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Chantell, 53
United States, Maine, Jay

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About Me

It's always hard for me to think of ways to describe myself that don't sound goofy or cliché but I'll give it a shot and if you get past the basic description and think we have some common ideas and interests drop me a line and we'll chat. Most people consider me pretty easy to talk to and once I get to know you I'm mostly an open book that will tell you just about anything you want to know. I'm more extroverted than introverted so I think it's important to have great communication with each other but I also enjoy having quiet times together too. I'm a fun loving, adventurous person with a good sense of humor that enjoys getting the most out of life that I possibly can. I'll try anything at least once, as long as it's within reason. At the same time, I would also consider myself as a grounded, sensible, secure individual with strong moral values. My friends and family are an essential part of my life and I would do anything for them. They would tell you that I'm extremely dependable and loyal. I would say I'm a hopeless romantic at heart and I'm hoping to find someone special that enjoys the same things in life that I do. I'm cautiously optimist that there are other people out there that believe having a loving and meaningful relationship with that one other special person can make a big difference in the adventures still left to come. I believe in the golden rule and think everyone should live by the honest simplicity it represents. How much easier can it be than to treat others the way you would like to be treated? I enjoy spending time outdoors in the spring, summer and fall doing just about anything. I tend to be a little more of a homebody in the colder months but depending on your idea of fun, I'm willing to bundle up and go play. I try to be healthy and active and eat right most of the time, but I'm not fanatical so I make allowances for enjoying pizza, ice cream and chips and salsa from time to time. I believe in balancing out the weekdays and a more disciplined lifestyle with the weekends and a more casual and relaxed attitude. Hopefully this gives you a little bit of an idea about who I am and what I like. If you'd like to know more just ask. For a first date I'd prefer something simple like meeting for coffee or a drink and spending a little time getting to know more about each other and how we connect. If things go well from there, I'd be interested in setting up a second date to do something we mutually enjoy. Hopefully we'll have enough ideas about what that might be after our first date to have several options to choose from.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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