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Hilde, 51

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About Me

Ready to go out and enjoy what life has to offer.....I'm at a good place in my life...I know who I am and what I want...I also know what I don't want. I would rather not have any drama(Had enough of that to last a life time). looking for a man that knows what he wants as well...a man not afraid of a realationship. I would love to spend my time with a man that knows how to show his feelings and is not afraid to. Love live music events should it be at a fesival..a concert....a county fair wherever. I like to travel to out of the way places near and far also would love to take another cruise again . As much as I like all those things I am just as happy around a campfire....on the couch all snuggled up.....having a picnic on the ground somewhere quiet. As long as I have that special person I could be happy anywhere. As long as you are good to me I will be better to you. What are you waiting on give it a shot if this sounds like you. My ideal first date would be to go maybe on a picnic someplace quiet..to learn about each other....carry a botttle of wine and hope the conversation is such that time just flys by.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

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    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

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