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United States, Maine, Canaan

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Hello there .... Thanks for stopping by. I need to be completely up-front about one thing.... I do not date outside my race. I don't mean to hurt your feelings, but that is my choice. Please don't waste your time or mine. Thank you.Now, if you are still with me .... My life is good except I miss having someone to share it with. My children are grown and I have grandchildren who I see every chance I get, but there is still someone missing. Is it you?I love the country way of life. I have a dog, (lost my Rottie), a horse, and a few head of cattle, so it would be great to find a true Cowboy. I enjoy country music and really miss going dancing. I have been divorced for 7 years. And... No, that wasn't my first marriage, but that is a story for another time and place.My friends describe me as being loyal, considerate, and caring, as well as hard-headed, stubborn, and independent. I like to think that they are correct on both accounts.Favorite sayings: "This too shall pass" and "Save the drama for ya momma." If you have lots of drama, please pass me by. My life is often busy, but it is drama free and I strongly need to keep it that way. My hopes for meetville ~~- I would like to meet a gentleman who is comfortable becoming my best friend BEFORE he becomes my lover.- Someone who understands that the past is the past and that it should be left there. What matters is the present and the future.- A lover of country and family.- Honesty, integrity, and stabilty are a given.If I interest you, and my hopes sound like you, please drop me a line. I look forward to meeting you. Let's start with coffee or an afternoon drink and see if we both want to proceed from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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