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Tam, 41

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About Me

I am a very good hearted person who loves to be with those closest to me. I would help anyone- I'm the friend u call at 2am to come help, and I'll be there at the drop of a hat. I have my act and my life together. I have wonderful kids and a big heart. I am financially self-sufficient. I have long relationships and love big, sometimes life just doesn't work out the way you imagined. But that's ok, I am always looking ahead and at the bright side and all I have to be thankful for. I have always worked very hard, whether that is in school, work or life in general. I love to work out and want someone who enjoys that as well. I gravitate to intelligent, successful, FUNNY men- I love to laugh and be with someone engaging. Physical attraction is very important, but I can't have that with someone who isn't charming, no matter how good looking they are. I would rather have a relationship with someone with average looks and a killer personality. Money doesn't matter to me, but intelligence and drive do....as long as you live life to the fullest, use your talents and work hard I respect that. I'm pretty private, and I don't like to jump into anything. If you're calling me non stop and want some weekend get away first date, no thank you. I want to just make some friends and see where that goes. Very casual first date, like coffee or a drink. If it's meant to be, things will work out naturally. No pressure, I hate that!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mariam

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hmmmm...what can I say here ~ I grew up down state just outside of the city, so I guess youd say Im a city girl adjusted to country life. I do love the out doors,but country living is not for me or is Winter. I love the gym and being active, but I would be considered a BBW.I work, also I am a full time student working on my RN degree and a single mommy of a 9 yr.old .n two "grown up" kids .My youngest is with me part time and she is my lil pumpkin. Believe it or not I manage it all very well. With that being said ~ I am not looking for perfection, but quiet subtle confidence is so much sexier to me. I also realize we are ALL not perfect, especially not myself there is lots of room for improvement but I am motivated and thats half the battle. Im a total positive mind over matter thinker. Please, also, be able to stand on your own two feet. If you are a parent even better, being in most cases you will understand priorities and responsibility. One of my long term goals is to relocate down south to some place warm and wonderful, when the time is right. I am very goal orientated. I enjoy structure and planning so if you are a wild one who lives by the seat of your pants loves the bar scene or getting hammered, partying and anything always goes, sorry we in the long run would not be a good match. I am looking for someone to spend time with and get to know on my down time. I do have time for family work responsibilities and personal adult time,too I think all things start with friendship, even at the intimate level. I love life. Ive been through enough in my time that I can appreciate the finer moments in life to "stop and smell the roses", if you get my drift. Laugh Often Love deeply & Live life to the fullest. Guess we will just have to see what we agree on...

  • Basemath

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Seeking my soulmate with whom to spend the rest of my life. A real, sincere, honest man. A man who knows how to love a woman and is not afraid to go there with the right lady. A man who can treat me with respect and love me for who I am. You will get the same back. I love beaches, lakes, boating, pools, hot tubs. I finally escaped on a vacation with my best GF early OCT11 to Club Med in Turks & Caicos. It was GREAT!!!! I was WAY past due for a vacation! And I am due again for sure! I am a great cook, if I may say so myself. I even taught myself to grill over a year ago now. I love meals in or out. Love sushi/sashimi, straight seafood, TexMex best. I have an herb garden with like 30 varieties of herbs. I use them to make homemade marinades. They are so fragrant and beautiful! I enjoy flower gardening as well. And I have a garden with peppers.Email me and let's chat! Please note I think a physical attraction is important. I believe in chemistry. I take care of myself and you should too. I enjoy having my hair, brows, nails done on a regular basis. I am working out at the gym 3 times a week doing weights and cardio. I try to eat right. I have a black Lab who is the love of my life. He loves the water like I do- pools, lakes, etc.I miss having a serious boyfriend...someone to cuddle n hold and... I think a good first date is meeting out for dinner and drinks and taking it from there...time to chat and get to know one another in a "neutral" environment...

  • Jason

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    hi to whoevers reading this,my hobbys are walking,going on *** would like to travel more,drive and own my own car.im just an ordinary girl looking to find new friends and have a laugh.i like 80s music and johnny cash.i am trying my hand at gardening lately and i love it.. on a first date it wouldnt matter as long as we both agree on where and what we would like to do.if i had a choice,id suggest we meet in a pub for a few drinks and get to know each other and if it didnt work out we could go our seperate ways.

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