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Jay, 53

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About Me

I am pretty low maintenance and like to keep life simple. I believe music and dancing heal the soul. More often than not less really is more. I am a morning person as long as there is always a strong cup of coffee waiting for me. I believe truly living in the moment is the key to real happiness. My spiritual walk is personal so I don't talk about it but willing to share if asked. I am comfortable alone and know how to take care of myself but enjoy having someone special in my life. I am a reasonably insightful person. I have dreams, reach for my goals, try to always be kind, think outside the box, and enjoy ideas that help me see another view. I am excited about new adventures here. I have already discovered a couple of great disc golf courses. I enjoy concerts, biking, hiking, camping, swimming, and sometimes I just take a nap. I will try anything once. Skydiving may take a little coaxing or a slight push. I am familiar with the area because I visited my son and his family every year since ***. I have four children ages 28, 30, 32, and 34, one beautiful 12 year old granddaughter, and my precious grandson passed away at the age of 4 in ***. I'm looking for a few good men...wait, that's the Marines, got a little confused. Mutual respect for each others feelings, space, and values are important to me and nothing beats great chemistry! Honestly, my goal here is to meet someone and enjoy the journey of getting to know him. I would like to have a long term relationship; however, I have no intentions of forcing it to happen. I was married for 23 years (thus the 4 children) and have been divorced for 11 years. And finally, I have two rescue cats, Asia and Tika. I prefer a first meeting to be a simple cup of coffee or walk and then we can decide if we would like to have a first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Retta

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    hi there, how is your day going? im doing ok, myself. hope my pictures don't scare you away, I don't take good picture. im a gal that loves to go fishing. I can even put bait on a hook and take the fish off it as well. plus I like other things to. well, thanks for looking, good luck in your search!

  • Katelyn

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    OK, I was told I needed to change my profile. I was told that before, when my profile said I wanted a Super-) if I wanted a decent guy. I haven’t had much luck, so what the hell. Here goes REAL. If that's an issue, you need not read any further. If not, like I said, here goes REAL. All I want is someone who I am extremely, physically attracted to, (shallow or not) and who I am totally mad, crazy about, and who feels the same about me. That’s it. You would think that would be easy to find. Not so much.Me: Down to earth, girl next door, flip flop wearing girl (who can rock a dress and heels by the way). Silly, funny (once you get to know me), caring, loving, affectionate, loves to laugh, loves to talk (meaning conversation and yes, sometimes I verge on rambling, but I also know when to shut the hell up and listen) loves family, laughter, movies, a good book, slow dancing and much, much more but that is all the real I’m putting on here for now.You: Someone I think is hot, sense of humor, kind, wants to share things, (such as feelings and your day), someone who does not mind if I call him at 2 a.m. cuz I need to talk and vice versa. (Yes, I said 2 a.m...I have gotten not so nice messages about that..Well, if your friend/lover needs you then or wants you then or are thinking of you then, then you BE there...if you don't agree, just don't message me..easy as that) Someone who doesn’t get mad and acts like a big baby or an arrogant ass. Someone who we each go out of our way for, someone who is clean and smells nice and has a nice smile, and someone who we both know we are there for each other, no matter what, through thick and thin and all that jazz.That’s my real. That’s all I got.

  • Kina

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I love my children, I love to laugh, and I love music! I teach music, but I also spend several evenings a week performing. I love sarcasm, and have been known to be a bit irreverent. I've got a big heart, I'm very caring and affecionate, and I'm very open and easy to talk with. I'd like to meet someone who enjoys a night out but is also content to be at home. I love to dance, especially slow dancing, it's so romantic. I'm pretty low maintenance, not a lot of drama. I'm a tall woman looking for a tall man. I realize that may be a little superficial, but the bottom line is it's important to me. I'm looking for someone who's willing to spend some time getting to know each other. The one thing that I really want in a relationship is to matter. I want to be important to someone. I have a lot of love to give and would love to find that special someone to share it with. I'd like to meet for a cup of coffee, or a drink, maybe an appetizer, and see where it goes from there. No pressure, just be yourself so I can be myself.

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