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Merrilyn, 54

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About Me

I love life and enjoy people. Words my friends use to describe me are intelligent, generous, outgoing, adventurous, funny, physically fit, kind, Harley rider, fun and loving. Seeking confident man with some similar traits. I have many varied interests but I particularly enjoy live music (I go to a lot of concerts), sports--especially football, riding my Harley, exploring areas in my Jeep or truck, barbequing with friends and wine.;there's no place like home!" I'm a bit of a tomboy in some of my interests/hobbies, however I can dress up like a sexy woman quite nicely (I'm told). I worked hard much of my life. Fitness and exercise is a priority for me. I love to laugh and strive to maintain a positive attitude at all times. It's important to encourage those around me in the same way. A relationship is not based on what you can do for me or what I can do for you. It's about what we can experience and enjoy together. I'm grateful for the blessings God has bestowed upon me. Life really is GOOD!ADDENDUM: After being on this site for a month, and based upon recent experiences, I feel the need to add a couple of things. I have two requests: 1) at the risk of sounding shallow, please be financially stable, i.e. Homeowner, steady job or if retired have an income. I am retired and financially sound. I like to travel, do things, concerts, etc, and while I pay my way, I prefer not to have to pay someone else's :). 2) All my pics are very recent and I would appreciate yours to be the same.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Keena

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Maybe our paths crossed for a reason. Who knows? This is tough carrying on about oneself, but since I am supposed to say things about me...Yikes. You can ask me about a National Title, and being published, if you are so inclined. I am a Mosiac artist for fun, and employed full time as a showroom manager. I like to design greeting cards and work on my tiny, little house. Though it may not appear so, am very down to earth. I have just been graced with great opportunities for accomplishment. I have a blog. I know...I am interested in many things, and love people. I enjoy all food. I do appreciate fine and pure food and have reviewed many restaurants. Some people call me a foodie, but to me that has a lame undertone...lolIf you have read this far- that holds great weight for me. Of course, there should be an attraction, but I am in it for the heart, as that is very important to me. I think men with integrity are few and far between, but I know they are out there. Luckily. Let me add that a man who is respectful of women is very attractive. Confidence goes a long way, as well. I would like to mention that I recognize and appreciate a good sense of humor and a quick wit. I am often told that my sense of humor is intact. People regularly tell me that I am funny, and I would like to beleive that to be true. So, yes, there will be a lot of smiles going on. Evolved humans are so darn interesting, as well as those that can resolve issues and communicate effectively. I prefer order to chaos, but am not fanatical in any way. I am not fond of a downright dirty environment, but I am not bothered by clutter. Sometimes life and fun get in the way of having an orderly household, and I get that. I like the serene feeling that tidy offers, but sometimes we all just do our best. I go with live and let live. I like being home, and I can actually cook and enjoy it. However, I like being out often as well, and enjoy all types of activities; or just a nice conversation can be very engaging.; coupled with an indication of the lives we have led. Meet! It really is inconsequential, as I bring the good times with me. It does not matter where we go, or what we do. What matters, is that we just arrange to meet when we can, and not carry on endlessly over *** it requires an act of Congress to get together for the first time, then it has little success attached to it. If you are just sport fishing, reload the bait and press on. Past me. If you hate your mother, than this may not be a match...all circumstances considered. LDR: I know that can work for some, but really, if you live far away, reality is: I can't relocate for years, due to my 17 year old son, so if you are locked into that place, chances are there is not much of a chance. I am counting on you to call that one. Please be realistic and honest with yourself, and me... sorry, but the LDR has too many variables working against it. Ok, with that out of the way, I hope this finds you smiling. There is one saying in life that I have always kept in the forefront:"One thing you always know, is you never know." Please do not decide what I may or may not like as you just may be wrong, and could be pleasantly surprised, quite to the contrary. I do not let fear dictate my decisions, and laugh and smile daily. My smiles are not in short supply, and neither are the opportunities to do so. This transulates well to all of those around me, and those exposed to the fun and humor seem to like the grittiness of it all. Things are edgy in a good kind of way. It is not for the faint of heart, and neither is the art that I create. I have nothing to hide, and would not be able to do so if I tried. Besides, I am not that person. I can tell you this: I do not measure my life by the breaths that I take, but the moments that have taken my breath away. What lies before us, and what lies behind us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. What was it that you were thinking about asking me? Ask away as long as it is appropriate and respectful. Of course a gentleman knows what I am talking about. Those reloading the bait...not so much...I am just saying...

  • Nelda

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am a single mom with a soon to be 17 year old son. He is independent, great kid and most of the time does his own thing. I am employed, have a house and a car. I believe I am one of the most passionate people you will ever meet; and that means passion in everything. Love cuddling, holding hands, snuggling by the fire; and yes that FIRST kiss..it has to be amazing ;) I am considered smart; attractive, outgoing, funny (okay a bit of a smartass ;) and very, very real and honest. I am looking for that one man who I can make him feel like he can conquer the world; with me by his side. He would have to be funny, attractive, smart to some degree; and a man who understands a female needs to be made to feel like a female :) He also has to have a sense of responsibility and of course, integrity.My favorite music is rock and roll. I do like going to listen to live music, but ONLY with a date; never going as a "unattached female". I love to dance; and nope, I am not the two-stepping kind of woman. Give me rock and roll baby, yeah! ;)I have come to realize, since I have been in the dating scene again, that men nowadays truly do not know how to "pursue" a female; in other words guys; if you are truly interested, SHOW interest and HUNT....get it? ;)I request that the man who contact me have a photo; and that it be current. I also post current photos. I believe starting out with honesty, which obviously has to do very much with the way you look, You cannot begin to trust someone, IF you are dishonest at the very beginning.UPDATE: ***; IN THE LAST MONTH I HAVE HAD TWO MEN CONTACT ME THAT WERE EITHER MARRIED OR HAD A GIRLFRIEND; DO ME A FAVOR AND IF YOU ARE TRULY NOT SINGLE; YOU WILL GET ZERO RESPECT NOR SYMPATHY FROM ME. Well let's see; had a guy one time ask me to meet him at Target; nope that was not a good idea lol. I would suggest a drink somewhere, or perhaps even dinner. One thing to remember gentleman; never ask a woman to a movie if you have never met her. It is important that you have time to talk to someone to get to know them and frankly, people get upset if you talk in movies ;)

  • Johanna

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    It feels some what strange to be in the dating world at this stage of my life..I am a mom of 2 beautiful amazing young women.. they are my heart and soul, and I am proud of the young ladies that they have become.My job is a large part of my life, and I don't work the normal 9 to 5 hours.. I put in long 12 hour "days" (I work night shift) my job can be very emotional at times, I work on a post surgical cancer floor, we are taught to not get emotionally involved, but that isnt always the case in reality, when you love your job.I love music.. and my music tastes are so wide and varied..although I'm not a huge fan of rap...I love animals, my current lil guy is my adopted Shih tzu / Affen Pincher mix ... it was love at first sight.I am looking for my forever and a day.. I think 2 people need to meet get to know each other before they decide to make it a first date, maybe coffee , or a drink

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