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Harrietta, 51

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About Me

Just cking this out. Evolved from looking for friends to wanting to date. Summer is here and I am tired of being cooped up.UpDate Okay... its time to add on some personal info. I've put it off as long as I could. I had a profile up several months ago. It described me and what I was wanting (then) nicely. I was mainly looking for friends (again, then). I've made several great friends, appreciate, treasure and hang out with them. Couple of dates hurt my feelings, couple were bizarre, couple were compared to a teeth cleaning.... but overall it was great experience. I learned alot. Since then, I've had couple big life events that opened my eyes, my heart and my mind. I realized that I wanted someone more significant to share those cool, fun things in life. ME: Direct, but politeHonest, but kind Funny, but a bit smartass Friendly, but not a pushoverOutgoing, but not obnoxious Independant, but not a b***hHappy, but a bit lonelyAdventurous, but responsibleRomantic, but not sappyCurious, but not noseyPassionate, but not wild. Well... okay ??? Intuitive, but won't questionListener, but not shyGreat Mom, but need more ME life Respectful, but not judgementalStrong, but gratefulGreat friend, Always YOU: Goodlooking, Sexy, Built, Rich, Well Read, Traveled Extensively, Well Mannered.... WAIT! Bachelorette was on in another room, that was her list. Dream On Chica! HAYOU are a mystery to be unfolded, a surprise to be enjoyed. You will be an enhancement to my strengths and a compliment to my weaknesses. You will be the *** my laughter. You will be the cause of the nervous flutter in the pit of my stomach. And hopefully you will make me breathless from your kisses. Thats right, you HAVE to be a good kisser! Bonus points if kissing was on your activity list. Outside Patio for wine, maybe a great walk along the creek. Great conversation after the initial agonizing first five minutes that everyone seems to think you can tell the chemistry from.... yeah, right????

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ainsley

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hmmm...describe me... It's probably best if I state what my friends say about me which is sometimes very different from how I would describe myself. So, they say that I'm funny, honest, passionate, smart, fearful, a bit walled off at times, very creative, hard-working, a nerd, intuitive, extremely strong, very helpful, attractive, athletic, analytical, ...Yikes! That's plenty. I obviously have some REALLY GREAT friends. Oh, and I asked my mom to describe me, and she said, ..."well, you're just perfect"... That's probably where I get my sense of humor, and definitely my capacity to love on such a deep level. I moved to CA with the man that I am now divorcing (we separated over three years ago). Divorce-- The marriage was supposed to be 'until death do us part.' I couldn't exactly kill him--that would be immoral. But I refuse to share MY man with other women, so it had to end. I guess I'm selfish that way.I must say, I strongly value honesty. Although I CAN read minds, it's just easier if I don't have to waste my superpowers on someone whose intent is to deceive me. I guess maybe I should be honest then. I don't really have superpowers; hence, no mindreading skills. I do have a bit of women's intuition though, and I pray for clarity on a regular basis. The truth comes out eventually, why not just start with it?I'm told that I'm easy to talk to and actually quite down to earth. I'm somewhat of a homebody, but after 15 years of marriage, I'm finding that I love to get out and socialize on a regular basis. I have a fondness for the dancefloor. I like R&B, rock, and old school music to dance to, but when I'm just listening, I'm country all the way. My favorite hobby is to crochet, but I also love home improvement. There's nothing sexier than a man that can build and fix things. And I definitely want to be right in there helping to get things done.This seems so 'all about me' and one-sided. I think I'd rather have a two way discovery process. Fabulous chemistry is mandatory for that deep connection that I'm looking for. I know there's a man out there that is my everything. I'm ready to find you. I'm a bit old fashioned, so I'll let you decide that one.

  • Tempest

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    The best things are the simple things, don't you think? Good friends, engrossing conversation with bright people, live music, campfires, good meals, flowers blooming: the list is endless, really. Your list may differ, but think about it. Doesn't it all boil down to attitude? I've heard as much as 95% of our life can be attributed to our attitude. And I agree. If you choose to look at the positive side you are someone I'd love to meet. My life is good; full of fun and interests and friends I love and respect. You may infer something's missing from my good life, I'm not in a panic about it, but let's see what happens. You? A new friend? Could be one of those simple "best" things. However, let's be clear: grey hair, receding hair, no hair? I don't care. A good physique? I care. Call me superficial (but no more so than any man); I work to remain fit and slim. I'd appreciate the same effort from you. Please be aware I'm tall. And I adore high heels. That usually puts me at, oh, 6' in height.-existent I'll be romantically interested in someone short.Thanks for stopping by, and in the interest of being straight-forward, some of my photos date back to July ***. Not much has changed.... Let's not expect too much. Casual is good. A game of pool, a beer or glass of wine, conversation? Weather permitting, a walk around the reservoir?

  • Sade

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I enjoy the simple things in life, but I want to find that special person to shsre my heart with. I am comfortable on the water fishing or at any formal affair. My family is a very important part of my life as is my dog.. I enjoy walking on beach, watching the sunset or snuggling by a fire . I am looking for my best friend, my as well as my partner for life. I want someone that makes me smile when he walks into a room and holds me in his arms until we fall asleep. I think the first date should be somewhere where each person is comfortable. Maybe dinner and drinks at a quiet place .

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