that (pretty much anything but rap). Strong interest in metaphysics (if you don't know what that means, you're probably not the one for me, ha, it means I love things like astrology and TAROT cards, and joo-joo beans, lol...just kidding on that one, I have no idea what joo-joo beans are, lol), nonconformity, the law, human rights--especially women's and children's rights, and taking care of our planet.Under the heading of "goals and aspirations" would be freedom and self-sufficiency. I wanna live in the country, ideally very secluded, organic garden, and "off the grid" as much as possible and still be comfortable--solar power and all. I love the peace and quiet, the sweet sounds of the woods, a concert of birds on a beautiful spring morning...a deep black sky all sparkling with stars on a perfect summer evening... Well, first dates are tricky. Either ya' click or you don't. And it you don't, it's not fun. So a first date is best planned to be short-n-sweet. Maybe a coffee shop or similar. More lengthy dates that I'd enjoy would be hiking, a walk/picnic in the park, dinner at an organic healthfood restaurant, horseback riding...rent a movie and cozy it up at home by the fireplace :-)

  • Gloria

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hello, Happy, active passionate girl here looking for a man that likes to have good conversation, is caring. with a sense of humor who wants to date and see where that leads! I am a hard worker in the medical field for a job I've been at for 16 years. I have two great sons! I have also been blessed with a new little grandson! My youngest is in his 2nd year at Purdue Cal studying Computer Science and he lives with me. My family is a lot of fun to be around and my friends are the best!! I would like to find a guy who is kind, can be a little silly at times---makes me laugh, outgoing, but who knows how to be serious and passionate about the things he cares about and of course romantic, too! I feel I have a lot of life ahead of me and would like to share it with a good guy! I like reading historical novels and going to the Y. I like listening to 60's, 70's, 80's and current music. Like to dance and have a good time! I enjoy traveling whether for a day or weekend. Thanks for reading my profile and hope we all find what we are looking for! Someplace we both agree on.......coffee, lunch, dinner, ???

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