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Melony, 53
United States, Maine, Brewer

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About Me

I am an educated, confident, witty, and sometimes flirtatious.. business owner who is looking for a man who can hold his own... taller side,(OVER 5'9')"good shape" no spare tires except on your car!...hopefully you take care of yourself! I know men want the same from women! (Admit it--you know you do!) If you are a classy, educated man with a bit of an "edge", a little bit of that bad boy side... always attractive...Physical attraction--chemistry..is a must! And that is not something you can put into words or on a profile page. It is a feeling that exists between a man and woman without that feeling...I am an affectionate woman, extremely giving and typically go the extra mile to make someone happy. I am one who puts another's needs before my own. Ask anyone who knows me-they all want me to adopt them...I am not possessive, clingy or jealous, but I would like to be a priority, at least get me in the top ten...I am looking for someone who wants to be with me as much as I want to be with them. Are you out there???In my former life, before I became an entrepreneur who drives a sexy, black convertible, I was a great cook, dedicated wife and mother of two (now 23 and ***who drove a van and cleaned a lot! Ugh! That was then... I've lightened the family and husband load and ready for a fresh start.... As a footnote, I was married for over 20 years, and unlike most...I still have a very positive relationship with my X. I know how to make a commitment to a relationship, to another. Respect, decency. I am an excellent communicator, I am a good listener, very honest and open. But developing a good relationship takes time and energy and a willingness to really get to know the other person. To want to know the other person...As a footnote-if you have been cheated on by another woman we will not be a match. I will say, in my experience, men who have been cheated on just can't trust, I am not up to convincing you of my loyalty and commitment despite my previous paragraph so please don't message me. Leave your insecurities at someone else's door.Lisa Handle it, then let me know what to wear...!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Funk Jazz British Irish Middle Eastern Spanish Volleyball
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