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Rubina, 52
United States, Maine, Jay

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About Me

I am honest, loyal, compassionate, faithful, have a since of humor I'm told. Family is very important to me. I don't lie or cheat and I am an open book. I was with the same man for 21yrs. I am looking for someone who has some of the same interest but yet have their own also. I'm told I'm not hard on the eyes but if you're looking for a barbie or eye candy than that's not me what you see is what you get, I don't try to be something I'm not. We all age some more graciously than others. I try to treat everyone the way I would want to be treated. I love the elderly, the joy on a child's face, a rainy day and my horses, sitting in front of a fireplace snuggled up. I like learning new things or doing new things. I'm not into the bar scene but love to listen to live music. Also if you're a player pass me by and as for drama we've all had it in our life's at one time or another and lives are never completely drama free but I try to keep it drama free. Also when it comes to dating again after 21 yrs I'm not sure in this day and age if a woman should ask a guy out or wait for them to ask you out? I dislike the meet me button even thou I have clicked on it myself, why can't people just drop a quick note if interested. I am looking for the one who can feel the electricity across a crowded room when we both look at each other.I am looking for that one to wake up to each morning and share a smile across the table. Someone to come home to each night. I'm not looking for a one night stand or to date a lot of men at one time. So good luck to everyone in their search to find that special someone.Love smells like flowers in the rainand know one can feel the painI can't be like everyone elseI never walked away from what I ever wanted for myselfand I loved anyway.If i wanted to flywould you hold me while I tryIf I wished to live among the starsWould you let me go that farSometimes I'm hard to understandbut you can come take my hand.and baby I would love you till the end. Hummmm; I think it should be a mutual date, coffee, lunch where you can talk and get to know one another and go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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