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Cheyanne, 53
United States, Massachusetts, Wilmington

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About Me

People, PLEASE read my profile and digest it before writing to me.I try to be polite and answer all mail and....there is A LOT of it.... not b/c i am all that....seems one only needs to be female to warrant bs mail from people who don't look past the pretty pictures.Alright then...first up... am not going to change into a "goodhearted" woman.Yes, I have a good heart...a really good heart... but really....READ my profile.I live by Goethe's words it seems..."You never go as far as when you know not where your going". If that doesn't make sense to you then I am probably not the woman for you lol. I am a ballet dancer/teacher by profession and that defined my life for many years...however, the bio below is who I am inside and has nothing to do with the ethereal, mystical, creature some seem to want me to be...and fyi...those creatures do not exist lol. We are athletes, can swear like sailors, and can kick most any other athletes butt...sorry if I just blew someone's vision all to hell...but...it is what it is :)Please do not contact me if you've already done so, have children under 18, are not financially stable (I have always paid my own way and expect anyone interested in me to be able to do the same), if you've been "born again" (once is plenty), if your under 45.....been there, done that....did the Oprah show telling all about it (true) and so on.... Skip me if theology, wild animals, world politics, and travel are not your thing. Likewise if you are a big fan of the United States government or "America....love it or leave it" type of person. Chances are we will not get on or....you will become educated ....either way....drama..." When people are afraid of their government...there is tyranny...when a government is afraid of their people...there is liberty"...amen.A world w/o borders is my ideal...possibly a bit of a naive concept...still...it is what I wish to see. Too, and this is important...if you do not like OR are unable to travel to far away lands....am pretty sure that, at some point, would be a deal breaker.Am looking for someone who is well traveled, accepting other cultures, has a love for learning and being around Asian/Indian elephants for long stretches of time. That is an absolute...the Indian elephant is where my soul lies.And yes...am aware that I am looking for the proverbial "needle in a haystack" but hey...ya never know.Have walked alone most of my life due to my profession and passions.Being alone is alright....have stories to tell :X.. Of course it can get lonely but, from what I have observed, not near as much as the loneliness I see in couples who've nothing in common with each other. It would be really cool to have a "partner in crime" :)My profile states that I am looking for a friend and that is true. If I have learned nothing else in all my years on this planet, it is that there is no other element of a relationship that is more important than true, deep, friendship....period.I am human and an athlete, looks, chemistry, etc.... are important...cannot deny that. Having said that, attraction is subjective and many factors are involved. Guess what I am saying is...I do not have just one type I am interested in. I do seem to like taller men...;a" complex lol.Oh, I also do not believe that two halves make a whole unless speaking of geometrical equations.I am of the mindset that only people who are already whole are capable of being that true friend, lover, partner, etc...I do not want to be anyone's "other half" nor do I want a half a man.To describe myself in a nutshell...I am not good at small talk but am working on it. Lastly...if I've made you think about your own life, your marriage, etc....that's great but....I do NOT want to be your teacher....figure out your own life b/c, only then , could you possibly have something to offer me or anyone else. I am not into projects or damage control....life's to short. If I am not the woman for you....I wish you peace and bright blessings on your journey through this life...jit's NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests***Depends on the man.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Disco Salsa Caribbean Indian Italian Middle Eastern Adventure Drama Fantasy Martial Arts Mystery Cricket Pets
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