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Cecile, 51
United States, Maine, Brewer

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About Me

~You can tell a lot by the way a man walks. Like, if he's walking away, he's probably not into you.~I'm aiming for one man that's sincere, fun loving, laid-back, intelligent, and kind...and slightly warped since he'll need to be able to 'get' me. I'm hoping to eventually find myself in a committed relationship, but we have to start somewhere.You don't need me to fix you, nor do I need your control.~You say "tomato," I say "tomato," and there-we've written our own wedding vows.~I'm 51 going on 31, a small town girl with big city smarts. I’m fun to be with, and I know this because I am with me all of the time ;)Most of the time, I'm confident, independent and happy-go-lucky. I'm creative and I'd like to think that I'm intelligent, and sometimes, I'm rather indecisive. I'll admit that I am chubby, but I am well proportioned and enjoy being oh-so-feminine. I try and stay active and would prefer to be outside doing anything, than inside doing nothing.I smile a lot. I'd really like to meet someone and give him a reason to smile :) "Are you single? No, I'm in a committed, long term conversation about where to have dinner." We can both decide what to do when we cross that bridge, but definitely nothing involving a dead hockey player.We both know that it's that elusive chemistry that will determine if we are going to meet again.I'll be happy to meet in public to make sure that you are not a homicidal sociopath with a penchant for axe murders. If you are extremely good looking, I'll consider overlooking those minor character flaws.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Watching TV Caribbean French Indian Turkish Action Family & Kids Fantasy Tennis To Work Out
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