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Rebeca, 53
United States, Maine, Canaan

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About Me

If you are kind, good-hearted, easy-going, fun-to-be-with, professional, divorced (not just separated) and monogamous, please be mine! I am warm, soft and sweet with an edge. I love my two adult kids and my friends.I love both city and country, weekend getaways, travelling and taking pictures of places I go to; my work and its challenges; sunny days and sunny people; biking, swimming, water in every way, (except for the pouring rain or a hurricane); fine dining and wine (not an addict, will never be);talking (but not about exercising, and how many times a week); walking, movies, ballet, flowers, Saturdays, vacation and kissing!!!I cannot stand cliches and stereotypes ("life is short", "live life to the fullest", "work hard and play hard", "glass is half empty or full...")I want to be with a man, who does not find thinking painful.I doubt conventional wisdoms.Do not like surprises, good or bad. Activity-wise, I can join you in cross country skiing, boating, sailing and very possibly in a gym, but not likely in rock climbing or sky-divingI am not running marathons, but can catch a bus. Athletic never been and will never be. I am in a pretty feminine shape, thanks to Godiva. Love music, but there are no sad tunes, rap or hip hop in my "jukebox."I am curious about languages and would like to continue with French, of which I took one semester.YOU are a genuine man, white, professional, happy with what you do.You have travelled inside and outside of the USA. "A walk on the beach" is not the farthest place you ventured out to. Snow in the winter does not turn you into a bear and does not frieze your active way of life.You are over your divorce and are ready for the new relationship.You are not watching sports programs on TV. Golf/TV/baseball are not the passion of your life, but are fine in moderation. If you like Seinfeld, hopefully, you are not re-enacting those characters, who have mastered sabotaging relationship!You are not posing bare-chested on the picture posted with your profile here. If you were born outside of the US, it is a plus. You must be able to hold your liquor, when you drink, and handle my jokes and sense of humor.If you "quit drinking" and view a glass of wine as a threat, please find someone else.You are not questioning, whether a glass is half full or half empty. You just fill it up, and we say "cheers!"You, "complete-honesty"-seekers, should know that I do not lie about my age. It is my age lies about me!Age is not an agenda. Neither it is a subject for a conversation. However I will NOT respond to anybody under 45.I do not "do drama." Neither I want drama from you.Togetherness, trust and interdependency are important for both of us.I do not have any "ideal man" in mind. If you agree with all of the above, I like you already.I will not respond, if there is no picture with your profile.And if you have nothing to say but "hi" - sorry! - there will be no response either. If your sentiment is that "life is to short," we have nothing to talk about! Now pay attention! Please note: I am size 12, and 5'6". It is not petit! I. First date is all about you and me. Dinner after work? A glass of wine? Must be a nice place so that we can talk.Being able to communicate is essential!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Reggae Shopping German Vietnamese Documentary War Soccer / Football
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