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Arin, 53

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About Me

I whole heartedly believe that life is what you make it. It’s all about choices. My choices - a positive attitude and approach life with optimism. I try to look for the best in people and situations; at the same time, I’m pretty realistic. Laughter is an essential ingredient in my life. There is an Irish blessing that says, “Blessed are they that can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused.” Let me just say, I frequently entertain myself. I hope you find that you can laugh at yourself, as well. And, if you want to be my new best friend, you’ll laugh at my jokes. Sometimes it’s a dry/sarcastic wit, sometimes kinda dark, and often a play on words. On the flip side, I need time to be reflective and introspective.My work – I enjoy it. It’s a challenge, generally fulfilling, sometimes frustrating. I am not consumed by work. I have some goals that I may share in the future.My play – I like to travel, see the sights, the people, and all the experiences that come with it. Antiquing is one of my favorite things to do. I’m fascinated by the history and the stories. I like to read, and I dabble with writing. I am usually open to adventure – within reason. Smiles. I am developing a passion for making jewelry…supplemental income and it’s therapeutic!I could continue to regale you with my perception of me, but if you’re like me, I want to see for myself. I think you may learn more about who I am if I tell you what I’m looking for.I am interested in finding a gentleman, someone who is a friend, a companion, and, at some point, a romantic partner. He has a sense of humor, but a serious side, too. He is thoughtful and kind…not just to me, but to people in general. He is self-aware, grounded, and self-confident. He loves being with me, but is also comfortable alone and letting me have my own time, too. He is comfortable with my friends & family, and I am same with his. He takes responsibility for his own happiness and life choices. He brings out the best in me by encouraging me, acknowledging my successes, and even lovingly bring me to greater awareness when need be. He communicates his needs and feelings, questions, and dreams –is comfortable with emotional intimacy. He likes holding my hand and kissing. Really likes kissing! He’s an attentive giving lover. Sometimes he’s the ultimate patient and gentle lover, sometimes times he’s eager, hungry and demanding, and other times playful and mischievous. He sees me as a partner and confidante. He’s someone I am proud of and proud for. He’s open-minded and constructive. He’s intelligent, but not a know-it-all. He is comfortable with silence. He's genuine.Well, hopefully, this will give us a starting place. Let’s see if we fit… Let's start with coffee or such.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hello and thanks for taking the time to read my profile. To start I am divorced and have been for awhile, so there is no drama there...I have raised my children and now I find myself alone and wanting to get out and find a relationship for myself.I am an active person not a couch potatoe, like to keep moving, enjoy gardining, boating, fishing, the beach and more. I also enjoy visiting historical sites, antique shopping, auctions, wineries, movies (a good drama or action thriller)On a more personal side I am an affectionate person, like to cuddle on the sofa watching a good movie, walks on the beach. I am looking for a self assured man who is family oriented an who is looking for an honest relationship. I have a good job and not looking for anyone to take care of meI am not into bars but do enjoy having a drink , mostly like to sit around a fire and have a beer with friends and laugh and have fun or cook out.I am the Mother of 2 and Grandmother of 2 ... enjoy taking the Grandkids out to the park or zoo or watch them play sports.If this sounds like something you are looking for also send me an *** chat.Have a great day! My first date would be in a public setting...Somewhere we could talk and get to know each other

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am the mother of two sons that are pretty well grown. I love my sons very much. I am a honest patient person who tries to have a good sense of humor as much as I can. I try to stay positive. I am a 10 year breast cancer survivor and that is a cause I work and believe in very much. I love the outdoors. Spring is my favorite season. All the flowers blooming. I love flowers. I belong to a gym. I think of myself as a work in progress, I do need to lose weight. , I strive to keep getting better all the time. I love to walk when weather permits. Love music. All kinds of music and I love my coffee. Don't really drink much alcohol,Maybe one drink at a wedding. I believe in God very much. I care for animals a lot. Can't stand when people abuse their animals.I am looking for a serious relationship and hope to fall in love, if I do, time will tell. Somewhere for coffee to get to know each other.

  • Charli

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Love the water & the beachI am fun loving ,easy going, & trustworthy. Love to be spontaneous! Very family oriented & domestic. Love to entertain family & friends! Enjoy watching sports. Love being a mom to my college boys! Love Happy Hours with my friends!HERE'S WHERE YOU COME IN.....I want to fall in love and share my life with someone.I am supportive, devoted, honest, faithful & dependable.; the rain!!I'm not about drama, deceit, or abuse.. I'v lived thru that already.Soooo.... if your looking for "true love" meet me and see if we like each other.I will be your best friend forever if you let me be! Feed me and beer me! lol.

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