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Shanda, 54

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About Me

Hi. I don't really have a secret. They just force you to write something catchy. The truth is that I am very recentlyseparated and am looking for a quirky, intelligent interesting man that will enjoy the company of a quirky intelligent interesting woman.It all sounds so cliche but I like to take moonlit walks, love candlelight and romantic places, enjoy almost all typesof music......sorry not an opera nor county music fan.......lolI have a son that I adore and four pets with very unique personalities......I am a youthful looking woman.....take pretty good care of myself and I am looking for a man who does the same.It is both daunting and challenging to begin a new chapter in life but I am looking forward to each new experience.I used to have a very very unusual job.....locally.... Which perhaps I will share with you. ;-)Please do not message me unless you have realistic pictures of yourself. Somewhere laid back where we can talk and see if there is a mutual connection. Coffee or a drink?????

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ainsley

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hmmm...describe me... It's probably best if I state what my friends say about me which is sometimes very different from how I would describe myself. So, they say that I'm funny, honest, passionate, smart, fearful, a bit walled off at times, very creative, hard-working, a nerd, intuitive, extremely strong, very helpful, attractive, athletic, analytical, ...Yikes! That's plenty. I obviously have some REALLY GREAT friends. Oh, and I asked my mom to describe me, and she said, ..."well, you're just perfect"... That's probably where I get my sense of humor, and definitely my capacity to love on such a deep level. I moved to CA with the man that I am now divorcing (we separated over three years ago). Divorce-- The marriage was supposed to be 'until death do us part.' I couldn't exactly kill him--that would be immoral. But I refuse to share MY man with other women, so it had to end. I guess I'm selfish that way.I must say, I strongly value honesty. Although I CAN read minds, it's just easier if I don't have to waste my superpowers on someone whose intent is to deceive me. I guess maybe I should be honest then. I don't really have superpowers; hence, no mindreading skills. I do have a bit of women's intuition though, and I pray for clarity on a regular basis. The truth comes out eventually, why not just start with it?I'm told that I'm easy to talk to and actually quite down to earth. I'm somewhat of a homebody, but after 15 years of marriage, I'm finding that I love to get out and socialize on a regular basis. I have a fondness for the dancefloor. I like R&B, rock, and old school music to dance to, but when I'm just listening, I'm country all the way. My favorite hobby is to crochet, but I also love home improvement. There's nothing sexier than a man that can build and fix things. And I definitely want to be right in there helping to get things done.This seems so 'all about me' and one-sided. I think I'd rather have a two way discovery process. Fabulous chemistry is mandatory for that deep connection that I'm looking for. I know there's a man out there that is my everything. I'm ready to find you. I'm a bit old fashioned, so I'll let you decide that one.

  • Yun

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am an easy going person and generally very positive attitude, I like people who are the same type personality, I don't usually care for people who are down on themselves all the time. I am looking for someone to spend time with and be friends because I believe that is the best way to begin a relationship, if something more develops that would be wonderful. I really miss having someone that I look forward to coming home to. I am someone who loves doing little things for the special person in my life so that they know how much I care about them. Also enjoy spending time with family but at this point in my life my children are grown and it would be nice to have someone to spend time with. If you are interested in knowing more send me a message. I love to be outdoors doing pretty much anything. I like traveling even if it is just a long weekend trip just to get away from the day to day routine. I work in an office all week so when I get off of work I enjoy being outside whether it is taking a walk, cooking out with friends and family, camping or just sitting around a fire. Also enjoy riding motorcycles and would like to one day learn to ride and get my own bike. Enjoy pretty much all types of music except for rap. I have grandsons who play football and enjoy watching them. I enjoy spending time with the people in my life who are important to me and letting them know they are loved. I am a very upbeat optimistic person, you will usually see me with a smile and I do not stress the little things in life. I also tend to look for good in everything and everyone around me. At this point in life I know that time passes really quickly so I try to enjoy every minute of every day, at times with the right company anything you do can be fun. Just looking to meet someone who is truly interested in really getting to know each other and have real relationship as friends first and then see where it goes.I saw this statement on someone's profile and really think it is true so I decided to add it to my profile. "God determines who walks into your life....it is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go". Depends on the person but usually dinner in a quiet place so that you can talk and get to know each other is a great start

  • Artie

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hi! I am fun loving, faithful, affectionate and honest and love to spend time with family and friends. I have a good sense of humor and love to make people laugh. I have 2 grown sons and welcome someone who also has children. I like movies, watching TV, miniature golf, listening to bands, dancing, skating, going to the gym. and am looking forward to new adventures. I like classic rock, soft rock and some blues. I am looking for someone who is honest, faithful and fun and who is looking for new adventures together. I don't like to argue and don't like a lot of drama. I like to take life one day at a time, don't sweat the small stuff, life is too short. If I view your profile and don't contact you, it doesn't mean I am not interested. If you are interested in a normal, long term, monogamous, loving and fun relationship, *** we we see where it goes. Thanks for stopping by my profile!!!!

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