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Mirtha, 53

United States, Massachusetts, Winthrop

Offline, last seen Sat, 22 Aug 2026 13:48:09

About Me

I am looking for a man that already has his own car (transportation), own home (apartment), own money. I already have a son and don't need another one. I am fun loving. I see the fun side of everything. I can take care of myself so I'm not looking for a man to take care of me, but I'm not taking care of him. I am brutally honest - if you don't want to know - don't ask me. I am a flirt - I can not handle jealous men. I have alot of friends of all ages ***. I like people until they give me a reason not to. If I become your friend, you have a friend for life. I am friends with all my exes even my ex-husband. You should never burn bridges.My work is important to me and I put in overtime. I'm going through a time in my life where I am trying to grow up and forgive those who have wronged me in the past. I've always considered myself unique in the way I think about things and react to things. I'm not your average gal. I've always been considered one of the guys. I'm not the jealous type and I love my independence. My music taste runs from old rock to new country.As an update, I don't want to spend all my time outdoors with you hunting and fishing. I prefer to sit by the pool in the sun. If you want somebody to do all those outdoor activities with you, call one of your guy pals. lol I love UK basketball and like soccer. My son coaches soccer thus my love of it. My children are grown and on their own and I'm just waiting for grandbabies to spoil. I don't want to raise your kids. I've done my duty and done a pretty good job if I must say so myself. My kids are awesome. They grew into wonderful adults that I enjoy spending time with.I have 3 dogs that I adore and treat like children, so you must love dogs and be willing to share me with them. They think I am their Mommy and that is just the way it is at my house. I am a social drinker but don't confuse that as being a dumb drunk. I have no excess baggage. I'm comfortable with myself and don't mind being alone, just not all the time. Meet for a drink and appetizers after work. If that works out make a date for something else.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rock Romance
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