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United States, Maine, Bar Harbor

Offline, last seen Wed, 02 Sep 2026 06:26:54

About Me

I am a single mother to two beautiful children, and am lucky enough to have one boy and one girl. They are the light of my life and I enjoy being a mother more than I have ever thought I could. I am also a full time education student at Tarleton University ftw campus and also work for a car dealership as a finance manager. I intend on getting my teaching certification in grades k-6 and hopefully going back to get my masters whenever both children are school age. I am very hard working and everyone always tells me I am such an overachiever in all that I do. I know what I want and I'm not afraid to go after it. I feel like life has given me a second chance more than once, and now I am looking for a partner who can make me better than I already am. My hobbies are anything outdoors. I am currently playing on a kickball team on Thursday nights, and would like to get back into maybe a coed softball team during the fall. I love to go fishing, whether it be on a boat or just a spur of the moment off the pier kind of night. I don't get to go out much but when I do I enjoy going to the stockyards or west 7th area. I listen to mostly country music, but am totally a 90's music lover too... Really to be honest I am looking for someone that can take me and the kids as a package deal and know that they are always going to be my first priority. I want someone that is willing to be a great father figure but wont try to take their father's place. I cant say I know this will be easy, but life is a lesson without a lesson plan and we are all just students ready to learn. I want to find someone to learn with. If you are interested please feel free to ask me any questions and I will always answer honestly. I cant wait to hear from you, and who knows, maybe you are my fish... :) My ideal first date would be to go out for dinner and maybe out for drinks after.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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