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Christia, 51
United States, Maine, Farmington

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About Me

Friends tell me I'm funny, caring, smart, strong, compassionate and dependable. I am self employed, have been for over 9 years - I love the freedom of it. I am financially self sufficient- own my own home and putting one child through college with second one on the way. I'm a living breathing oxymoron (If you think I just called myself stupid, please don't bother to contact me-ever) I'm a suburban bohemian, a liberal conservative, a strong softy, an idiot savant in many things...I think you get the picture. I'm a bit of a round peg in a square holed world- which makes it rather hard to find a similar soul. I'm a mom to three young adults (the baby is 16 and getting more independent by the day). Time for mom to rediscover that yes, I"m a person too, not just a taxi, cheering section and guidance counselor...don't get me wrong, I love being a mom...just very ready to have a chance to be "me" again- and working on rediscovering who "me" is.I love live theater, the beach, amusement parks, museums, exploring new towns, red wine in winter, white in summer; conversation, getting lost in good book, PDA, cooking - comfort food is my specialty. But I think there is nothing better than to curl up on the couch with that special someone just cuddle and watch a movie. I am a home body- I love that people tell me my home is a comfortable place to be- inviting. I like to think it reflects who I am (in need of a little work, but homey and warm).What am I looking for? I am a conversationalist - I need someone looking for the same- with a sense of humor (points if you have a snarky or twisted sense of humor). Someone with an artistic sensibility. I am an odd mix of socially liberal and fiscally conservative with a generous helping of Libertarianism thrown in for good measure. My faith is important to me- want to find someone with similar beliefs. Basically- do you have a brain, a heart and a soul? If so I'd like to meet you.Good luck with your fishing. A great first meeting is a chance to get to know you and vise versa ...something casual- a long conversation over a cup of coffee. A first date that's a different story =) an unhurried dinner, with lots of conversation, a bottle of wine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Oda

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Country music Soft rock music Movies Theather Quiet time CampingChristian music Family gathering Gardening Vacations Hanging w/friendsI am not into the bar scene. I like to hear the rain drops on the roof while cuddling on the couch. I am honest and look for honesty in people.I enjoy watching the sunset. I like going to movies, camping, going on vacation, cruises,theater, concerts and hanging with my friends.I try and be positive even when life throws me a curve.I enjoy having someone to come home to.I enjoy being with and doing things with my family.I try to eat healty, but enjoy making cookies at Christmas.I like a variety of music. I do not care for hard rock or rap. I can be shy, but there have been times people say I talk too much.I enjoy listening to the innocent things the kids. I teach religion to say. (They are too honest!)I fell comfortable dressing up and in jeans.I would like to meet someone who is upfront with their likes and dislikes. I would like to just meet, have coffee or something to eat. We could meet and just talk, get that "just meeting you uneasy feeling" over with. I would be willing to go play putt putt golf if you don't laugh when it takes me more than par to get the ball in the hole. On a real rare occassion I might be willing to go bowling if we get the alley to put in the "bumper things" so I might get some of the pins down.

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  • Amaryllis from Farmington | Woman | 53 years old | Libra
    Amaryllis

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." Dr. SeussI enjoy life, traveling, trying new things. I have visited many of the states, not all yet. Even though my travels are not wordly as of yet, I have met and remained friends with people from many countries.At home I am more boring. I like gardening, dancing and spending time with family. I am a retired computer programmer that wanted to play in the dirt.I want to meet someone to share big and small adventures. Starting with dating and see where things go. Think of something different. Drinks, dinner, or movies are good but where is the imagination.

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  • Khalilah from Farmington | Woman | 54 years old | Libra
    Khalilah

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I'm a "Big Beautiful Woman" Who is working on getting healthier and losing weight. I'm single, never married and no children. I'm very sexy and pretty darn intelligent... I enjoy cooking and creating in the kitchen, bedroom, bathroom, livingroom...oops sorry, something else popped in my mind...lol. I've also got a rather witty and sometimes sarcastic sense of humor and can be quite the smartass. I listen to all sorts of music, I love to dance and sing Karaoke...Go out every weekend to do just that. First and foremost I'm looking for friendships; if it happens to develope into something more, that's great, if not that's cool too.I'm young at heart and in my mind. Do not feel, look or act my age. Don't get me wrong, I have days where I feel much older, but don't we all.I'm very open and honest, not at all a prude, prissy or pretentious. I must admit, I have a potty mouth and my mind is always in the gutter, but I do know how and when to be a classy lady.Always try to be optimistic, drama free, kind, considerate and compassionate. Never enough laughter, I enjoy making people laugh, I truly believe laughter is good for the soul. I have an above average sex drive, highly sensual and passionate. And I'm totally baffled as to why I'm still single, I haven't been swept off my feet or thrown down and ravished to death...lolI don't have children, so I won't have grandchildren either. That saddens me and the thought of growing old all alone is even worse.I'm on several dating sites and have been for years, without any successs. Thought I'd try another, maybe there's a "large mouth bass" for me. I said, Large mouth Not Loud mouth!!...lol Keep it real fellas, happy fishing y'all! For a first date, I'd much rather meet for coffee, lunch or dinner...Someplace quiet and cozy so we talk and be able to hear one another.

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