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Loreta, 51
United States, Maine, Canaan

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About Me

I have been divorced for 12 years and I am ready to find my best friend, lover and hopefully my soulmate. I am a very caring and giving person with a big heart. I am very honest and trustworthy and want the same in return. I want to find someone who feels our relationship and family are top priority. I want to find someone who is the first person I think about when I wake up and the last person I think about before going to sleep. I want to find that one special person I can't live without. I am looking for the other half that makes me whole. I will always have your back and hope you have mine. I feel the foundation of any friendship or relationship is built on trust and honesty. I am definitely a person who can be trusted when I'm with someone and when I'm away from that someone. I want and deserve the same in return.I do not want to walk in front of you nor in back of you. I want us to walk together hand in hand side by side. I want to be respected and deserve respect as we all should. I believe in treating everyone the way I want to be treated and that certainly includes respect. I was taught by my parents and I passed it along to my son "if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all." I do not need a man in my life I want a man in my life. I do not care if you are wealthy or just make an average living. I am not looking for a man to take care of me. Money does not buy LOVE and HAPPINESS. I would choose LOVE and HAPPINESS any day. I am on here for all the right reasons which is to find a meaningful lasting relationship. One that will last forever. I know this is a dating site and we're on here to meet someone special but I am a one man woman. I only want to date one person. How can you really get to know someone if you date multiple ones? I want to be the girl who makes your bad days better. The girl that makes you say "My Life Has Changed Since I Met Her". I want a man who doesn't have to say a word for me to feel his love and I want to make him feel my love without me having to say a word. I enjoy going out and doing different things and I am just as happy staying in spending time with someone I care about. I love to make people laugh and smile. I am happy getting dressed up and just as happy casual with a ponytail. Life is too short to be too particular and want "THE ONE" who has it all. I don't think anyone has it all. Everyone has flaws and that's what makes each of us special in our own ways. I want someone who makes me laugh and smile. Someone I can trust and who will always be honest. I will give the same in return. I don't want someone who is only concerned about looks. I truly believe physical attraction is important but to me real beauty comes from within. To me a relationship is give and take and should be a two-way street where we both know it's okay to disagree sometimes and have respect for each other. It's okay if two people don't have everything in common. We may find what we thought we weren't interested in we really are after finding the right person to share it with. I feel it's true that what we have been searching for has been in front of us the whole time and until we honestly open our eyes and realize it we may never have it. I want someone who I cannot wait to get home to after a long day at work. I have alot of love and a big heart to give to the right person. I want us to live life to the fulllest because we are never promised tomorrow. Laugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can't change. Kiss slowly, play hard, forgive quickly, take chances, give everything and have no regrets. Life's too short to be anything ...but happy. Life is way too short to not follow your heart. I'm looking for my first last kiss with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. I do believe in True Love at first sight and destiny. The best way to love is to love like you've never been hurt. I have said in my profile that life is too short it's not that life is too short it's that death is too long. Distance means so little when someone means so much. I am on here to find love and happiness again and the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. I will not judge anyone on their past relationships nor does it matter to me if someone has everything or not alot of anything. I do not have any crazy ex-husband in my life, I have the most amazing son I could ever ask for. The most important thing I can give to someone is unconditional undying true love and 100% faithfulness. There doesn't seem to be alot of that in relationships anymore. True love is not loving a perfect person but loving an imperfect person perfectlI am on here to find that one special man to be with forever. I don't want to spend anymore holidays and birthdays without that special man in my life. No one has to be alone we choose to be alone and I choose not to. You may find someone who you think is the one you've been searching for but the feeling turns out not to be mutual. What can happen though is that you find a new friend and that new friend teaches you things you never knew about yourself and makes you view life in a different way. Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.I know what I want and the kind of man I am looking for to spend forever with and I am not going to settle. I believe in the saying "I'd rather be home alone than be home with someone wishing I was alone. We all make mistakes, it's what we do to correct them that makes us the person we are. Follow your heart and you will see the good in everyone.Everyday we wait is another day we won't get back.Love not only with your eyes that see the different faces and bodies but more importantly with your heart that shows you more than what your eyes are looking at.If you want to know more about me Google the poem "The Invitation" by Oriah Mountain Dreamer. A nice quiet romantic atmosphere where we can have a drink and talk. I would like to hear all about you and what you like and dislike.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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