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Zenia, 53

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About Me

I am a widow of going on 6 years now and decided it was time for me to find someone to have a relationship of some sorts with. It would be nice to have someone to do fun things with like going for a walk or hike - not too fast that we couldn't talk. I'd also like someone to go out to eat. go to a movie or a nice ride out in the country.I'm mellow, kind, sweet, and affectionate. I'd like to think I'm a bit humorous and love, absolutely love, to laugh. My pictures are pretty much current unless otherwise stated. I wish the same from you.I'm a proud veteran of the U.S. Army. I finished high school in the allotted time and took several years of classes after that at various universities and colleges. Nothing will compare to my military training. (Except being a mother - that was the bomb!)I don't do politics, world news or religion. I do believe and was raised Episcopalian/Anglican Catholic if that means anything to you.I live for music. Most anything but rap or wicked heavy metal. Being a music snob, to me, means I love music, listen to it all the time and often control what others listen to.Just recently stopped smoking and drinking and am putting a serious effort into leading a healthy lifestyle and would love someone in that same frame of mind. Having said that, I do not mind someone who smokes or drinks as long as it's not in excess. I'm not into sloppy, smelly kisses or anything that may hinder your performance.Serendipity is my favorite word.I'm looking for a companion/best friend as that makes the best long term relationship. Coffee or a beverage first for a meet and greet to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Friendly, loving, slightly impatient, kind, smart, inquisitive, genuine, serious, funny. I am kind hearted and quick witted. I love philosophical and religious discussions as well as laughing as much as possible. I try to live every day to the fullest and try not to take the important stuff for granted like life, health, loved ones.I titled myself 'sapiophile' from the drop-down menu because I didn't see anything I truly related to otherwise. I'm not that well-versed but I am very quick to catch on and love to learn. I like trying new things, going places I haven't been, meeting new people. I am happy being in a crowd of people or being alone. I am a very well adjusted person for the most part. But, lean toward being a type A personality. I have no weird kinks or habits (at least none that I have been made aware of). I hope to always be learning something in life - growing spiritually and mentally. I have no need to try and change or control anyone or for anyone to try to change or control me. I am told I do look like my photos (or better) and they are current. I'm not perfect but I am happy and I am real. I am fairly slender and active but am working on being more athletic.-seeing, etc.Perhaps I am one of the few but I have never been drawn to 'bad boys'. I like honest, kind, sweet men who are secure in who they are and don't have a need to prove something to others. I have always been a go-getter, taken care of others and myself and like people that have a lot of energy to put into life. I like people with a high IQ and an even higher EQ and just get life without a lot of explanation. I also like people who don't feel a great need to teach or correct others...I am looking for a man who loves life, loves people, is kind hearted, smart as hell and wants to find their lifelong mate. I am looking for a genuine friend/lover/mate someone who is looking to invest themselves in a long-term relationship. Someone who has some kind of active faith in God or a healthy inquisitiveness at least...I have a lot to give and am looking for someone that wants to give back. Meet after work casually for a walk on the beach or PB boardwalk or for a drink to see if there is a spark...

  • Sade

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I enjoy the simple things in life, but I want to find that special person to shsre my heart with. I am comfortable on the water fishing or at any formal affair. My family is a very important part of my life as is my dog.. I enjoy walking on beach, watching the sunset or snuggling by a fire . I am looking for my best friend, my as well as my partner for life. I want someone that makes me smile when he walks into a room and holds me in his arms until we fall asleep. I think the first date should be somewhere where each person is comfortable. Maybe dinner and drinks at a quiet place .

  • Avalona

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Seriously, after looking around here for awhile, my head is spinning. Everyone putting their best foot forward, I am just gonna be me, who I am, because I am best at that. Oh yeah, that is my best foot. I seem to know better what I don't want than what I do want. For now it would be fun to go oot to coffee or meet casually, see if we click and then see what happens. I am a busy lady, ultimately looking for ltr and would like to enjoy the trip there. Of course I am not perfect, not the most beautiful, the best cook, smartest or funniest woman in the world, but the right man will think I am darn close. And I will think that of him as well. I am old school and am not likely to be the one to initiate contact, if you'd like to know more, drop me a note. Coffee at a local coffee house makes the way for conversation, people watching in a relaxed setting-

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