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Paloma, 49
United States, Tennessee, Brentwood

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About Me

ok lets see.......well i am a very passionate person and i dont just mean SEX lol. i am a very strong woman but also have a very....very tender heart. i have been a widow for 4 years and i HATE dating so far. i have had a few relationships but honestly i think i may be too picky. some say i am but i dont think i am. all i ask for is someone who likes me for who i am....not just for my good points but for my imperfections as well and an honest man who does what he says and says what he means. i may be a strong woman but i really want a take charge kinda man. i think thats what i need :)i love to cook and have been told that i am very good at it. cakes pies cookies and candy are my fav thing to make but i also make a very mean pot of red beans rice and make the BEST cornbread ever.i work at a bar 3 nights a week setting up and running the karaoke. i like a good cold beer every now and then but dont drink when i am at work. working the hrs i do make it hard on my dating life but i really enjoy my job. i am also a substitute teacher and enjoy that job as well.i have one son who is 19 now and pretty much on his own. he will always be my baby but he is grown now. so its my turn again.i do enjoy watching some sports. depending on who is playing i like to watch a football or baseball game, i also like nascar but dont get to watch as much i use to. i love going to the mountains especially in the fall or early spring. im not much of a water person because i have great fear of the water. i will get in a pool or with the right person whom i trust i will get in the ocean or maybe a creek or even on a boat.i dont know why i have such a fear of it i just do.if u wanna know more than just ask.if all u want is naughty talk and naughty pics than please......dont bother me. i am worth more than that.my son just moved out of my house so im kinda going thru the empty nest syndrome. grrrrrr its killing me but i will survive. he had been my only focus for 19 yrs so i dont really know what to do with myself now. it all depends on the man but dinner would be nice or maybe a game of pool and a cold beer. im shoot pretty good for a girl.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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