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Hmmm...describe me... It's probably best if I state what my friends say about me which is sometimes very different from how I would describe myself. So, they say that I'm funny, honest, passionate, smart, fearful, a bit walled off at times, very creative, hard-working, a nerd, intuitive, extremely strong, very helpful, attractive, athletic, analytical, ...Yikes! That's plenty. I obviously have some REALLY GREAT friends. Oh, and I asked my mom to describe me, and she said, ..."well, you're just perfect"... That's probably where I get my sense of humor, and definitely my capacity to love on such a deep level. I moved to CA with the man that I am now divorcing (we separated over three years ago). Divorce-- The marriage was supposed to be 'until death do us part.' I couldn't exactly kill him--that would be immoral. But I refuse to share MY man with other women, so it had to end. I guess I'm selfish that way.I must say, I strongly value honesty. Although I CAN read minds, it's just easier if I don't have to waste my superpowers on someone whose intent is to deceive me. I guess maybe I should be honest then. I don't really have superpowers; hence, no mindreading skills. I do have a bit of women's intuition though, and I pray for clarity on a regular basis. The truth comes out eventually, why not just start with it?I'm told that I'm easy to talk to and actually quite down to earth. I'm somewhat of a homebody, but after 15 years of marriage, I'm finding that I love to get out and socialize on a regular basis. I have a fondness for the dancefloor. I like R&B, rock, and old school music to dance to, but when I'm just listening, I'm country all the way. My favorite hobby is to crochet, but I also love home improvement. There's nothing sexier than a man that can build and fix things. And I definitely want to be right in there helping to get things done.This seems so 'all about me' and one-sided. I think I'd rather have a two way discovery process. Fabulous chemistry is mandatory for that deep connection that I'm looking for. I know there's a man out there that is my everything. I'm ready to find you. I'm a bit old fashioned, so I'll let you decide that one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Manda

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    This is a mystery, how does one express the multi-faceted three dimensional in a two dimensional form? And yet, here we are!I am happy because I choose to be! Life is an adventure, enjoy the ride! I am complex not complicated. I need, I am not needy. I am self aware, adaptable, easy going, tolerant and loving; that doesn't make me a door mat. Passion does not equal drama, I am looking to create a life of passion. Everyday is an opportunity to create something new. It doesn't matter where I go, it matters who I am with. Take me to the symphony one night and a dive bar the next, it's all good. I have the personality of a cat and the soul of a dog. If you understand animals that will make sense.I am here to meet my best friend. I am here to find my life partner. Someone I can have fun with doing absolutely nothing. Someone to climb mountains and explore the world with, who can also lay on the couch and watch a movie. It doesn't matter what you have, I want to know who you are and how you treat the people in your life. You prefer talking about ideas and action more than people and things. I want to know who you are, not what you do. I want to know if you know who you are. If your profile is incomplete, I can only assume you don't. I need a man of integrity who knows the value of being his word. "The only way you know you love yourself and others is by the commitments you are willing to make and keep", Dr. I am whole and complete, I do not need someone to complete me. I am honest, loyal, trustworthy, and dependable. If a friend in need calls at 4am, I am there. I am the friend who will help you move, lol. I am looking for a mate that has those same kind of friendships in his life. I am silly and playful, but please don't doubt that I can be serious at times as well. I enjoy a good banter. I have conviction with out the need to be right. I need to feel attracted, but that doesn't mean that magazine cover looks are required. Beauty is in the "heart" of this beholder. I am passionate about life and love. I am constantly growing and evolving, I want someone to grow and evolve with. Everyday is an opportunity to change for the better. I have a massive capacity to love. Relationships may be work, but that doesn't mean it can't be fun!!My pictures are current, I weigh ***lbs, and I am really 51........ 'cause why would I lie about that!!! lol.I appreciate all those who are interested, but honestly, I will only respond to those who are geographically desirable and have photos posted. If you do not have a clear full face photo posted I will not respond. There is only one real way to know if there is a connection and that is to meet. Love is always thirstyand looking for a thirsty lover.Love and lover follow each otherlike day and night.- Rumi --Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. Depends.........second date, that is another story!

  • Erica

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Thank you for reading my profile. I am a lady who is pretty easy going, a positive thinker, down to earth and appreciates a peaceful environment. I get along with about everybody. I love being able to be outdoors for 12 months out of the year. I enjoy wine tasting, sports, museums, the beach, movies, stock market, current events, family, friends, yoga, fine dining and traveling, of course. I would like to learn how to play golf in my life.I am an entrepreneur and am able to be free to pursue other interests and experiences. I am looking for a partner who is as easygoing, confident, intelligent, successful in his profession,well rounded and balanced, educated and loves to have fun. Other intersts include entertaining, cooking, weekend getaways, live music, visiting new places,sunsets, getting together with mutual friends, quiet evenings/candlelight, dinners at home or a nice restaurant. I enjoy many types of music. It's not the activity but enjoying the other person's company with new experiences.I am new to this venue and hoping to find my soulmate.... We can decide that when the opportunity arises....

  • Carlisa

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I love the out doors ,fishing ,hunting,hiking.I'm a mother of ***boys, 2 girls,one of wich is still living with me at home ***.I love to go dancing,but i also like some quiet time at home,just sitting and chating with a friend. Our first date ,would be to go chat at a coffee shop ,or a movie,Or a long walk on the beach.

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