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Cassandra, 53

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About Me

So here i am, wondering what it takes to attract the one for me... i don't want to multi-date, so have not responded to many here.. it seems that no one actually makes the plan to meet.. and we all just get lost in cyberspace... why is that? i'm a good catch, i think lol... i like to think i'm sweet-hearted... have gotten hurt but hold no grudges... count my blessings every day... love as much and as often as i can... i believe in being myself at all times... i never pretend... you won't have to wonder what i'm thinking... i'm pretty transparent... um.. i tend to look at things in a unique way most of the time... and i love simple solutions ! i'm happiest when i'm outside, particularly near water.. i'm a mermaid masquerading as a landlubber lol... dream of living on a boat for a while... i've been told i have a calming influence... i do like peace :) but also have a very silly side and snort when i laugh hard.... what else? this is just a little window into who i am and i would love to share more with one special person... cause i'm a one-man woman and that's the only way i roll..lolLove anything outdoors, especially the water.. swimming is my passion... kayak, SCUBA, camping, traveling... lots morealso intellectual and really enjoy stimulating conversation! love to read, write, learn new things... i consider myself a perpetual student of life...as far as what i'm looking for... well, that's hard to say specifically, but i'll know it when i feel it :) let's just meet outside on a bench by the water, have a cup of coffee or an ice cream and talk :) don't have to dress to impress, just be yourself... and no pressure!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    I'm looking for a man who is romantic, caring, joyful and loving. I want someone who I can talk to every day as life partner

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am looking for someone to have fun with, to hang out with and explore life with. I am attracted to men that are driven and goal oriented... But must also be fun, funny, romantic. My friends consider me sweet and caring and often a bit goofy! I am easy to get along with and enjoy the simple things in life....although I do like and have the nicer things. I am confident in myself and where I am heading in my life and hope to meet the same....Being able to laugh is very important to me.I am attracted to someone who is good looking (sorry if this make me shallow!), cares about being fit (not obsessed though) and confident. If there is a hope, goal or dream you have, I really like someone that pushes, works and does anything to achieve it. My match would be the type of guy that likes to romp on the beach, hang out to watch the sunset with a few drinks but also enjoy getting dressed up to go into the city for dinner and dancing and some partying fun..... The ability to travel is HUGE as it is an important part of my life. Would love to meet someone to share this with!!!PS - I have 2 daughters that are 28 & ***PLEASE do not contact me if you SHOULD be dating them (as in more age appropriate)! The place doesn't matter - just someone I start a conversation with and it never seems to end.....

  • Elizabet

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hi!I'm looking to date and find a friend that will develop into a relationship now that my kids are old enough to take care of themselves! It's been so long since I could take time for myself! Hobbies: love to golf (but am really bad at it), joined a bowling league so I could have a Saturday night out with some friends, love to ride my bike and take long walks. I do jazzercise 3x a week. I enjoy going to Ravinia and enjoy bringing a picnic basket of food and good wine. I enjoy country music, but listen to anything but rap. I love a good sense of humor in the guy I'm seeing. I like the talkative type vs the quiet type and am easy to talk too. I don't play games; I'm candid and straight forward. I'm down to earth and low maintenance. Love a sense of humor--someone who can make me laugh. Someone to have fun with!I'm not interested in having an affair or sleeping around. Don't bother writing me if that is all you have in mind. I'd like to develop a relationship with the right guy.I don't take good pictures..so don't judge me on looks alone and I won't do the same. But i feel having a profile picture is a good start. I've love to know why guys won't post a picture....I just don't get it. On a first date, I would enjoy going somewhere quite to talk. Just to get to know one another to see if there is any chemistry and find out more about one another. This could be over a cup of coffee (my favorite is Dunkin...but Starbucks is fine too!) or a glass of red wine or taking a long walk. I'm practical and if there is no connection why waste each others time!

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