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Zenia, 53

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About Me

I am a widow of going on 6 years now and decided it was time for me to find someone to have a relationship of some sorts with. It would be nice to have someone to do fun things with like going for a walk or hike - not too fast that we couldn't talk. I'd also like someone to go out to eat. go to a movie or a nice ride out in the country.I'm mellow, kind, sweet, and affectionate. I'd like to think I'm a bit humorous and love, absolutely love, to laugh. My pictures are pretty much current unless otherwise stated. I wish the same from you.I'm a proud veteran of the U.S. Army. I finished high school in the allotted time and took several years of classes after that at various universities and colleges. Nothing will compare to my military training. (Except being a mother - that was the bomb!)I don't do politics, world news or religion. I do believe and was raised Episcopalian/Anglican Catholic if that means anything to you.I live for music. Most anything but rap or wicked heavy metal. Being a music snob, to me, means I love music, listen to it all the time and often control what others listen to.Just recently stopped smoking and drinking and am putting a serious effort into leading a healthy lifestyle and would love someone in that same frame of mind. Having said that, I do not mind someone who smokes or drinks as long as it's not in excess. I'm not into sloppy, smelly kisses or anything that may hinder your performance.Serendipity is my favorite word.I'm looking for a companion/best friend as that makes the best long term relationship. Coffee or a beverage first for a meet and greet to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Maryjo

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a woman, a mother, and successful career professional who is in love with life, the warmth of the sun on my skin, and the beauty of nature. I maxed out my retirement at my job with 34 years of creditable service and I retired as of July 1, ***. While I do think I can adjust to this new lifestyle, I expect it to be temporary and do intend to return to work until my youngest son is through college. For now I'm decompressing, having some fun, doing some house projects (yes, I'm quite handy for a lady) and eventually I'll seek employment again. I'm not a lady who sits idle, so for me busy is good and my guy needs to be able to keep up the pace.I thrive on soaking up the sun, love digging in the dirt to see what flowers I can grow or landscaping project I can undertake. I enjoy live music, sports, almost anything that takes me outside, arts, traveling, family time, fine dining, casual entertaining, the beach and the mountains. The beach recharges me and time at my mountain house provides down time, fresh air and is always a nice weekend get away. In ***I was introduced to the fun of couples dancing and came to enjoy East & West Coast Swing, and a few other dances. If you enjoy couples dancing, you get bonus points and if you love swing, then double points for you, as I really do want to dance regularly again.Having lost loved ones, I know how fragile life can be. I value life, family, honesty, health. I try to be positive, make the most of each moment, eat healthy, exercise and work hard at everything I do. I made the switch to a vegetarian diet June ***. I value both organic and vegan diets, but am far from those diets at this point. I have no expectations of a vegetarian partner, but I do want a partner who will encourage me to exercise as I continue my journey to a healthier lifestyle. I work hard to remain at my ideal weight, am far from perfect and don't seek perfection, but I'm not attracted to men who are over weight. Therefore, I seek a slim, toned or athletic individual, not someone significantly over weight.I am emotionally and financially stable, so I don't "need" but do "want" a relationship. The quality man I seek should be of similar age, and understand that with a 17 year old son, I am first a mom. While dating, I hope to meet someone with whom I can eventually build a trusting relationship with a view toward an eventual long term exclusive relationship. That having been said, I seek a man who is happy, makes me laugh, values nutrition, health, shares values, pleasures, respects me and is a true gentleman. I want my partner to know how to dress when we go out, to know and use manners, open doors for me and his reassuring arm on me should give me that, "I am his his lady" feeling. Don't be mistaken, he should have enough bad boy in him to cause me to smile and shake my head in amazement at times. A beginning with physical attraction, common interests, friendship, laughter, respect and trust should be a great foundation for a solid friendship and potential relationship. My children include a married daughter, a son age 21 and a son age 17, who have always been the center of my world. My daughter graduated college, works and gave our family a beautiful child Nov ***. My oldest son is a Senior at UGA this fall (Go Dawgs!) and my youngest son is a Junior in high school. As I reflect, their childhood days have passed at lightening speed. I'm enjoying the last couple of years with a son still home, yet beginning to consider and embrace the many transitions ahead, this new phase of life....retirement, returning to the work force for a second but brief career, and the youngest son eventually leaving the nest.I am a woman with many skills,enjoy order, a well maintained yard and home. I'm comfortable in jeans/shorts and a "T", but also have an assortment of little black dresses, heels and jewelry to dress up and join you on the town. I love concerts, dancing, live music, or a quiet evening at home with my man sharing a beer by the pool or a bottle of wine as we make dinner. I want to meet my new best friend, and eventual long term partner. We are not all going to have that essential chemistry or be partners, but I will try to respond to those who contact me, for everyone deserves words and acknowledgement.I never planned to grow old alone and I still don't; However, I won't settle, so this search seems to be long and ongoing. Thanks for reading my profile. God's speed on your journey and may good health and happiness be abundant in your life as we each search for that one person who may become our life partner. "It is a funny thing about life; if you refuse to accept anything but the best you very often get it". ~W. A coffee shop in the morning, a restaurant for lunch, an appetizer, a beer, a glass of wine, dinner, a frozen yogurt or a walk in the park. Anything goes as long as it affords both the opportunity to determine if we each wish to spend additional time together. Following us meeting, if we wish to see one another again, a first date could be anything we mutually decide. Surprise me and make a suggestion!

  • Caterina

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am your basic girl next door looking for a "cyber connection" the same as you. I am not into casually dating. If I don't answer your ***, please don't take offense. It isn't because I don't want to, it is because when I do and say "thanks but I do not think we are a match", I've gotten mean *** My preferences for my "future cyber connection":1 Still has a career or if retired, very active in something.2 Loves his family and is close to them. 7 Close to my age a little younger or older is fine. I feel I look and act young so looking for similar.8 Doesn't have small children. Sorry, been there done that. As for me, I'm a CFO/CPA for a retail diamond company by day and a CPA by night. I keep busy, but for the right "connection", I find plenty of time for us.I have traveled the world and still love to travel, but I keep it close to home these days due to all the unrest in the world of flying. (Unless you talk me into somewhere...lol)I am not into *** or talking on the phone alot. I like to meet and see if the "chemistry" is there sooner than later. Drinks somewhere quiet (with appetizer because I can't drink w/o having something on my stomach).I do not drink coffee.

  • Jimmie

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a very laid back and easy going woman. I work at a local Elementary school and I love my job. I like to play cards, sing karaoke go to movies and listen to music. When it comes to the outdoors I like fishing, and I Love the beach. The first date should be somewhere neutral where we can talk and see if we click.

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