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Bethney, 48
United States, Tennessee, Brentwood

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About Me

So difficult to describe myself like this. I am many different things rolled into one body and mind. So many experiences have created who I am. You really just have to spend some time with me in different situations to get to know me. I like many things ranging from camping and fishing to cooking and gardening. From travelling and dining out to peaceful chilling on the back porch at home. I am an intense personality and tend to be extreme. It is easier to say what I don't like than what I like. First, I am Wiccan. So please no bible thumpers or anyone wanting to change my belief system to match theirs. Everyone has a right to their own beliefs so no judging please. No drug addicts, alcoholics or abusers please. Been there. Done that. Honesty is of utmost importance. I don't do drama or manipulation or head games and I don't tolerate that from others. I get enough of that nonsense from my grown kids and their partners! I have been a single mom for 27 years. I have 2 grown sons ages 27 and 21 who still challenge my patience! Lol. I have 3 beautiful grandchildren. I have devoted my entire life to my children. I have not made room for relationships or dating, mainly because it is difficult for others to accept my unconditional dedication to my children and my refusal to put anyone else before them. But now they are grown and I feel like I should be able to attend somewhat to my own needs and fulfillment. I love life and all the variety it has to offer.I am feeling ready to extend myself to enjoying things in life outside of my children. I have not dated in years or so much as shared a hug with anyone but my kids. I don't recall the last time I even went out to dinner, except u know a family celebration. I think it has been over 4 years. I have no expectations for relationship status or anything beyond today.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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