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Melda, 54

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About Me

--ONLY SERIOUS OFFERS CONSIDEREDOkay, here's the translation:I'm 54 years old, but look mid 30s to early 40sBrown/black hairHazel green eyesA few extra pounds bordering on BBW, but most of the weight is in the--um--headlights. I'm divorced and over it. No drama. No drugs. No diseases. I'm hard working and independent. I'm NOT looking for someone to take me away from it all, and I'm certainly not looking to support anyone either. I'm Catholic, but not necessarily seeking the same. I like all kinds of music except for rap, hip hop, and death metal, head-banging crap.I have a quick, sarcastic sense of humor. I appreciate the same. Kind of shy at first. My friends won't agree with that, but I am. I don't smoke. Prefer a non-smoker, but if you smoke that's okay.I like bikes (motorcycles, not Schwinns). I don't own one—yet.I have a weakness for bad boy attitude, but I don't want a habitual offender. I like camping, the beach, deep-sea fishing, the mountains, and the city (sometimes).I like new adventures, but I'm not going to jump out of a plane anytime soon.I like jumping in the car and heading off in any direction just for shits and giggles.I read. I write (two published short stories). Watch a little TV. Like movies. I'm not high maintenance, but I do take care of myself. Open doors. Be respectful. Go ahead; try to spoil me. It can't be done.I have two great kids. My son is 22 and has his own place. My daughter is Sweet 16—good student, good girl with NO ATTITUDE (just like her beautiful mother).Okay, time for some really important stuff. Read on...YOU MUST NOT BE MARRIED. That's a no-no. Go home to your wife. You're her problem, not mine. You must be gainfully employed and independent. Good looking and well put together a plus, but a man with a couple of extra pounds is always welcome. This isn't a beauty contest, guys—but face it, there has to be mutual attraction, right? Please have a brain and be considerate. Please be real. I'm not interested in FWB. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE the benefits, but I want to share them with the right man. I'm not interested in getting married. Right now, I'm just looking for someone to have fun and share the journey. Maybe for the long haul with the right man. Maybe. ;o) Coffee or a couple of drinks somewhere. Good conversation and just see where it goes. If the attraction is there, great. If not--no harm, no foul. I'm not everyone's cup of tea, and I don't expect every man to be mine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kiera

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a fun loving lady who enjoys life! I am a mom, a friend, a hard worker, an optimistic person, a leader, an independent lady who is looking for that fun loving guy who is looking for a special lady! I enjoy many things like the sun, the beach, the outdoors, just about any sporting event, a good steak, cooking, live concerts, the list can go on and on. I have an adventurous side and I am open to just about anything, legal! I have a wonderful family, 2 boys that are in college and my family and friends mean the world to me. One son lives at home and going to college locally and the other is going to college in IA. They have been my whole life for so long, like most parents, I decided it was time for me to have some "me" time!I am a hopless romantic, I like to hold hands, cuddle, I don't mind PDA with the right person. Life has taught me what's truly important: Family, Faith, Love, Hope, Respect, Relationships and the blessing of good health. What am I looking for? I am not seeking perfection but you DO need to be honest, integrity speaks volume! I am looking for my best friend, companion and my lover. I would like to find a guy with a sense of humor a quick wit, someone who is happy with who they are, have a positive attitude, and compassionate, did I say honest? :) I would like a man who is spontanious, affectionate, care free, someone who is not a couch potato. You must be a dog lover because that is my baby at home. ;) I would enjoy a grill master because I am a good cook. How about a traveling companion, a dancing and exercise partner, just a well rounded man who is looking for that well rounded women. He must have a great heart because I do and I would do anything for the people I love. So you are not all of these? I am not perfect so you don't need to be either. Let's not make things complicated, let's meet and see where it leads, make sure your honest because I will be honest with you. My motto is to live each day to the fullest, let's find a place to begin!How should we start? Friends that develop into a relationship? Let's take is slow, I am in no hurry, and see where it goes! Here is a relationship rule for me:If I’m in a relationship with you, I promise,- To always put you in first.- To put in 110% effort into our relationship.- To care for you.- To never cheat on you.- To stay loyal and honest.- To be there for you always.- To share memories good or bad with you.- To make wonderful memories with you.- To listen to you.- To always try my best to make you smile.- To always communicate.- To keep you happy.- To keep US happy!Here is a great thought I will share: "The most useful asset of a person is not a head full of knowledge but a heart full of love, with ears open to listen and hands willing to help"Please have a picture with your profile because I took the time to post mine, which are current within the last 18 months. I have been told that I look exactly like my pictures. I am not interested in a quick hook up or serial dating so if that is a priority for you, just keep on looking.Age is only a number, I might be 51 but I have the energy of a 40 year old and I don't look 50 so I am told. I love life so lets enjoy it!Best of Luck.***\\***Please***\\\***Put This***On Your***Profile If***You Know---\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***Or Who May Be Fighting It Let's meet in a place where we can talk and get to know one another. A coffee shop, happy hour, a walk around the lake or a trail, we could bring my dog :) something casual.

  • Ornat

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    My profile... been single for 10 years divorced for 7 have three adults 3 grandkids I am empty-nesting self employedI was just thinking about some things that I would want you to know about me. I am quiet, honest, funny, loyal, try to live by the standards that I have sometimes that is hard to do. I don't take myself too seriously, I don't think.I like Classic Rock, gardening, camping.I got to have time to plant a garden this year Yay I had tomatoes okra spinach lettuce popcorn and sweet corn lettuce a few other things Oh I tried growing cotton that was my fun experiment garlic in the fall. Meet for drinks then decide what to do next.

  • Eldreda

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    My photos are current to a couple of years old. I am a fun, sincere, romantic, compassionate, down to earth woman with a great sense of humor. Most of the time, I am a pretty outgoing, upbeat person. I am Christian and have been making our Lord an important part of my life. I love meeting new people and consider myself a good conversationalist. I am pretty self sufficient but lack the special person in my life. I have a good heart and alot of love to give to some special guy. It would be nice to find someone with similar interests to do things with and see if anything develops. I have five children, and we are a very close family. I love good music, concerts, movies (in and out), dining out, picnics, horseback riding (my fav), Broncos and Rockies; taking a drive in the mountains, road trips, casinos, barbecues, kids, dogs, and family time. I am also happy just snuggle on the couch with someone I care about. I am looking for someone who is sincere, caring, and passionate in love and life. He also has a great sense of humor and is not afraid to be silly at times. He will be someone who wants to go places and experience new adventures together. I am hoping he may also want to attend church with me. I am hoping he is romantic, not afraid to show affection in public, and loves to cuddle (asking too much?) He would be willing to develop a friendship, hopefully progressing into something meaningful. Because, I feel that a strong friendship is the foundation of a good relationship. Somewhere we can talk to learn more about each other. What makes him laugh; what does he enjoy doing in his spare time; his hobbies, etc. I am willing to meet in a public place for a drink or dinner (don't really drink coffee much). If we don't click, we at least will have had a nice time.

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