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Arin, 53

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About Me

I whole heartedly believe that life is what you make it. It’s all about choices. My choices - a positive attitude and approach life with optimism. I try to look for the best in people and situations; at the same time, I’m pretty realistic. Laughter is an essential ingredient in my life. There is an Irish blessing that says, “Blessed are they that can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused.” Let me just say, I frequently entertain myself. I hope you find that you can laugh at yourself, as well. And, if you want to be my new best friend, you’ll laugh at my jokes. Sometimes it’s a dry/sarcastic wit, sometimes kinda dark, and often a play on words. On the flip side, I need time to be reflective and introspective.My work – I enjoy it. It’s a challenge, generally fulfilling, sometimes frustrating. I am not consumed by work. I have some goals that I may share in the future.My play – I like to travel, see the sights, the people, and all the experiences that come with it. Antiquing is one of my favorite things to do. I’m fascinated by the history and the stories. I like to read, and I dabble with writing. I am usually open to adventure – within reason. Smiles. I am developing a passion for making jewelry…supplemental income and it’s therapeutic!I could continue to regale you with my perception of me, but if you’re like me, I want to see for myself. I think you may learn more about who I am if I tell you what I’m looking for.I am interested in finding a gentleman, someone who is a friend, a companion, and, at some point, a romantic partner. He has a sense of humor, but a serious side, too. He is thoughtful and kind…not just to me, but to people in general. He is self-aware, grounded, and self-confident. He loves being with me, but is also comfortable alone and letting me have my own time, too. He is comfortable with my friends & family, and I am same with his. He takes responsibility for his own happiness and life choices. He brings out the best in me by encouraging me, acknowledging my successes, and even lovingly bring me to greater awareness when need be. He communicates his needs and feelings, questions, and dreams –is comfortable with emotional intimacy. He likes holding my hand and kissing. Really likes kissing! He’s an attentive giving lover. Sometimes he’s the ultimate patient and gentle lover, sometimes times he’s eager, hungry and demanding, and other times playful and mischievous. He sees me as a partner and confidante. He’s someone I am proud of and proud for. He’s open-minded and constructive. He’s intelligent, but not a know-it-all. He is comfortable with silence. He's genuine.Well, hopefully, this will give us a starting place. Let’s see if we fit… Let's start with coffee or such.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Adreea

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am not materialistic, but I do like to look stylish and put together. I take care of myself and try to stay fit and look younger than my age. My mission is to keep a positive attitude, so when you know what hits the fan, I can keep on smiling. My family and friends are a big part of my life, but there is always room for more. Confession time, I have the gift of gab, I can strike up a conversation with anyone and love to chat on the phone. If you are a handsome, fun, go with the flow kind of guy I might be your girl! casual lunch or drinks to see if any sparks fly, then take it from there.

  • Becca

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am looking for a man who is honest and knows what he wants in a relationship- no games! I am looking for someone to be a part of my life and to enjoy doing things together. I am looking for honesty, respect, sincerity, fun, good sense of humor, someone who likes to go out and have fun, but is just as content relaxing together at home. Someone to talk to and share my life with. Someone who likes to travel and enjoy life. I enjoy being outdoors, mostly walking,spending time at the beach or around water in general. I love to watch movies, play volleyball, go camping, and amusement parks. I like being around friends and family. I love summer cook outs, traveling, seeing new places and things. I am outgoing, easy to talk to, fun to be around, friendly, and nice. I have an easy going personality. Life is too short to be stressed out all the time. I love adventure and trying new things. I am very affectionate with the right man. If you think you could be that man please contact me. The first date should be about meeting and determining if you are interested enough in each other to want to have a second date. The place is optional depending on where you live.

  • Vianne

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I love to take long walks with my dog, ride bikes, go to the beach, love going to the movies! I am a fun loving professional women who would love to meet the right guy who will appreciate all I have to give. I love traveling, family events and exploring....I like all kinds of music! I'm pretty open to most things. Take a chance and say hi! More to come. Meet someplace quiet for lunch so we can talk and get to know one another!

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