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Ainsley, 52
United States, Massachusetts, Winthrop

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About Me

Hmmm...describe me... It's probably best if I state what my friends say about me which is sometimes very different from how I would describe myself. So, they say that I'm funny, honest, passionate, smart, fearful, a bit walled off at times, very creative, hard-working, a nerd, intuitive, extremely strong, very helpful, attractive, athletic, analytical, ...Yikes! That's plenty. I obviously have some REALLY GREAT friends. Oh, and I asked my mom to describe me, and she said, ..."well, you're just perfect"... That's probably where I get my sense of humor, and definitely my capacity to love on such a deep level. I moved to CA with the man that I am now divorcing (we separated over three years ago). Divorce-- The marriage was supposed to be 'until death do us part.' I couldn't exactly kill him--that would be immoral. But I refuse to share MY man with other women, so it had to end. I guess I'm selfish that way.I must say, I strongly value honesty. Although I CAN read minds, it's just easier if I don't have to waste my superpowers on someone whose intent is to deceive me. I guess maybe I should be honest then. I don't really have superpowers; hence, no mindreading skills. I do have a bit of women's intuition though, and I pray for clarity on a regular basis. The truth comes out eventually, why not just start with it?I'm told that I'm easy to talk to and actually quite down to earth. I'm somewhat of a homebody, but after 15 years of marriage, I'm finding that I love to get out and socialize on a regular basis. I have a fondness for the dancefloor. I like R&B, rock, and old school music to dance to, but when I'm just listening, I'm country all the way. My favorite hobby is to crochet, but I also love home improvement. There's nothing sexier than a man that can build and fix things. And I definitely want to be right in there helping to get things done.This seems so 'all about me' and one-sided. I think I'd rather have a two way discovery process. Fabulous chemistry is mandatory for that deep connection that I'm looking for. I know there's a man out there that is my everything. I'm ready to find you. I'm a bit old fashioned, so I'll let you decide that one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I'm a single parent of a 12yr old and would like to share my life with someone special, other than just my son. Thorough this process I know more about what I dont want than what I do...it's so confusing, if people wouold just sat what they mean and mean what they say, seriously, how hard is that . My life is pretty stinkin great, so... I know Im not looking for a father for my son, we're fine there, but I would like a partner, a companion , lover (not multiples) a best friend, if I could hope for it all , a travel companion, dance partner., dinner companion, movie buddie...some one to share good times with ..hang at the lake, maybe even camp... I'm a very honest, fun gal, Love to laugh,dance,bbq,fish,campikg (but not roughin it,)work in the yard,movies,dancing,baseball,would like to travel ,and so much moreYou should have a job,no drug or alchol problems, no std's, your teeth, not have a wife, not live with your mother (or father) and your home should not have wheels.I'm not looking to be taken care of, but a partner to share my life with.Being Christan a huge bonus...Really attracted to tall men.I guess I also need to say I'm not looking for just a hook-up (you can find that in a bar even at the bottom of this page), actually looking for a relationship My life is good but it's better shared.

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  • Janel from Winthrop | Woman | 51 years old | Gemini
    Janel

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi well what to say to describe myself, well here it goes. I'm easy going but I also have a fiesty/sassy side. I love to be around people who make me laugh and are positive about life. Life is way to short to sweat the small stuff and friends and family are precious and not to be taken for granted. I'm also a mom of an 9 year old boy who makes me laugh and gives life lots of challenge on a regular basis while at the same time he lets that fun little kid that I still have tucked inside me out to play. So you ask, what kind of guy are you looking for one who is sweet and honest but can also be edgey. He should be a good communicator but not a game player. A guy who is not afraid too say what's on his mind. If you want to know anything else just ask.Good luck with the fishing. a fun 1st date should be something simple a walk a coffee or a drink or whatever sounds like a good idea.

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  • Vashti from Winthrop | Woman | 51 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I had a waterski pic as my main photo but meetville removed it because it supposedly didn't show my face. It was small but my face was shown. Lots of guys were viewing my profile. I guess meetville doesn't like that many people looking at a profile. I'm down to earth, a nice person and like helping others. I am passionate about water skiing, but really only when it's warm out and when the water is pretty calm. It would be great if you enjoy it, but it's not a requirement. It would be nice if you are passionate about something in life. I'd like to find someone to share some interests in, but they don't need to be identical. I'd like to find someone that has similar values. I've raised 3 children and feel I'd get along best with someone that has children, but I'd be willing to give a chance to a guy that doesn't have any. I've been told I'm fun and cute. I'd love to find a great guy and have a relationship. Somethings shouldn't need to be stated. Cheating and dishonesty are unacceptable. Things I like to do: watch my daughter's college softball games and try to take great action shots, play softball, volleyball, people watch, listen to music, live music, dance, swim, and boating/water skiing. Open to lots of things. Enjoying life. For music, my favorite radio stations are My FM, K-Hits, The Drive and The River. I like a lot of 80's music but also newer stuff. Enjoying life. I'd Ike to find someone to share this journey. Can you help a girl out? If you think you could help me write a better profile, I'm all ears. I'd like go out for a drink, breakfast, lunch, dinner, or ice cream and get a chance to talk to see if there's mutual interest. Sorry, I don't meet for coffee. I don't drink it nor tea, so that wouldn't be a fun date for me. This is supposed to be about having fun. I prefer a guy to make the first contact so if I viewed your profile and didn't write, I very well might be interested. I'm looking forward to hearing from you.

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