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Ilse, 41
United States, Virginia, Appomattox

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About Me

Sooo...online dating - I hate it, but figured I'd still try it again. "Why the heck it is so hard to meet a single, great-looking, romantic, financially secure man that loves kids?!?!" (I only have 1 child, lol)Let's start with the brutal truth: I am NOT into short, stocky/fat, old men & I really prefer to do the "fishing". Also, i have recently switched from regular cigarettes to smokeless, flavored, vaporizers. :)Ok...here's some info about Me:I'm a career woman and mother of a happy and intelligent 11 yr old boy. I've become successful through hard work, determination, a sense of responsibility and drive, and probably a bit of luck. I'd like to meet someone who also shares those values and has made them work for him. (I Don't care how Much you make, but have a job & a car...)I also have my son full-time...he's a whiz at math, loves video games, is amazingly well-behaved, and never fails to make me smile. And while my son always comes first, I have plenty of time & room in my life for someone special.I have a variety of interests which include traveling.;.. I've been to them all & I am looking for someone special to enjoy travelling with in the future.Yes, those are my bikes - I love to ride. My new baby is the black ***cc HD sportster "48". If you don't ride, we aren't going to hav much fun together this summer...For other fun, I have sung in a few bands, and I really like singing karaoke - it's a lot of fun, even if you are just cheering your friends on. I also write and sing my own original songs, so if you have a band or are a musician - hit me up!I'm not looking for a pen pal, phone sex, "just sex", or to swap dirty pics...If you *** I don't respond, remember, just because I don't think you're cute, doesn't mean you aren't. :) Let's face it, online we only have a few pics, some basic stats, and alot of drawn-out (mostly BS) profiles to read. I prefer to meet in person where you can see someone's real smile and the twinkle in their eyes when they talk about something they are passionate about. So, how about drinks at happy hour somewhere? If things go well, we can plan a real date. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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