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Cassandra, 53

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About Me

So here i am, wondering what it takes to attract the one for me... i don't want to multi-date, so have not responded to many here.. it seems that no one actually makes the plan to meet.. and we all just get lost in cyberspace... why is that? i'm a good catch, i think lol... i like to think i'm sweet-hearted... have gotten hurt but hold no grudges... count my blessings every day... love as much and as often as i can... i believe in being myself at all times... i never pretend... you won't have to wonder what i'm thinking... i'm pretty transparent... um.. i tend to look at things in a unique way most of the time... and i love simple solutions ! i'm happiest when i'm outside, particularly near water.. i'm a mermaid masquerading as a landlubber lol... dream of living on a boat for a while... i've been told i have a calming influence... i do like peace :) but also have a very silly side and snort when i laugh hard.... what else? this is just a little window into who i am and i would love to share more with one special person... cause i'm a one-man woman and that's the only way i roll..lolLove anything outdoors, especially the water.. swimming is my passion... kayak, SCUBA, camping, traveling... lots morealso intellectual and really enjoy stimulating conversation! love to read, write, learn new things... i consider myself a perpetual student of life...as far as what i'm looking for... well, that's hard to say specifically, but i'll know it when i feel it :) let's just meet outside on a bench by the water, have a cup of coffee or an ice cream and talk :) don't have to dress to impress, just be yourself... and no pressure!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Keren-Happuch

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    LET'S GET THIS STRAIGHT....I'm dressed like a friggin' NUN in my photos..no "cuddle time" before meeting and greeting. Just sayin'...I am just a nice girl looking for a nice guy. But not desperate. My time is limited and precious. I am a mom, 4 kids, all older, one still at home for one more year. She is my life. I work hard, I am a student, an artist and I have been on my own for 10 years now. I am baffled as to why the laundry and dishes keep piling up - only me and my girl at home. Mysterious. It is like the missing sock thing. One time I cleaned my dryer vent and found 4 single socks and 20 bucks. Awesome!“'But I don’ 'Oh, you can’t help that,' said the Cat. 'We’re all mad here. I’m mad. You’re mad.' 'How do you know I’m mad? 'You must be,” said the Cat. 'or you wouldn’t have come here.'” Meh. That about sums it up.I am a Librarian, tho' my training and education is mostly art and communications. I work all day with children and young people. I am a perpetual student, heading into my 4th year at BCC, slowly working on my second AA, eventually a BA or BS and maybe a Masters someday. I like my space. Raised 4 kids, and did a superb job. They are fabulous. I make great art. I don't much care about how much "stuff" you have. I am not into stuff. I love people and personalities.I love animals, music - mostly listen to country - books, reading, walking, talking, writing...extremely right - brained and mathematically challenged. Oh well. I tried to fish, literally, I mean. With an actual pole and bait. Turned out I was good at spotting bait, digging sand fleas, and snagging rocks. And guarding the cooler. I think that should count for SOMETHING> I like hiking - would prefer the mountains, but like the local nature preserves. Owned a horse in my youth, love to ride. Pretty basic stuff, I oame from a military family, so I am used to uprooting and traveling. I tend towards restlessness at times. I am fairly content with my life. I recently had a life-changing medical scare that put me in a new place of perspective.. Gratitude is key, as is forgiveness, love, faith, understanding and acceptance...rarely is it level. I am capable of drama but do not seek it. No longer so easily rattled. Everything is as it should be.I believe: The best time to plant a tree was 50 years ago...second best time? TODAY. (My Gumbo Limbo is flowering...whooo hooo!!!) I'm drawing a blank. I think of it as a meet and greet, not a date.

  • Lawrence

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hello, Thanks for stopping by.....I am not looking for an *** I believe a relationship has to be built on a firm foundation. If you can't start out as friends, then you have nothing. So, friendship if it develops into more fine, if not it wasn't meant to be I have a friend.I have been a single mom most of my life. My son is grown. He is 23, and I am very proud of him. I live in a rural area. Where the pace is slow. Here it's easy to stop, and look at God creation. Simple things like listening to birds sing. Looking up in the night sky, and seeing the stars. Driving to the pond, an wetting hook hoping catch a fish. I do like to fish. I like to take a Sunday drive to no where. I love to laugh, and love to pick on ones I care about. So, if you can't laugh, and take a joke. Then we probably don't have to much in common. My favorite time of year is the FALL. The changing of the leaves. I guess this is a big part of who I am. I work two jobs, that I like. I am a very independent woman. My family and friends are very important to me. I have a big heart, and I am a very caring person. I am a christian, but don't go to church every Sunday. I like all types of music, except rap... (if i can't understand it, then it's not for me) LOL... I don't play games, don't have time for it. I am a very easy person to talk too. At this point in my life... I would like to have someone that I could develop a true friendship with, and possible over time grow into a relationship. If not, I could always use more friends. I don't like fussing, and caring on.... I just am not going to live my life that way. Gentleman, all I ask is.... I am a lady... and please approach me as such. If you leave me a message, I will respond. Thanks again for your time, Karen :) PS Please don't forget the troops that are serving our country! My thoughts, an prayers go out to them... and there families. I pray for there safety, and quick return home.

  • Yetta

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am fifty but act most tiimes like i am early 40's. I enjoy cooking and baking, gardening and keeping house. I love my kids they are my life but am missing a special relationship that fulfills the areas that they cannot fill. I have recently completed my master's in HR but am still looking for that job that fulfills that criteria. I love country music and some soft jazz and also southern gospel. I believe in being honest and open in a relationship. Meeting for coffee, or a dinner. I also love going to football games. Talk chat just no pressure and see where it goes

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