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Arin, 53

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About Me

I whole heartedly believe that life is what you make it. It’s all about choices. My choices - a positive attitude and approach life with optimism. I try to look for the best in people and situations; at the same time, I’m pretty realistic. Laughter is an essential ingredient in my life. There is an Irish blessing that says, “Blessed are they that can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused.” Let me just say, I frequently entertain myself. I hope you find that you can laugh at yourself, as well. And, if you want to be my new best friend, you’ll laugh at my jokes. Sometimes it’s a dry/sarcastic wit, sometimes kinda dark, and often a play on words. On the flip side, I need time to be reflective and introspective.My work – I enjoy it. It’s a challenge, generally fulfilling, sometimes frustrating. I am not consumed by work. I have some goals that I may share in the future.My play – I like to travel, see the sights, the people, and all the experiences that come with it. Antiquing is one of my favorite things to do. I’m fascinated by the history and the stories. I like to read, and I dabble with writing. I am usually open to adventure – within reason. Smiles. I am developing a passion for making jewelry…supplemental income and it’s therapeutic!I could continue to regale you with my perception of me, but if you’re like me, I want to see for myself. I think you may learn more about who I am if I tell you what I’m looking for.I am interested in finding a gentleman, someone who is a friend, a companion, and, at some point, a romantic partner. He has a sense of humor, but a serious side, too. He is thoughtful and kind…not just to me, but to people in general. He is self-aware, grounded, and self-confident. He loves being with me, but is also comfortable alone and letting me have my own time, too. He is comfortable with my friends & family, and I am same with his. He takes responsibility for his own happiness and life choices. He brings out the best in me by encouraging me, acknowledging my successes, and even lovingly bring me to greater awareness when need be. He communicates his needs and feelings, questions, and dreams –is comfortable with emotional intimacy. He likes holding my hand and kissing. Really likes kissing! He’s an attentive giving lover. Sometimes he’s the ultimate patient and gentle lover, sometimes times he’s eager, hungry and demanding, and other times playful and mischievous. He sees me as a partner and confidante. He’s someone I am proud of and proud for. He’s open-minded and constructive. He’s intelligent, but not a know-it-all. He is comfortable with silence. He's genuine.Well, hopefully, this will give us a starting place. Let’s see if we fit… Let's start with coffee or such.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    I am a christian woman with 2 daughters and 4 grandchildren whom I love dearly. Family is very important to me. I do not like Rap or Hip Hop music but can listen to almost anything else. I like to play tennis, volleyball and softball for entertainment. I have retired from Metro government after a 25 year career. I have recently completed my bachelor's degree and wish find a job in my field and someone to spend the finer part of my life with. I would like to start doing some traveling before it's to late. Like to go out with my friends and have fun. I'm a very loving, caring and sincere person that when I commit I am a friend for life unless that's not what the other person wants. Very dependable, honest and reliable woman and will do whatever it takes to make sure everyone is happy. I recently started a new job that helps take care of the elderly which is very rewarding. I work in the administrative office.Would like to find someone who enjoys going out and having fun or just staying home and enjoying a good movie. Not into playing games just enjoying life and taking it one day at a time. If you want a bestfriend and maybe more drop me a line and we'll get started. Looking for a best friend and a life long partner. Life is an adventure and I would love to find someone to take the challenge with me. If you are looking for someone that is true, mature and spontaneous drop me a line and let's take the adventure together.My uniqueness is I am true to the core and will go to the mat for someone I care about. I am there through thick and thin and will do whatever it takes to make life fulfilling and happy. I can be a bestfriend for life. Only one thing I believe is a must. No liars. You can trust without love but I don't believe you can love without trust. I always believe in truth unless it's going to hurt someone. Coffee, tea, drink or dinner at a public place. Open to suggestions.

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