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Ilse, 41

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About Me

Sooo...online dating - I hate it, but figured I'd still try it again. "Why the heck it is so hard to meet a single, great-looking, romantic, financially secure man that loves kids?!?!" (I only have 1 child, lol)Let's start with the brutal truth: I am NOT into short, stocky/fat, old men & I really prefer to do the "fishing". Also, i have recently switched from regular cigarettes to smokeless, flavored, vaporizers. :)Ok...here's some info about Me:I'm a career woman and mother of a happy and intelligent 11 yr old boy. I've become successful through hard work, determination, a sense of responsibility and drive, and probably a bit of luck. I'd like to meet someone who also shares those values and has made them work for him. (I Don't care how Much you make, but have a job & a car...)I also have my son full-time...he's a whiz at math, loves video games, is amazingly well-behaved, and never fails to make me smile. And while my son always comes first, I have plenty of time & room in my life for someone special.I have a variety of interests which include traveling.;.. I've been to them all & I am looking for someone special to enjoy travelling with in the future.Yes, those are my bikes - I love to ride. My new baby is the black ***cc HD sportster "48". If you don't ride, we aren't going to hav much fun together this summer...For other fun, I have sung in a few bands, and I really like singing karaoke - it's a lot of fun, even if you are just cheering your friends on. I also write and sing my own original songs, so if you have a band or are a musician - hit me up!I'm not looking for a pen pal, phone sex, "just sex", or to swap dirty pics...If you *** I don't respond, remember, just because I don't think you're cute, doesn't mean you aren't. :) Let's face it, online we only have a few pics, some basic stats, and alot of drawn-out (mostly BS) profiles to read. I prefer to meet in person where you can see someone's real smile and the twinkle in their eyes when they talk about something they are passionate about. So, how about drinks at happy hour somewhere? If things go well, we can plan a real date. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kathrine

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    well i feel that im a good woman with alot to offer. ive got a big heart with lots of life. i love country music,. love to go fishing. im not looking for a fairytale just want to be happy. im really just looking for someone to to hang out with i love kids never had any of my own but i do have 3 step daughters. maybe a movie or even just a walk in the park thats my idea of a first date

  • Cassaundra

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    HI! :) About me: I am divorced with 3 beautiful children I adore. My 2 oldest daughters live on their own and I spend a lot of time with my 16 yr old son. My children are a top priority to me. I am a retired nurse and also worked in the Legal field. I just recently started college again, this time to major in Psychology and I am loving it! I was hoping to get my Doctorate, but am finding/realizing what I would really love to do is crisis hot-line work. I love people and animals. I also love all types of music, but opera, hard core rap or twangy country are not even close to being my favorite. I do love 80's music, though. :)~I find that EVERYONE has something beautiful about them, everyone. You don't necessarily have to have a picture since I do NOT judge a 'book by its cover'. :) I am here to try and find my one true love. Someone that I have things in common with and and that has a great sense of humor! Someone who can make me laugh,and that I can make laugh is a big plus. I am also looking for someone who is a gentleman, and what I mean by that is a man who opens doors and hopefully has at least a semi-romantic side to him. ( I LOVE to do little gestures to show I care)I enjoy doing a lot of things...I love going for drives, Old Sac/SF, camping, BBQ'ing, shooting (and yes I mean a gun..lol) ,movies, darts, picnic's, etc. There are times when being at home is nice, too. ( I sold my car and just haven't gotten around to searching yet.)Side Note: Every relationship needs to be shared ***with open communication....at least that is how it is suppose to work. :) I am not perfect by any means, but I try my best to learn from my mistakes. I also do NOT scream, I actually speak very calmly even if I am upset. Lately, I am now also a clean freak, esp when it comes to my kitchen! lol Ok done! Thanks for stopping by :) On a first date I can pretty much do and will try anything at least once. It would be nice if it was something we would both like to do. Conversation is a must along with hopefully a lot of laughter! :)~

  • Gwenyth

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    ` how does that work? it somehow does. I work downtown in a fancy office building with all the other movers & shakers, I have a pretty good job, I`m not a nine to fiver, I work irregular shifts so it maybe hard to meet up for a coffee. I`m a Taurus, I have all the qualities, good & bad. I`m 41, I don`t look my age, I get that about 5 times a day, I understand. I can wear jeans to work so I wear them all day, everyday I don`t really dress up ever or wear high heels cause I will break my neck if I do, true story! I go to the gym once a week and drink about once a week, not at the same time though cause that would be a recipe for disaster. I prefer dogs to cats, beer to wine, a good hamburger over a good steak, pub to club, Star Wars over Star Trek, The Rolling Stones to The Beatles. I have never been married, no kids, no pets so my life is pretty simple, stress free. I don`t really go to movies any more or watch TV, not alot of time for that but my favorite show is Modern Family or I will watch anything on The Food Network or HGTV. I do listen to country & Irish music, I will provide the earplugs for you..no worries.I`m not so much of a Diva but meetville said I put something my profile but I do like massages, mani-pedis and flowers so maybe a tiny bit diva, red M&M's only please :) I like gardening, well I plant flowers in my postage stamp yard and I`m a terrible cook (I will be the first to admit it) but I can barbecue. I`m pretty easy going, real and funny, I will make you laugh :) I have good family values, they are a huge part of my life and I am pretty smart, for me I think those things are a given but thought I should add them to my profile. I don`t really have a type of guy that I`m looking for but at this stage of the game I think it is more about what is on the inside that out and I would hope that you are funny, kind and maybe even a little bit charmingI think I have a pretty good life and I`m just looking for that guy to fill in that blank, I`m pretty sure he is out there somewhere```` Rolling Stones Loving Cup Lyrics Album Exile On Main Street, my fave album of all time I like to meet for coffee first cause if it doesn`t work out, it was only a two dollar investment and if it goes well then dinner & dancing and all that other good stuff coffee

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