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Milan, 54
United States, Maine, Brewer

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About Me

I am interested in a progressive, intelligent, caring, evolved man who cares about the world and its problems, who is self aware, not a workaholic or any other kind of -olic or a religious fanatic, but spiritual in nature. My ideal man would be romantic and think of me when we were not together--I hope I would have given him reason to do so. I am tactile and love touching and showing affection but am not quick to do so. I guess I am reserved until I get to know you. Sometimes that only takes 15 minutes . . . it depends on whether we click or not. If you make me laugh, I might be wiping food off your face.I love to cook and do so for friends and family when time allows.Things I would like to do with my significant other are to learn line dancing or contra dancing, tai-chi, yoga, and pottery. For that, you get to choose four of your own that do not require me to jump from high places or ride on motorcycles or boats or scuba dive. I don't like heights, I get motion sick, and I am claustrophobic, but other than that, I am totally normal!I love to laugh at my own foibles. I have an irreverent sense of humor. I make others laugh because I am a klutz and am known to knock things over, fall, or to walk around with TP stuck to my shoe. I am good-natured and so won't get mad if you laugh when I do fall. Just help me up, please?I seek a guy who doesn't value possessions over people. I have been trying to shed more of them as I get older so that I can leave this world the way I came into it: naked, broke, and preferably still owing my student loans!I am more attracted to intelligence and kindness. I like geeky intellectuals but who are passionate underneath--something only I get to see :)I seek a man who is non-judgmental, embraces diversity, is romantic, is a great kisser; who practices random acts of kindness, who will bring me wildflowers, and who will challenge me to be better--emotionally, physically, and intellectually.I root for the underdog. My son is a manager and has me hooked up. I can then meet in the lunch room with all of the other folks who got their MFAs and we can eat our PBJs and talk about deconstructionist theory or post modern hermeneutics. Any live small venue concert is great, preferably folk!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Drama Music Archery Snowboarding
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