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Bernadine, 53

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About Me

I am a very busy woman who has little time for the dating scene, so I will not waste your time or mine if you do not intrigue me. I know what I want, and more importantly, know what I don't want. I like an ambitious man with a great sense of humor. Laziness and a man who drinks too much are two of my biggest turn-offs. I love having fun, new experiences and being adventurous in all aspects of life. Please, no drama & no young children. At this point in my life, I'd like to start enjoying every minute of it and would love for someone to join me. I refuse to ever settle and am looking for a worthy companion... so catch me if you can! Prefer the first date to be short and sweet. Lunch or a drink could work.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elizebeth

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    JUST AN AMERICAN GIRL..... "It is only possible to live happily ever after on a day to day basis."-Bonnano. It's all about attitude!! That would be me. I enjoy being with family and friends (nothing like a good conversation!).... Been a widow for several years now. I was very busy working and raising my son had no time to find "the one" and once he started college and started his own life......That's when I started doing the "dating" scene. If patience is a virtue?!?! GRRR.....Would like to mention no kid or pets for me to be responsible for....soooo...drama factor is but gone from my life.. *smile*WHAT I'M DOING WITH MY LIFE...working nights and keeping up with the chores around my place. It's a never ending job! Summertime brings even more chores, a huge swimming pool is just off my covered patio. I also have a garden...so love growing my own vegetables!!!I suppose I'll do slightly sarcastic take on the big NO-NO for me. There is no such thing as an "occasional" or much less "trying to quit" Smoker. Either you do or you don't.SIX THINGS I COULD NEVER DO WITHOUT*My only child (he doesn't live with me, TG!)*Fluids (water, green tea, strong coffee, and coke/rum)*Food (nothing slimE or fishE)*SPF***the Sun's rays are too strong for my fair skin face) lots of sunless tanning lotion*COMPANIONSHIP (Hello?!?!)*Sunglasses/good pair of shoes/bigHAT (notice no clothes, HA!) Music? all kinds(not so much country tho)... Enjoy watching movies of all kinds...It's a little harder these days to watch a movie with the rental places shutting down...wish I lived closer to a RED BOX.. *giggle* I will say I do have over 90 movies "In The Cloud" thanks to my mom buying movies!!I have gone to reading a lot more, got the real books and the NOOK......the list goes on.....! So...just know I take care of myself....and you should be doing the same... Seriously..One more thing if you put a mileage limit on you profile--it will keep others from sending you a greetings.. *smile* First date? Hmmm...I think it would be something that we both would agree on doing together....

  • Alexus

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    First I'd like to thank the men who have written me offering FWB relationships or hang outs. Sorry that is NOT what I'm looking for. Who am I? A free spirit (with a serious side), outgoing yet quiet at times and can be a bit shy at first. I can be witty, definitely fun, adventurous and spontaneous. I have a romantic side, I’m an intelligent, attractive, down to earth woman with very little baggage or drama in my life, a happy person that smiles and laughs a lot (I really believe laughter is the best medicine). I have a multitude of interest, including music, the theater, home improvement, communing with nature, anything water related, hiking, biking, walking, gardening, festivals, Golf (I play at it). or just relaxing on a patio for happy hour with friends and family. I love animals and they love me. I don’t take myself too seriously definitely don't sweat the small stuff and have a zest for life. I love to learn about new cultures and experience new adventures. I am a very optimistic (glass half full) person.Travel and ethnic foods are my passion and partake in both as often as possible. I'm very spontaneous and adventurous and seek out new adventures whenever the opportunity arises. I am comfortable in any social situation. I can go from jeans to evening attire in 60 minutes or less.I truly like men (not a man hater) and I have some great platonic male friends (I grew up with seven boys my age). Yes, I have been hurt and disappointed in relationships but they are in the past and I don't believe in bringing negativity with me into any new friendship or relationship and I AM looking for a relationship. Life experience is something you learn from and move on.Some of the qualities I am looking for in a man are: intelligence (intelligence is extremely sexy), someone to have fun with, little or no drama, we should be able to be ourselves. A man who has a reasonable amount of energy, who enjoys getting out and being active, has great morals and is not arrogant. He is comfortable in his own skin (as am I) and is emotionally and financially secure. A great sense of humor is a must. We can meet on a patio somewhere that we can talk and enjoy tasty beverage. A great first meeting can be the start of a wonderful relationship or maybe just a great friendship. Of course if you are spontaneous and adventurous, there is always the option of the first meeting at the airport passports in hand. ; )

  • Laurena

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi, what can I say? Looking to meet someone that's compatible, chemistry is there. We can talk, enjoy time together and looking for a future together. I like to have fun,try new things and enjoy people. I'm not very good at this. If you would like to know more please say hi. It doesn't hurt at all. If I do write to you and you aren't interested in talking please let me know so I won't bother you again . I'm a nice , caring person. If you would like to know more about my headline I hope you will ask. Just in case, yes I do love kids. Or two hopefully we talk on the phone to get to know one another better. It could be as simple as a picnic or a nice dinner. It doesn't matter as long as we both enjoy it.

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