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BeccaOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Does this EVER get ANY easier? I am a Mom .... raising 2 daughters that take up a lot of my time.. I work, and travel from time to time for my job. In the past, dating was not very easy for me, however when I do have free time... I like to have plans to spend with that SPECIAL "ONE".I want to be VERY upfront and say that if you are on this site, to "prowl" and "score" I am NOT INTERESTED. IF you are NOT looking for an eventual SERIOUS LTR. Please do not waste either of our time. I HONESTLY want to spend the free time I have with someone who is looking towards the future. If you are still in LOVE with your ex... Married.... Newly Separated..... or just a Gigilo...I am not interested. I am in my 40's and KNOW what clicks for me and what does not. I prefer men that are over 5 foot 9, , call it "shallow";something" I won't compromise on. I do not like to be taller than the MAN I am with. Hey, honesty.....is FOREMOST!Some things that I have to be HONEST and put out there : I do not want to come across as negative.. but can we just be real and get to what we REALLY like and want, and don't?1: If you are not really interested in a committed future, however YOU have that in your profile, the only thing that says about you is that from the START you are DISHONEST..and that does not work for me.. A "relationship" can not begin when based on dishonesty.2: IF YOU SAY you are a NON SMOKER... I sure hope that you ARE... and BELIEVE me I will know and SMOKING is a DEAL BREAKER for me. I am a VERY honest person and that is a quality I take seriously. I will ALWAYS be honest....3: I am VERY attracted to a man with a great smile..it is the FIRST thing that I notice.... a SMILE says soo much about a person's inner soul.. IF you are not smiling in ANY of your photos, chances are you are not very happy and I like to surround myself with Happy People. So if I do not respond to your message if your pix looks like a nasty mug shot with a DEAD BLOODY animal or you are pointing a 12 gauge at me ... hmmm I will not be responding. I don't mean to sound harsh, but a SMILE is KEY! 4: I can RESPECT the profiles w/out photos because of your job etc.. HOWEVER... YOU MUST *** PHOTO or I WILL NOT RESPOND... If you think about it .... it is PRETTY CREEPY "messaging" a Person with NO FACE... and I WON't make an exception.... 5: Also , please spell check your profile and your messages..... or have someone do it for you....6: I am very interested in finding out a little bit about you .... BEFORE ANY numbers are exchanged..I DO NOT GIVE OUT MY NUMBER ... My daughters also "play on" or use my phone because I do not believe that a 10 year old "needs" a cell phone. I do not just hand out my number to have texts and photos sent to my phone.. call me OL' fashioned... HOWEVER, I feel that we have lost the intrique of the "courting or dating" stage.. I have an IM and there is a "chat" feature on this... and AT FIRST that is how I would like to communicate. ..they gave us the tools... let's USE them.... and take it from there... PLEASE DO NOT ask me to send you "THOSE PIX".... you don't even KNOW me..... ALL of these things WILL follow ... natural progression .. IF it is "right"...VERY VERY IMPORTANTI AM COMPLETELY SET ON THE "WANTS" that I have indicated... the WHAT I AM INTERESTED IN... WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR.... I am not on this site to collect profiles and spend hours reading through messages from men that do NOT match my criteria AT ALL... I know what kind of man SPARKS my interest.... and what kind INTERESTS me to find out more about. NOT to come across as "Shallow" but, if I say 5' 9" and you are 4' 11" I probably won't respond... I appreciate the compliments .. I honestly do.... But PLEASE can we be HONEST... we ALL know as grown adults WHAT makes us "tick" and what doesn't... that is just an example.... it goes for ALL my other preferences as well. THAT is why they ASk..... :)Now Guys, as many of the other "ladies" on this site may appreciate or LIKE a photo of you HALF NAKED "PUMPING IRON" at the GYM in the mirror or taking pix of yourself in a bathroom with a urinal in the background ...or ALL of your pix are only of your half naked body.....there are many , INCLUDING ME that think that is a BIT CREEPY... leave something to our imagination...AS FOR ME....I am fun , and witty, and like to do just about anything...at least once. I enjoy time with friends and I always make an effort to make people smile.. I am Passionate, and Fun and Honest. I like to put on my heels and go out to dinner or put my hair in a baseball cap and go to a Hockey game or other sporting event. I am attracted to TALLER Men (over 5 foot 9) because I have a CLOSET of shoes that I love to wear when I am not playing Mom's Taxi or in my cleats on the softball field.. I like to look my best when going out with My "man".. That may sound "shallow" but it is a "chemistry thing with me... If I tower over you when I have my jeans and heels on, I just can't feel the "chemistry" everyone has their "thing".I get messaged a LOT "WHY ARE YOU SINGLE"? Well.... I'm single simply because I have raised my girls alone, and they are and have been my focus.. I am not one of these women that puts their children second just to go on dates.. I honestly in 5 years have only been on 6 dates from this site. I love to smile and laugh, cook and garden. I like to spend time with friends and go out every so often.. I coach girls softball, and try to be as active in the kids school activities as my work schedule allows. I will ALWAYS give 110%......... ALWAYS... I think that meeting in a PUBLIC place is #1 MOST IMPORTANT...:) Maybe for a Drink somewhere to see if there is that "spark" then if we choose move onto to app's or dinner, or movie.. Then if there is that "CHEMISTRY" let the adventure begin! ohhh and IF your profile says NON SMOKER! PLEASEEEEEE make sure YOU are a TRUE NON SMOKER... because as GREAT as you are.. I can NOT/ will NOT date a SMOKER.. So PLEASE DON't LIE! that is an *** ender..
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LeesaOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Here's the first thing you need to know about me....I am very in touch with my inner child. I still find beauty & wonder in all the little things. I am very young at heart, and am not afraid to enjoy things that some people might deem me "too old" for. This does not mean I am immature however....I own my own home, I have a truck that's paid for, I raised two kids on my own, I have a good job & I just graduated from nursing school a few years ago. I can be "mature" when I have to be. But life is too short not to have fun!I'm game for anything at least once....this year I'd like to go to "Shakespeare in the Park" and do at least one road trip to explore some new place.I love going to the movies....don't worry, I won't ask you to see some "chick flick" with me....I don't watch a lot of those, but if I do, I'll watch it at home, alone, where I can cry in private! lolI love going to football/hockey/baseball games. I have been to a few Nascar races as well (Go Jimmie!). I also like going to plays & concerts (mostly country) as well.Here's a good thing about me: I am low maintenance! I am not into clothes/shoes/purses/jewelry. I am a jeans/tshirts/flipflops kinda girl. Want to shower me with something? How about kisses? I want to be with someone who wants to be WITH me. Someone to hold hands with, make out with, cuddle with. Intimacy is important.You don't have to take me to expensive restaurants to impress me....dinner at a Roadhouse is my favorite! Don't send me expensive flowers....; just as pretty! Nice summer day? Rainy day? Let's spend it inside, cuddling on the couch watching a movie & grilling out.I'm very easy going.....I don't need to plan everything out days/weeks in advance. I love spontaneity!I love a good conversation. A sense of humor is a must.....I tend to have a sarcastic one sometimes.Another thing you should know: I may WANT a man, but I don't NEED a man. I am not looking for someone to "take care of me" or be a father to my children (they are grown & living on their own). I can take care of myself. I chose to be single for many years while my kids were younger as they were more important to me than getting distracted in a relationship. But now I am at a point in my life where they are more independent & I have more free time to be myself again & get out & enjoy life. I would like to be with someone who can appreciate me in all my craziness & love me for it, and maybe come along for the ride! A nice first date would be just being able to spend time with each other, talking & feeling each other out, learning a little more about each other & seeing if there is a connection.
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CoreenOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I am an easy going, laid back single mom to a 15 year old boy. My weakness is men with lots of tattoos and the age range of ***. My taste in music is pretty varied but my go to is metal. I am funny and sarcastic with a quick wit. Or you can call me a smart ass. Whatever works! I love animals and am involved in dog and parrot rescue. I'm always so busy that I haven't taken time to have some fun in a long time. Would be great to find someone to hang out with that is physically my type and can make me laugh. I'm weird in a creative way and usually get along really good with other creative people. Want more tattoos. Looking for FUN. I like my life as it is and not trying to change that. I am looking for someone to chat on the phone at first or text and if we hit it off then maybe we can hang out. Hope to hear from some sexy guys soon!