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Raven, 52
United States, Massachusetts, Westwood

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NO LONGER LOOKING.......... WISH ME BLESSINGS AS I CONCENTRATE ON THE "1"Please Note:I am looking for a relationship with a SINGLE BLACK MAN. I mean no disrespect to men of other races. It is simply my preference. are there any Men that understand how intimate the art of getting to know someone is. How it's even more intimate than the actual act of sex?A relationship based on sex has a very short shelf life. The ability to have a physical relationship can be taken away from any of us in an *** would be left if there is no sincere and emotional love? What I have to offer:Loyalty, kindness, consistency, submissiveness, humor, intelligence, empathy, sympathy, faithfulness, strength and love.Ask Yourself: what are You looking for in a woman? Do I possess any of the qualities and characteristics that I have listed above?What I desire in a Man:Loyalty, kindness, consistency, Dominance, humor, intelligence, empathy, sympathy, faithfulness, strength and love.Ask Yourself: do You possess a majority of those qualities and characteristics?If You can honestly say that what I have to offer and what You have to offer are similar to what I've listed above, then please feel free to contact me.Some one asked me recently what I WANT in a man. I sat and thought about it and this was my reply:i'd like a man that wants to be the man in the relationship. someone that will protect me at all costs.make me feel safe and secure. that will tell me every day, that he loves me ....not always in words necessarily but with his actions too. i want a man that will be proud to have me by his side even on those days where i have crazy white girl hair and am looking every second of my 52 years.i want a man that will be faithful to me even if there comes a day when i can't be physical with him anymore.... as well, i want a man that will let me be his rock when he's sad, or worried or unsure. i want a man that will let me love him with my whole heart and never doubt that i'm his and his alone. i want a man that will let me be his love, his best friend, his strength and his adviser at times. i want a man that will appreciate me spoiling him. i want a man that sees his future in my eyes every time he looks at me and then he falls in love with me all over again. i think that says it all........A SIDE NOTE: I am NOT tethered to where I live. I want to have a relationship and if I fall in love with someone and he with me, then I will go where he is or have him move here. I love my children and grandchildren but I want to have an "in-love" relationship and if that means moving, I will go. NO LONGER LOOKING..... WISH ME BLESSINGS AS I CONCENTRATE ON THE "1"1st meet = first MEETcoffee/soda/drinks/a meal. It's important that it is somewhere quiet enough that we can talk and get to know each other and decide if we want to have a 1st date or not.2nd meet = first DATEcould be dinner, movie, playing pool or darts-- anything fun and not so structured that we can't just enjoy each other's company and determine if we'd like to see each other again. 3rd meet = second DATEa day trip would be great. Talking while driving and then enjoying local beautiful scenery or exploring a larger city near by. How about going fishing? (love to fish!) Does that sound good to you?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Motorcycle Racing Sailing Poker
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