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Arletha, 25
United States, Massachusetts, Westfield

Offline, last seen Wed, 22 Oct 2025 10:27:35

About Me

Most people describe me as confident, outgoing, loving, sensitive, hard worker and fun. Im very directive and head on. Im proud of the success that I've had and looking for someone that can say the same. I love hanging out with my friends and family, going on vacations or a short trip to Tahoe:) I love going out but i dont like to get drunk or be around people that are only into that. Im a social drinker and know my limit. I like going bowling, rafting, playing golf, snowboarding, etc. I enjoy my job but I wish is was more fast paced. I'm most grateful for my family. Without them, I would be a completely different person.;B and hip hop, an pop.I believe in God and being a Christian is very important to me. I'm looking for someone that was raised and has the same values as me. God has blessed me and my family in sooo many way and i was always be thankful for that. I'm also looking for someone that enjoys little adventures, vacations, close family and friends, hard working and able to support himself. Someone that likes to have a good time but not party all the time. I put my all into a relationship and I'm looking for someone that will do the same and that can treat a woman the way she deserves. I like being able to make dinner together and watch a movie but enjoy going out experiencing new things! I am not on this site to hook up with people and if thats what your looking for, please move on. I am also not into the type of guy that post a million pictures of themselves with there shirt off and a caption that says"this is me looking buff". Honestly thats completely pathetic and there is a difference between being**** and confident and trust me, I can tell a difference. So if your that type of guy or has you profile labeled as a player, I am really not interested. I like a laid back guy, family oriented, loves hanging with his friends and can surprise me at work with flowers or coffee for no reason. I treat my relationships like that and I'm looking for someone that can give me the same in return. I don't want to come off to harsh in my profile but I'm at the point in my life where I wanna cut the bs out right away and get down to the real stuff:)) If you wanna know more , just ask! I'm pretty much an open book;) My idea of a first date is something active that we can do to break the ice. I've always been a planner so I would like the guy to plan the date rather than me tell him what to do lol dinner and movie is very typical and you can't get to know each other when you watch a movie. So maybe something like bowling, mini golf, Dave and busters etc and then a nice dinner after or something.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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