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Elissa, 41

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About Me

I am looking for someone who likes to have good conversation and going to new places around town together. I love to bbq, go to hockey games or sporting events, out to watch the sunset, cuddling together in front of the fire, keeping it casual or getting dressed up and going out for a great night. I am a fun, happy, loyal, kind and generous person who is looking for the same. I'm looking for someone who wants to build a future together and we are better as a team. I've been told the man I'm looking for isn't out there. I think he's around, I just haven't found him yet. He's good natured and funny. Strong and protective. Respectful and kind. He has an amazing smile that makes me melt. He's sexy and smart. And knows how to communicate his needs and wants:) I am a woman who know what I want for my life. I have come to a place where I want close relationships and friendships with loving people who are honest and caring. I understand we all have things in life that we bring with us but that doesn't make you who you really are..Its what you learn and do with the trials and tribulations in your life next that make you a desirable and stronger person...I'm not looking for a fling or a man who needs a lot of women and plays games. I think that would go either way who wants to be second best when you should be #1 in your partners eyes and you keep each other wanting more........I believe in always making things fun and exciting whether you are just start beginning a relationship or have been together for 10 years....I always like to show my appreciation to a man that captures my heart:) Good conversation and no pressure; just be yourself!;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ilse

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Sooo...online dating - I hate it, but figured I'd still try it again. "Why the heck it is so hard to meet a single, great-looking, romantic, financially secure man that loves kids?!?!" (I only have 1 child, lol)Let's start with the brutal truth: I am NOT into short, stocky/fat, old men & I really prefer to do the "fishing". Also, i have recently switched from regular cigarettes to smokeless, flavored, vaporizers. :)Ok...here's some info about Me:I'm a career woman and mother of a happy and intelligent 11 yr old boy. I've become successful through hard work, determination, a sense of responsibility and drive, and probably a bit of luck. I'd like to meet someone who also shares those values and has made them work for him. (I Don't care how Much you make, but have a job & a car...)I also have my son full-time...he's a whiz at math, loves video games, is amazingly well-behaved, and never fails to make me smile. And while my son always comes first, I have plenty of time & room in my life for someone special.I have a variety of interests which include traveling.;.. I've been to them all & I am looking for someone special to enjoy travelling with in the future.Yes, those are my bikes - I love to ride. My new baby is the black ***cc HD sportster "48". If you don't ride, we aren't going to hav much fun together this summer...For other fun, I have sung in a few bands, and I really like singing karaoke - it's a lot of fun, even if you are just cheering your friends on. I also write and sing my own original songs, so if you have a band or are a musician - hit me up!I'm not looking for a pen pal, phone sex, "just sex", or to swap dirty pics...If you *** I don't respond, remember, just because I don't think you're cute, doesn't mean you aren't. :) Let's face it, online we only have a few pics, some basic stats, and alot of drawn-out (mostly BS) profiles to read. I prefer to meet in person where you can see someone's real smile and the twinkle in their eyes when they talk about something they are passionate about. So, how about drinks at happy hour somewhere? If things go well, we can plan a real date. :)

  • Cassaundra

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    HI! :) About me: I am divorced with 3 beautiful children I adore. My 2 oldest daughters live on their own and I spend a lot of time with my 16 yr old son. My children are a top priority to me. I am a retired nurse and also worked in the Legal field. I just recently started college again, this time to major in Psychology and I am loving it! I was hoping to get my Doctorate, but am finding/realizing what I would really love to do is crisis hot-line work. I love people and animals. I also love all types of music, but opera, hard core rap or twangy country are not even close to being my favorite. I do love 80's music, though. :)~I find that EVERYONE has something beautiful about them, everyone. You don't necessarily have to have a picture since I do NOT judge a 'book by its cover'. :) I am here to try and find my one true love. Someone that I have things in common with and and that has a great sense of humor! Someone who can make me laugh,and that I can make laugh is a big plus. I am also looking for someone who is a gentleman, and what I mean by that is a man who opens doors and hopefully has at least a semi-romantic side to him. ( I LOVE to do little gestures to show I care)I enjoy doing a lot of things...I love going for drives, Old Sac/SF, camping, BBQ'ing, shooting (and yes I mean a gun..lol) ,movies, darts, picnic's, etc. There are times when being at home is nice, too. ( I sold my car and just haven't gotten around to searching yet.)Side Note: Every relationship needs to be shared ***with open communication....at least that is how it is suppose to work. :) I am not perfect by any means, but I try my best to learn from my mistakes. I also do NOT scream, I actually speak very calmly even if I am upset. Lately, I am now also a clean freak, esp when it comes to my kitchen! lol Ok done! Thanks for stopping by :) On a first date I can pretty much do and will try anything at least once. It would be nice if it was something we would both like to do. Conversation is a must along with hopefully a lot of laughter! :)~

  • Janiece

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I've been divorced now for several years and it's time to move on. I am not into playing games and I ask the same in return. I still believe in romance, flowers for no reason, long drives, and romantic picnics.I love anything outdoors. I want someone I can be me with. I want someone who is affectionate and not afraid to show it, someone who is honest and faithful. I like live music, mostly country, NASCAR races, going to movies , but I also am happy snuggled up on the couch watching a movie or doing absolutely nothing! I love to go camping. I am not a high maintenance girl. I am perfectly happy in jeans and a tshirt. I'm not supermodel material. When one of my friends first tried to convince me to do this, I was skeptical. But she found her soul mate so why can't I? What do I have to lose? Being rejected isn't the end of the world, is it? To me, the worst thing is never finding my Mr. Right because I was afraid to try something new. Somewhere quiet where we can get to know each other. Maybe dinner and a movie. A picnic is an awesome idea, maybe a walk afterwards or a live band at one of our local marinas.

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