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Arin, 53

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About Me

I whole heartedly believe that life is what you make it. It’s all about choices. My choices - a positive attitude and approach life with optimism. I try to look for the best in people and situations; at the same time, I’m pretty realistic. Laughter is an essential ingredient in my life. There is an Irish blessing that says, “Blessed are they that can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused.” Let me just say, I frequently entertain myself. I hope you find that you can laugh at yourself, as well. And, if you want to be my new best friend, you’ll laugh at my jokes. Sometimes it’s a dry/sarcastic wit, sometimes kinda dark, and often a play on words. On the flip side, I need time to be reflective and introspective.My work – I enjoy it. It’s a challenge, generally fulfilling, sometimes frustrating. I am not consumed by work. I have some goals that I may share in the future.My play – I like to travel, see the sights, the people, and all the experiences that come with it. Antiquing is one of my favorite things to do. I’m fascinated by the history and the stories. I like to read, and I dabble with writing. I am usually open to adventure – within reason. Smiles. I am developing a passion for making jewelry…supplemental income and it’s therapeutic!I could continue to regale you with my perception of me, but if you’re like me, I want to see for myself. I think you may learn more about who I am if I tell you what I’m looking for.I am interested in finding a gentleman, someone who is a friend, a companion, and, at some point, a romantic partner. He has a sense of humor, but a serious side, too. He is thoughtful and kind…not just to me, but to people in general. He is self-aware, grounded, and self-confident. He loves being with me, but is also comfortable alone and letting me have my own time, too. He is comfortable with my friends & family, and I am same with his. He takes responsibility for his own happiness and life choices. He brings out the best in me by encouraging me, acknowledging my successes, and even lovingly bring me to greater awareness when need be. He communicates his needs and feelings, questions, and dreams –is comfortable with emotional intimacy. He likes holding my hand and kissing. Really likes kissing! He’s an attentive giving lover. Sometimes he’s the ultimate patient and gentle lover, sometimes times he’s eager, hungry and demanding, and other times playful and mischievous. He sees me as a partner and confidante. He’s someone I am proud of and proud for. He’s open-minded and constructive. He’s intelligent, but not a know-it-all. He is comfortable with silence. He's genuine.Well, hopefully, this will give us a starting place. Let’s see if we fit… Let's start with coffee or such.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am a Caring Loving person with a Big Heart. I am Honest Loyal and Compassionate.I am someone who will never compromise myself or my values just to be in a relationship.Maintaining a Healthy lifestyle is a priority for me, I eat well and workout on a regular basis.I Love music, Modern Country and Old Rock and Roll are my favorites. I am a Conservative and would Love to meet someone with the same political viewsI enjoy going to concerts, bike riding, sporting events, especially football ! and anything outdoors..In terms of an ideal partner I am hoping to meet someone who is energetic, values his health and is in good physical shape.I am looking for a man who wants a best friend, great Lover and a relationship based on mutual Love and Respect.I am looking for someone who is genuinley ready to have an Honest and Forever relationship

  • Maggie

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I have been blessed with so many things in my life. I also, have a great family as well as awesome friends. I am a giver, sweet, loyal, positive, very big heart, classy and enjoy the finer things life has to offer.. I know I love to laugh and have fun. Life is to short, right?My ideal match is a man that is confident, know how to treat a women, chivalry goes a long way with me.He must be positive, financially stable, smart, physically fit, and knows how to communicate.Thank you for stopping by and good luck Meet for dinner or drinks.

  • Raye

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    My three children are grown and all have their own families.Yes I spoil the four grandkids but that is what Grandma is supposed to do right? But it is now time for me to enjoy life and hopefully find someone to share my life with. I love to travel, a day trip or an extended trip, it is all good. There is some much to see and learn, so little time. My biggest pet peeve is being lied to. I don't lie and I don't want to be lied to. I have a good sense of humor and can usually find the good in any situation. I am someone who finds the beauty in detours. Music is very big part of my life. I am outgoing, loyal almost to a fault, have a good sense of humor, and very spontaneous. Life is meant to be lived to its fullest. I like to be spoiled but I like to spoil someone too. My favorite quote is “There comes a time in life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh, forget the bad, and focus on the good. So, love the people who treat you right. Forget about the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy”.I look forward to hearing from you. Sorry there are not more pictures of me but I don't take pictures of myself.

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