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Lawana, 49
United States, South Carolina, Moncks Corner

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If you feel we may have common interests, we can discuss things over coffee to see if we are both on the same page. Please be REAL and from the heart, as I'm not into playing the games that so many on these sites want to play. For me, the chemistry has to present itself from the beginning! Part of it is physical attraction and one's personality from the start. You can't make it work on a long-term basis if the chemistry isn't there, and you both need to have the same level of emotional intellligence, and the same master plan - overall - or else you are just spinning your wheels with all the wrong people! I'm not into "shallow" or wasting anyone's time. That said, I'm looking for long-term: meaning the chemistry is there between us, and the smiles, the laughter, the kindness, the respect, the care and concern all flow naturally, it's genuine and from the heart. Not sure if my Soulmate is on this site or if he’s someone I’ll bump into when I’m out in the “real world”. Me? a 49 y.o. Italian Gal who’s funny, witty, and playful, yet very mature, sincere, responsible, honest, a hopeless romantic! One who likes to play in the dirt! I enjoy anything to do with nature - landscaping projects, horses, harleys, tractor pulls, 4wheeling, barnyard pals, museums, nature walks, and ymca exercise. I am a huge animal lover, and have multiple pets who are all spoiled and very much a part of the family. (You'd definitely have to be a compassionate animal lover as it's a package deal!) I have a great job of 30 years but am not quite old enough to retire just yet. I'm looking forward to that day however, it can’t come quick enough!’s very cozy, inviting, and decorated in country!’ Now while I don’t have that little black dress you all talk about, I do clean up nicely with barn boots and jeans shorts! And, I do like to get out and “live” alittle - I do have a wild side! I enjoy southern rock and country bands, motorcycle rides thru the Adirondacks, 4wheeling no matter what the weather, exploring old cemetaries. I’m usually in a fun loving mood, silly at times, chatty and fun to be with no matter what we are doing. I try to give ***percent to the one I love, and that person knows it and I expect the same in return, and no less. I’m looking for a mature, sincere, honest, compassionate, responsible, drama-free gentlemen who desires the same lifestyle as myself (outdoorsy). He’s fully capable of loving, doesn’t mind getting his hands dirty (calluses are a plus), and he enjoys nature and animals. He's good humored, playful and energetic. He has a warm, loving smile. He’s “there” for his woman, and of course, she’s “there” for him also! Teamwork is a “given” and never has to be discussed! The relationship never struggles to survive, it all flows natural. You both know what you want out of life, and whom you want to spend it with. You never, ever - second guess it! If you are interested in meeting for coffee, to see if there’s Chemistry, please drop me a line, I’d love to hear from you. Pssst... Please don't mistake kindness for weakness! I'm not running a daycare, a rehab or bootcamp! I'm no one's fool and have zero tolerance for B.S. or drama. Meet for coffee locally, thanks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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