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Bertie, 41

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About Me

...until I boot myself from this place! =PThis isn't my first time here - people seem to come and go... and then come back for more ;)I picked "hang out", but it could be friends or dating, whatever... I am single so whatever happens, happens! It all starts with a solid friendship, obviously. Honesty is the best policy! I am always very upfront. I have two kids aged 12 and 15; they spend time with their dad on a regular basis, which means I do have time to myself every now and then. I have a demanding but very fulfilling job. I am not rich, but paying the bills and the mortgage isn't an issue... maybe even Asia, who knows. I like to be active, but I'm not into extreme sports.I seem to be caught between two worlds sometimes… I can be a complete goof ball, or very serious. I still love hair bands from the 80’s, but I also enjoy modern music. You may find me at a Van Halen or Metallica concert, or enjoying the Kamloops Symphonic Orchestra. It’s all about finding a balance, isn’t it? :)I'm a very simple person. I try to find beauty in everything. I don't like people who judge. I believe in second chances.I'd like to find someone who is driven, inspired, who is a critical thinker, has good morals, and who looks beyond the superficial.If you're obsessed with hunting, quadding in the mud, fancy cars, expensive toys, or your bank account, we're not a match.Sense of humour is a must! Good *** Every passing minute is a chance to turn it all around... :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Doreatha

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Wow, I really never ever expected to be back on here. Never say never I guess. I'm not the type to date someone to just pass the time or just until someone better comes along - I'm in it for the long run. Unfortunately it takes time to find that right person... What's that saying? "When one door closes another one opens" (fingers crossed). I have a great life. Just looking for someone to share it with. I am a very outgoing (and at times adventurous) person who leads a very healthy and active lifestyle (chocolate is healthy isn't it)? However, I also know when to kick back and relax by the fireplace listening to music or to have a romantic weekend just cuddling and watching movies. I like to have fun and enjoy life and not take things (or myself) too seriously. I always like to have things to look forward to - whether it's the next "Wing Night" or next year's vacation plans (however, spontaneity is a wonderful thing as well). I enjoy spending time with my family and friends and I love to travel. I am an extremely thoughtful, considerate and loyal person (often referred to as a "sweetheart"***and I'd like to meet the same. I am the type of person that says what I'm going to do and follows through by doing what I say (and I expect the same of others). This is a huge pet-peeve of mine. Is it so hard to keep your word? I am not a religious person but I whole-heartedly believe "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" (and I can honestly say I live my life by that). And I believe in Karma for those who don't ;-p My “ideal” guy would:• NOT have a self-portrait cell phone pic on his profile posing in a public washroom with a urinal in the background. lol My gawd is that cheesy! Don't you have any candid shots of yourself that friends may have taken? And if you've got a shirtless picture of yourself that's not a picture taken from your last beach vacation - you're probably not my type of guy. • have integrity, be honest, attractive (in my eyes and not just those of your Mother's), reliable/considerate, active, outgoing, confident (but not full-of-himself –• be able to make me laugh until I have tears running down my face • be fit (wow there sure seems to be several different interpretations for the word "fit"). Fit to me doesn't mean fit enough to go from the couch to the fridge for another snack! And watching sports on tv doesn't really count as participation. (lol) I definitely have a thing for nice abs! However, steroid-gronks need not apply.• love hockey (or at least be willing to watch Oilers' games with me - even if you feel the need to cheer for the opposing team).• be a Non-Smoker (this does not mean “I only smoke when I’m drinking" or "when I'm at the bar”). And if you "only" smoke weed, I'm really not interested.• be financially stable (not a drug-dealer or an E.I. recipient (this does not apply to apprentices)) • love music (I pretty much like anything except thrash metal). For every relationship that hasn't worked out I am thankful to have been introduced to some great music I may have never discovered otherwise. • love (like) to dance or at least be willing to take dance lessons with me?• play guitar (and hopefully teach me!)• be hardworking (but not a workaholic). If the only thing important to you is making more & more money and you forget to live life in the meantime, I'm not your girl. The best things in life are free.• be taller than me and out-weigh me• not have a problem with the number of male friends that I have. I've always been a bit of a tomboy -- don't worry I dress up well) and my workplace is pretty much male-dominated so I've always hung out with guys - they're my wing-men ; ) Plus I've made some really good friends through all of these silly dating sites (so some good things have come out of them)! • be able to spell (or at least be able to use "Spell Check"). It cracks me up when I read “I love quading, tatoos and (my favourite***dinning out”! If you love all of those things – at least learn how to spell them! lmao• own his own place (and not live with Mom & Dad) • I've done the commuting thing (stupidly TWICE) and it's never panned out for me after all that effort (just put a whole lotta mileage on my car)... Now if YOU'RE willing to move here in order to be with ME, well then that's a whole different story! ; )• not snore• have a great sense of humour/wit - this is an absolute must - or it just ain’t gonna work out with me! (Can you tell I love sarcasm?)• be close to his family & have lots of good friends (in other words you're not a loner, or the travelling- If you've got psychotic ex's and disfunctional kids please stay far away - I'm not looking to complicate my life.• not be covered from head-to-toe in tattoos and piercings (just not my thing). Hey, if you have a couple of tattoos that have some special meaning for you great – but REALLY, you don't need to send me a picture of them! For the guy with the "; logo tattooed on the back of his head... Honestly, how could I ever bring you home to meet my Dad?! • love to travel - whether it be an all-inclusive vacation or better yet - let's carry our luggage on our backs for some adventure travelling (the best way to see the world in my opinion)!• not have any problems obtaining a passport or a travel visa!! (I can't believe I actually had to add this line in - but I guess I didn't specify "no criminals please")! And "I just serve time on the weekends" is STILL serving time!! lmaoIf you don't like my profile then you won't like me. Geez - some people REALLY need to lighten up (haven't you ever heard of the saying "tongue-in-cheek")? However - IF you're still with me after reading through all of this ; ) (and I haven't offended you any way, shape or form), send me an e-mail and we'll see where it goes from there. If I do not respond to your message then you're just not what I am looking for (sorry). First date, hmmm, after quite a few e-mails back and forth (and a full background check) lol, we could maybe meet for a coffee or meet at a pub for a drink after work to chat and get to know each other better. If all goes well and there's a connection and chemistry (and lots of laughs), we'll figure out the next step from there.

  • Joline

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a down-to-earth, honest, fun-loving person. I love to laugh and have fun and have been accused of always being in a good mood ;-). I love pro football and am a huge Steelers fan. I am drama free and would like to keep it that way. I love to work with my hands and am doing so as I fix up my house to make it my home. I have a 13 year old son that lives with me and I am trying to raise him with good morals and values - something lacking in half of the kids today (so I'm DEFINITELY not looking for any BS in a man). My son has a father who is very active in his life so I'm not looking for a replacement. I also have a dog and a cat. I am stress free (really) and feel very lucky to be able to say that. I am a good person at heart and would like to meet someone with the same quality. I love all kinds of music. My favorite is probably 80's although I listen to lots of top 40 and classic rock too.There is so much more, but really, you gotta leave something to talk about, right?

  • Bailee

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am enjoying a recent career change, and I hope my personal life will begin to be as interesting as my professional life. I love spending time with my children, family, and friends, as most people do. As my children have now gotten older, I am beginning to enjoy life as an adult not having to make arrangements for children or go to events that are "child friendly". My life has been focused on children for many years and now I'm starting to focus on me as a person. You will hear me use "colorful" language in my personal, daily conversations, so don't be surprised or offended. I'm not looking for someone to spend Friday nights with, I'm looking for someone to spend all day Saturday with.

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