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Tam, 41

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About Me

I am a very good hearted person who loves to be with those closest to me. I would help anyone- I'm the friend u call at 2am to come help, and I'll be there at the drop of a hat. I have my act and my life together. I have wonderful kids and a big heart. I am financially self-sufficient. I have long relationships and love big, sometimes life just doesn't work out the way you imagined. But that's ok, I am always looking ahead and at the bright side and all I have to be thankful for. I have always worked very hard, whether that is in school, work or life in general. I love to work out and want someone who enjoys that as well. I gravitate to intelligent, successful, FUNNY men- I love to laugh and be with someone engaging. Physical attraction is very important, but I can't have that with someone who isn't charming, no matter how good looking they are. I would rather have a relationship with someone with average looks and a killer personality. Money doesn't matter to me, but intelligence and drive do....as long as you live life to the fullest, use your talents and work hard I respect that. I'm pretty private, and I don't like to jump into anything. If you're calling me non stop and want some weekend get away first date, no thank you. I want to just make some friends and see where that goes. Very casual first date, like coffee or a drink. If it's meant to be, things will work out naturally. No pressure, I hate that!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tish

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    Woman. 56 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-51

    I am a christian lady who wants to meet a chritian man. I have 2 grown children and 4 grand babies. Family is important to me. I also have two fur babies. I am ready to find that special guy who has a passionate heart and is ready for that someone special. I love to cuddle and hug and kiss. I'm a passionate person. I'm sure there is someone out there looking for that special one. If you like to have a good time and laugh a lot maybe you're the one.

  • Ngoc

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm a caring,honest,considerate and affectionate woman. I like spending time with family and friends and just being around fun and exciting people. I love to laugh and have a good time! But they are those nights when i like to stay home and cuddle with that special someone. I like a variety of music from the 80's to country not too much on rap,tho. I would like to meet someone who is loving,caring and honest and who's looking for a committed relationship as I am.

  • Katelyn

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    So, after a few months of arduous online dating, I've narrowed down what I'm looking for...Current pictures, I'll figure it out eventually lolDon't ask me for "hot pics" I dont care what kind of work you do or how much money you make. I've always supported myself and will continue to do the same. What is important to me is that you do something you are passionate about. Life is too short to spend time doing something you don't enjoy. I am fortunate enough to have a career as a nurse which has allowed me to have the best of all worlds. A rewarding career and the flexibility my children need.My children are now and will forever be my first priority. I would expect the same from you.Please, be positive. I have always been a positive person. I look for the good in people and situations. In relationships, I am cautiously optimistic. I believe that there is someone who will love and respect me the way I love and respect him. Whether I will find him here is another story, lol :)I am truly enjoying my life. I have done things since I've been separated that I've always wanted to do. Rock climbing, skiing, long beautiful hikes...These are enhanced if shared with someone special. I am not looking for a pen pal. If there is a mutual attraction, I'd prefer to meet rather than endless texts and messages. Meeting in person is the only way to really test the chemistry. If you'd like to get to know each other, send me a message and say hello :) After some conversations, a first date should be easy going and casual. Maybe a drink, cup of coffee, or hike.

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