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Tam, 41
United States, Tennessee, Ashland City

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About Me

I am a very good hearted person who loves to be with those closest to me. I would help anyone- I'm the friend u call at 2am to come help, and I'll be there at the drop of a hat. I have my act and my life together. I have wonderful kids and a big heart. I am financially self-sufficient. I have long relationships and love big, sometimes life just doesn't work out the way you imagined. But that's ok, I am always looking ahead and at the bright side and all I have to be thankful for. I have always worked very hard, whether that is in school, work or life in general. I love to work out and want someone who enjoys that as well. I gravitate to intelligent, successful, FUNNY men- I love to laugh and be with someone engaging. Physical attraction is very important, but I can't have that with someone who isn't charming, no matter how good looking they are. I would rather have a relationship with someone with average looks and a killer personality. Money doesn't matter to me, but intelligence and drive do....as long as you live life to the fullest, use your talents and work hard I respect that. I'm pretty private, and I don't like to jump into anything. If you're calling me non stop and want some weekend get away first date, no thank you. I want to just make some friends and see where that goes. Very casual first date, like coffee or a drink. If it's meant to be, things will work out naturally. No pressure, I hate that!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

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