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Ruthe, 53

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About Me

Watching tv,taking care of lil kids.my main goal is rite now is to have my.surgery and take off a lot of weight. that is a hard question to answer.you just have to get to know me....my taste in music is mostly country and some rock and roll. i like to be outside when the weather is nice ..long drives in the country seeing different areas ....love going threw the amish areas .i live a varity of movies.my kids are older now so I'm looking to find a good man to spend it with. The first date i belive should be maybe dinner and whatever we decide to do a lot can depend on the weather.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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  • Aiah

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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