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Diann, 49
United States, Tennessee, Brentwood

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About Me

I am a genuine, warm-hearted and fun-loving woman who is looking for the same in a man. I am divorced now, and am ready to find a real relationship. Here are some things you might like to know about me....I consider myself a "young" mother and grandmother. I enjoy my family very much, although I don't get to see them much. I am here looking for my special gentleman. He is someone who has similar character traits as myself, is like-minded when it comes to the essential elements of a relationship and love, but who differs from me enough to compliment one another without becoming bored. with each other. Although I do enjoy a great debate, I dislike fighting. Sometimes I am stubborn, tenacious, complex and complicated. I can seem like a chaotic mess at times. I am also sincere, loyal, trustworthy, fun, sensual and passionate. Being a true Libra, I am strong minded when it comes to being a fair player in all walks of life. I also believe in 2nd chances, 3rd chances, or as many as is needed to get it right. It's a great thing about this life we live; if you don't get it right, God gives you the chance to do it again and again until you chose to get it right! I believe its a choice to be happy. I am a deep thinker, and I don't take much at face value. I seem to see things faster and clearer than most. I study people before I trust them with anything important to me, especially my heart, although I appear to fly by the seat of my pants (that's that complex and complicated part! LOL!). I do love animals, especially my doberman and little Chihuahua. I am a psychology student in my senior year of my bachelor's degree. As far as music goes, I like country now days, but I also like rock, especially older rock and roll, like Sammy Hagar, Hagar/Van Halen, Moxy, etc. I also like R & B music. Actually, I can listen to just about any music except opera. I also really like the idea of camping out, but honestly, unless there is some kind of a toilet and a mattress involved...probably not gonna happen! LOL! I love to bass fish, tho. It is almost a passion. I find it relaxing and enjoyable. I will catfish or Crappy fish as well, although it is not as much fun. If you want a Barbie doll shaped woman....I am not her...I have a few extra pounds (which I am working on losing!), and I am a real woman with curves that accompany a woman who has had children and who is my age. I am not at all uncomfortable with my body, and I believe that while my body is not perfect, it is perfectly me! He should also be secure enough to not be a jealous man. I have male friends that are NOT my sexual partners. I have no tolerance for games when it comes to my heart. I need a man who is willing to step up: so cheaters, liars and players need not apply. I want what every woman wants. A man to romance her, love her like crazy and allow her to love them in return with all her might.....without all the drama. I know it's a tall order, but one I am not willing to compromise on.I desire a man who wants to be happy with me for THE long term and is not scared of that. LOL! Commitment is not a bad word!By the way, I know some of my pics say ***, but that is because I had a new camera and did not know how to set the date! All of my pics are within the last year or two. I am somewhat old-fashioned when it comes to dating, so I would like to have doors opened for me, men who arrive on time, and who, yes, pay the tab. I tend to let the man take the lead, so he should have a couple of locations in mind to offer as potential meeting locations, preferably close to my home town. The first dates, for me, are about getting to know one another, and having fun in the process. Do not expect me to make out on a first date! Those things should happen in their own time and space. Besides, the best "fun" starts between one's ears. Romance and chemistry are a necessary ingredient to that step up.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

English Korean South American Thai
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