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Ashleigh, 51
United States, Maine, Bucksport

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About Me

I can be the most simplistic, or the most complicated person. I believe equality in a relationship is important. If a man can not be honest and respectful yet, still stand his ground, then there is no point in furthering communication. Im the type of woman that loves to just sit at home and enjoy t.v. on the couch with my (grown) kids, or a nice night out on the town with a lovely gentleman who also has an outgoing side. I have a slightly thick german accent (proud german!) but am no stranger to the english language! Im very open minded and am open to new and exciting adventures! I am profficient at german cuisines and very affectionate but never too clingy. Individuality is important to me. Also love to laugh.I need to make something clear, because I get asked why I picked German as my 2nd language..... read..... can't you figure out...???? I'm German!!! Came here in 93....If you post a pic of you and a fish, dog, sheep whatever the heck you have.....that's a turn off.....pls u all.... don't do this...it's a big no, no....btw....I don't like body hairs or beards.....ugh. Do not contact me if you younger than 45 or older than 55.... I love surprises, so if you will...surprise me. Little hints, love the beach, sunbathing and the mountans. Don't care hanging out in night clubs to much, but every now and then a night out in town, Im up for it!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese South American Action Mystery Computer Games
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

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