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Patti, 41

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About Me

First of all, I am a sucker for a guy who can hold a conversation. I'm on the road half my day, message me, I like the company! I am probably 1 of the most honest people you will ever meet, some may say too honest, lol...I'm a little loud and obnoxious, but it's all part of my charm. . I'm looking for someone who is tired of playin games and is wanting a best friend with whom they can be honest and sincere. Someone who doesn't take life too seriously, yet is ambitious and responsible. I work hard(I own my own business) and would like to meet someone who appreciates and shares my ambition and dedication to work, family and home. I work long hours, but I love what I do and I can manage to be dedicated and loyal to someone, even if, I can't be waiting by the door with dinner made or party every nite of the week. At this age, I'd like to think I'm wiser now and have learned from the mistakes of my past. If we can't be friends first, and eventually earn enough trust to become best friends, then why take it any further? Btw, I am very tattooed and a lil pierced.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sammie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    i work a lot and have a hectic schedule, but can make time for that special someone.im looking for my tall, dark and handsome (hahaha... well.. tall, responsible and handsome)i love music!!! my taste varies... it can be anything from The Doors to Pantera & Hatebreed and back to Pink & No Doubtphotography is my passion, love exploring new places and things. (travel)fall is my favorite time of year, you have the best of everything. the weather is perfect, colors vibrant. and yes halloween =)

  • Anais

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I prefer life to be simple, in other words, not too much drama. I am looking to start off as friends - go with the flow, get some substance going... but my head space going into this is " the intention of moving in the direction of a strong, loving, respectful, intimate, and long lasting relationship". I enjoy what's around me; family, friends, food, nature, music... all the good stuff. I make a concerted effort to not take things for granted. I like to be adventurous, to explore new places, and try new things. I'm passionate, down to earth, genuine, smart, and worldly. I'm confident in my skin, my "me space" is in the garden, or just doing something for me. When I retire I will do it at a cottage sitting by the waters edge, where I can get up in the morning, go for a swim, a kayak/canoe, a hike... something outdoorsy.. and then be able to have a glass of red on the deck in the evening, underneath the stars. I'm told from those that know me, that I'm kind/compassionate, down to earth, open minded, patient, non judgemental, easy to talk to, funny/sarcastic, and have a strong work ethic.My daughter is the biggest reason I smile everyday! I'd like to meet someone that gives me another reason to smile.***of the reasons I value Andy Rooney's opinion, or at least his "no candy coating" shared thoughts on valuable information.... A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, 'What are you thinking?' She doesn't care what you think. If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do, and it's usually more interesting. Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it. Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated. Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart. Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk if you are acting like one. You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her. Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed, hot woman over 40, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year old waitress. Ladies, I apologize. - ANDY ROONEY (RIP) Whatever our tastes reflect at the time of deciding.

  • Delena

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am looking to meet a man who loves life, smiles often, is considerate, fun, confident and enjoys being busy.I am an attractive vibrant 42 year old independant mother of a fabulous teenage girl. I am a very down to earth person that loves the outdoors, cottage life, boating, swimming and just being one with nature. I love all of the changing seasons and find them refreshing. I can always find something to enjoy about nature and animals and live my life with integrity and kindness. I have a great job that I love and appreciate all of the wonderful opportunities that I have had through my life to get me here. I am financially responsible and would hope that you are as well. At this stage of the game we should have some assets and would hope that we are on the same page about that. My friends describe me as bubbly, fun, attractive, honest, fiscally responsible and smart. But all this is much better shared as a couple, the walks are that much better, the fires that much brighter , the dinners are that much more appetizing, the bed is that much warmer......( Really)... did I mention I have a great sense of humour. Let us decide on the right time and place together yes?

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