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Rubina, 52
United States, Maine, Jay

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About Me

I am honest, loyal, compassionate, faithful, have a since of humor I'm told. Family is very important to me. I don't lie or cheat and I am an open book. I was with the same man for 21yrs. I am looking for someone who has some of the same interest but yet have their own also. I'm told I'm not hard on the eyes but if you're looking for a barbie or eye candy than that's not me what you see is what you get, I don't try to be something I'm not. We all age some more graciously than others. I try to treat everyone the way I would want to be treated. I love the elderly, the joy on a child's face, a rainy day and my horses, sitting in front of a fireplace snuggled up. I like learning new things or doing new things. I'm not into the bar scene but love to listen to live music. Also if you're a player pass me by and as for drama we've all had it in our life's at one time or another and lives are never completely drama free but I try to keep it drama free. Also when it comes to dating again after 21 yrs I'm not sure in this day and age if a woman should ask a guy out or wait for them to ask you out? I dislike the meet me button even thou I have clicked on it myself, why can't people just drop a quick note if interested. I am looking for the one who can feel the electricity across a crowded room when we both look at each other.I am looking for that one to wake up to each morning and share a smile across the table. Someone to come home to each night. I'm not looking for a one night stand or to date a lot of men at one time. So good luck to everyone in their search to find that special someone.Love smells like flowers in the rainand know one can feel the painI can't be like everyone elseI never walked away from what I ever wanted for myselfand I loved anyway.If i wanted to flywould you hold me while I tryIf I wished to live among the starsWould you let me go that farSometimes I'm hard to understandbut you can come take my hand.and baby I would love you till the end. Hummmm; I think it should be a mutual date, coffee, lunch where you can talk and get to know one another and go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I'm happy, have great friends, love life and everything it has to offer. I'm a down to earth girl and have a glamorous side. I love music and I used to sing for a living, so going to see a great band is a perfect evening. I love Sundays cruising to the beach, and I try surfing but it's better skimming the zippers on my boogie board. Less bruising. I am comfortable in any social situation with all kinds of people. I have a strong faith and know myself well enough to tell you you're right. I'd rather be happy.....") I am very outgoing and affectionate, Like attention and give the same in return. I know a great relationship is always a work in progress, and sharing laughter and passion makes the world a brighter place. I know I'm better when I love someone. P.s..please don't take it personally but I don't even look at the Meet Me thing. If you really want to meet me, message me! Courage is sexy. Have a beautiful day and keep your heart open! Glass of wine and see if we find something to laugh about together!

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    It's always hard for me to think of ways to describe myself that don't sound goofy or cliché but I'll give it a shot and if you get past the basic description and think we have some common ideas and interests drop me a line and we'll chat. Most people consider me pretty easy to talk to and once I get to know you I'm mostly an open book that will tell you just about anything you want to know. I'm more extroverted than introverted so I think it's important to have great communication with each other but I also enjoy having quiet times together too. I'm a fun loving, adventurous person with a good sense of humor that enjoys getting the most out of life that I possibly can. I'll try anything at least once, as long as it's within reason. At the same time, I would also consider myself as a grounded, sensible, secure individual with strong moral values. My friends and family are an essential part of my life and I would do anything for them. They would tell you that I'm extremely dependable and loyal. I would say I'm a hopeless romantic at heart and I'm hoping to find someone special that enjoys the same things in life that I do. I'm cautiously optimist that there are other people out there that believe having a loving and meaningful relationship with that one other special person can make a big difference in the adventures still left to come. I believe in the golden rule and think everyone should live by the honest simplicity it represents. How much easier can it be than to treat others the way you would like to be treated? I enjoy spending time outdoors in the spring, summer and fall doing just about anything. I tend to be a little more of a homebody in the colder months but depending on your idea of fun, I'm willing to bundle up and go play. I try to be healthy and active and eat right most of the time, but I'm not fanatical so I make allowances for enjoying pizza, ice cream and chips and salsa from time to time. I believe in balancing out the weekdays and a more disciplined lifestyle with the weekends and a more casual and relaxed attitude. Hopefully this gives you a little bit of an idea about who I am and what I like. If you'd like to know more just ask. For a first date I'd prefer something simple like meeting for coffee or a drink and spending a little time getting to know more about each other and how we connect. If things go well from there, I'd be interested in setting up a second date to do something we mutually enjoy. Hopefully we'll have enough ideas about what that might be after our first date to have several options to choose from.

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I LIVE IN THE LIGHT. AND SHY AS A RABBIT,HELPFUL AND SHY. Looking for Friends first. I think in the end I seek what we all are looking for.Someone to walk this journey we call Life THAT SAID... I drum to my on beat.Don't Do DRAMA or MIND games.I am honest.And speak my mind . i am a freethinker . Which sometimes get me in trouble. I BELIEVE THERE ARE NO PROBLEMS IN LIFE.JUST SOLUTIONS. LIKE TO Solve problems . For *** sitting in a small bathroom stall well there is no tolit paper.hmm So I say to myself you have 3 choices. 1 sit and drip dry...2 slowly but slowly move to the next stall and look for some frigging tolit paper. Or 3 cowboy up. Well problem solved...gitt y Up Cowboy. You laugh at life Good conversation.meet for drink.coffee, In Public. SO WE BOTH HAVE THE ABILITY TO EXIT.STAGE LEFT.

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