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Arin, 53

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About Me

I whole heartedly believe that life is what you make it. It’s all about choices. My choices - a positive attitude and approach life with optimism. I try to look for the best in people and situations; at the same time, I’m pretty realistic. Laughter is an essential ingredient in my life. There is an Irish blessing that says, “Blessed are they that can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused.” Let me just say, I frequently entertain myself. I hope you find that you can laugh at yourself, as well. And, if you want to be my new best friend, you’ll laugh at my jokes. Sometimes it’s a dry/sarcastic wit, sometimes kinda dark, and often a play on words. On the flip side, I need time to be reflective and introspective.My work – I enjoy it. It’s a challenge, generally fulfilling, sometimes frustrating. I am not consumed by work. I have some goals that I may share in the future.My play – I like to travel, see the sights, the people, and all the experiences that come with it. Antiquing is one of my favorite things to do. I’m fascinated by the history and the stories. I like to read, and I dabble with writing. I am usually open to adventure – within reason. Smiles. I am developing a passion for making jewelry…supplemental income and it’s therapeutic!I could continue to regale you with my perception of me, but if you’re like me, I want to see for myself. I think you may learn more about who I am if I tell you what I’m looking for.I am interested in finding a gentleman, someone who is a friend, a companion, and, at some point, a romantic partner. He has a sense of humor, but a serious side, too. He is thoughtful and kind…not just to me, but to people in general. He is self-aware, grounded, and self-confident. He loves being with me, but is also comfortable alone and letting me have my own time, too. He is comfortable with my friends & family, and I am same with his. He takes responsibility for his own happiness and life choices. He brings out the best in me by encouraging me, acknowledging my successes, and even lovingly bring me to greater awareness when need be. He communicates his needs and feelings, questions, and dreams –is comfortable with emotional intimacy. He likes holding my hand and kissing. Really likes kissing! He’s an attentive giving lover. Sometimes he’s the ultimate patient and gentle lover, sometimes times he’s eager, hungry and demanding, and other times playful and mischievous. He sees me as a partner and confidante. He’s someone I am proud of and proud for. He’s open-minded and constructive. He’s intelligent, but not a know-it-all. He is comfortable with silence. He's genuine.Well, hopefully, this will give us a starting place. Let’s see if we fit… Let's start with coffee or such.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I'm a fun upbeat person who enjoys quality time spent together,easy going and down to earth.I believe in honesty and communication is very important.I like to laugh and have fun looking forward to sharing new experiences in life. Looking to meet that special man who will always inspire me and hope to inspire each other is really great for a relationship.I like sports, the beach, fine dining,NYC,traveling,movies,motorcycles,dancing, entertaining,planting flowers, golf, boating,skiing,cooking,fireplaces,kissing,cuddling up...... talking on the phone first,then make plans to go out.

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I enjoy the outdoors in all seasons, but am not into anything extreme.Have "hiked" Especially like Museums of Natural History or Sciences. I love a road trip, even if it has no ultimate destination. I have burned many a tank of gas just to see what there was to see down the highway. I have a quirky sense of humor and have been told witty is my second lanuage. I was born and raised in and around NYC so I guess I do have a little edge. My Christian values are important to me. I regularly attend church services and serve when I can. I enjoy volunteering and try to help where I can. Have gone on several mission trips to areas hit by hurricanes. I am not afraid to get my hands dirty.I live with 2 cats and a dog. Family is important to me and they are considered part of the famly.I am looking for someone with similar but not necessarily the same interests. Integrity, compassion, loyalty and a good sense of humor are qualities that I find attractive. First Date..... Let's meet for coffee.

  • Arabella

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am very outgoing, open-minded, romantic, passionate, sensual, and adventurous. I have a great sense of humor, and like to laugh and have a good time! I have been divorced for 22 years. I have a beautiful 23yr old daughter, who is my world. I love to spend time with her. Family is very important to me.Music is my passion, and I love listening to a wide variety of music. I enjoy going to concerts,and seeing live music. I also enjoy cooking, reading, and many indoor and outdoor activities.I am looking for someone who has similar interests, and qualities. That would be up to you and me!

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