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Elly, 51

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About Me

I love the outdoors, gardening, walks along the waterfront, cycling. Willing to try new things. I want a real gentleman, one that knows how to act like one, and treats me like a lady. Not looking for casual dating. I prefer someone who is a empty nester or has much older children. I'm a empty nester and been that way for a few years.I"m not sure if I will find some one on these site's, but no harm in trying. I'm not into causal sex, and that is not what I'm looking for. If that is your intent please pass me by. Please be completely honest with me, I don't like being lead on, I don't want to be a another notch in your head board. I have pride in who I am. My reasons for being here are to find someone who I connect with , emotionally, intellectually,physically, and eventually after getting know one another , sexually, but that will come with getting to know one another. I want a relationship that is going to be lasting, one that is loving, compassionate , caring, respectful of each other needs. I'm a very happy person, and don't have any baggage as they say, or play mind games, I will tell you my honest opinion in a gently caring way. I have a gentle caring nature to me. I can show affection to the right person someone who I"m connected with and trust. Thank you for reading my profile and if I interest you please drop me a line, it doesn't mean that I will connect with you, but I will be sure to let you know if your profile interest me in anyway. I do like to chat for a bit before giving my number out, and coffee would be nice as a first encounter if all goes well then a second date might be the end result. Have a fantastic day and good luck in your search. Meet for coffee and see what happens. If all goes ok the gentleman can decide what would be next.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Melda

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    --ONLY SERIOUS OFFERS CONSIDEREDOkay, here's the translation:I'm 54 years old, but look mid 30s to early 40sBrown/black hairHazel green eyesA few extra pounds bordering on BBW, but most of the weight is in the--um--headlights. I'm divorced and over it. No drama. No drugs. No diseases. I'm hard working and independent. I'm NOT looking for someone to take me away from it all, and I'm certainly not looking to support anyone either. I'm Catholic, but not necessarily seeking the same. I like all kinds of music except for rap, hip hop, and death metal, head-banging crap.I have a quick, sarcastic sense of humor. I appreciate the same. Kind of shy at first. My friends won't agree with that, but I am. I don't smoke. Prefer a non-smoker, but if you smoke that's okay.I like bikes (motorcycles, not Schwinns). I don't own one—yet.I have a weakness for bad boy attitude, but I don't want a habitual offender. I like camping, the beach, deep-sea fishing, the mountains, and the city (sometimes).I like new adventures, but I'm not going to jump out of a plane anytime soon.I like jumping in the car and heading off in any direction just for shits and giggles.I read. I write (two published short stories). Watch a little TV. Like movies. I'm not high maintenance, but I do take care of myself. Open doors. Be respectful. Go ahead; try to spoil me. It can't be done.I have two great kids. My son is 22 and has his own place. My daughter is Sweet 16—good student, good girl with NO ATTITUDE (just like her beautiful mother).Okay, time for some really important stuff. Read on...YOU MUST NOT BE MARRIED. That's a no-no. Go home to your wife. You're her problem, not mine. You must be gainfully employed and independent. Good looking and well put together a plus, but a man with a couple of extra pounds is always welcome. This isn't a beauty contest, guys—but face it, there has to be mutual attraction, right? Please have a brain and be considerate. Please be real. I'm not interested in FWB. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE the benefits, but I want to share them with the right man. I'm not interested in getting married. Right now, I'm just looking for someone to have fun and share the journey. Maybe for the long haul with the right man. Maybe. ;o) Coffee or a couple of drinks somewhere. Good conversation and just see where it goes. If the attraction is there, great. If not--no harm, no foul. I'm not everyone's cup of tea, and I don't expect every man to be mine.

  • Taryn

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hi,I am a lady who absolutely loves the outdoors and all the world has to offer.I have a passion for staying active and hope to meet and get to seriously know an active man that is into eating healthy,exercising ,and is healthy physically and mentally.That is only the way to be able to have the energy for a relationship where we're both able to enjoy all we have in common. I have a love for exploring and it's safer with a man walking by a lady's side to go through the many wooded paths I know of . I am a romantic,love to laugh,dance,listen to good music. I still like the music of my day's,those hair bands,country,and tranquil sounds of ocean and nature recordings. I treat people with kindness and respect and expect that in return .I am a positive,confident, mature lady and enjoy my independence though still love the companionship of a special man to share my life with. I enjoy life and have no desire for NEGATIVE PEOPLE, DRAMA, MEN LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND. I need to know you emotionally and spiritually, know your the right man before I am with you physically. I respect myself, love who I am as a person and won't settle for less. I enjoy cultural events,plays,museums and concerts,as well as relaxing sitting by the beach on a moon lit night or quiet evening cooking for two and a movie. I love reading and learning about topics of interest,one can really escape in a well written novel.I love sailing,horse back riding,day trips to no where special.Let's gas up the car,pack a picnic,our hiking shoes and enjoy the day together. I am open minded,speak honestly and from the heart and never to hurt another 's feeling . I am very versatile,can go from fishing clothes to a dress and heels in under an hour ready for dinner or my good jeans,a cute shirt,my cowboy boots to dance at my local saloon. Anyone up for a game of pool or darts? I hope you ride safe and respect other riders,I then will gladly ride with you .I want to be around to see my grandson's have families and be a great grandmother. It would be nice to have a beautiful friendship/relationship where we are truly in touch with one another 's feelings,needs,desires and always be there for each other through good and tough times. I was raised with good values,morals and class so I know how to work through anything life brings calmly,I don't argue with people, will talk with you to come to a mutual understanding.I am caring,honest,secure with myself,mentally and physically stable, no med's here but vitamins and herbs. I have so much love to give to that special man who comes into my life.I actually miss the simple things two people can share,we're not to old to love again. Two people have to date at first,see if there's truly enough interest,and if there is then hopefully they both are searching for the relationship to lead to long term.That's my goal,though there doesn't seem to be many honest,decent,caring people on many sites.Some are out just to get whatever they can out of someone,money,special favors,one night bed party.That is not me at all,there are real people looking for someone to share their life with and enjoy the journey.So please don't let the users stop you from reaching out,you never know that the next person a few towns away from you could be just right for you.No one is perfect,but there are still loving ,caring people out there for us. Thanks for stopping by my true,honest profile. Dawn If our first meeting goes well and there is a true interest, then we will decide what we would like to do.I am a down to earth lady that is not high maintenance, but does care about my appearance.So I can be ready for activity in an hours notice, either casual or classy.

  • Signe

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I enjoy the simple things in life, spending time with that special someone, snuggling by a fire, cooking together, working in the yard, reading, traveling, etc. I really enjoy researching my family history also. I've traveled to the west coast and to Europe but I love spending time in the Thousand Islands, which I consider to be one of the most beautiful places in the world. I like country and christian music. My children are grown so my time is my own now. I don't need a man to support me financially but would love someone to share this life with.Would love to meet someone who likes to laugh, likes intelligent conversation, and who's drama free (no actors please). Please be employed or if you are "retired" be really retired. We probably are not compatible if you are non-religious, are a pseudo christian, or are uneducated ( I'm not looking for Einstein, I'm not,) but I would like to be able to talk about more than the weather. I'm not looking for a perfect man ........... just the perfect man for me. Maybe you'll be my last............ first............. kiss?P.S. I LOVE football, and yes I may watch it all day and not get another thing done. Gotta watch the "Cuse". A coffee shop in the winter time is good also.

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