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Ossia, 49

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About Me

they say describe your personality in one word then give things to pick like,,, animal lover, which I am, but thats two words lolI will date men who have a few extra pounds..a few...not thirty!I prefer men in their 40s...I know I am 49....BELIEVE me ....I know...but I like men in their 40s its what attracts me. I would like to meet someone who is... 1 over their ex 2 honest about what they want 3 who has a job 4 who is NORMAL!!! seems like there is something wrong with a lot of people on here. 5 not solely interested in sex 6 who is not married or involved 7 who likes bikes 8 who does not drink every night...i will not date an alcoholic 9 no sideways pics...This drives me nuts...its not cute..its annoying 10 if u put up an old pic...you are already a liar...dont bother me. I am open n honest, know what i want and wont settle for less. I am affectionate n loving but that does NOT mean i will have sex with you ....so dont even think it fellas! I am not looking to get married, i am barely divorced....but i do want a monogamous relationship with someone i can be gaga over and will be gaga over me...is that so hard? Am i so unattractive? I am beginning to think so. I was told i am =( hurtsmy nephew died last sunday..a week ago today(sept 15, ***...i found out on tuesday he was a heroin addict....it killed him....if you know anyone who does drugs...know this....a druggie will end up in jail or dead....send ur druggie to jail!!! i would ratehr visit my nephew in jail and know one day he will be out rather than visit his grave side. He was 24 yrs old. He had a huge heart and a huge problem, but not many people knew...I wish i had. ok here is a bit of info that i have been keeping under wraps....but now i am getting nervous n scared....6 years ago i discovered I am BRCA2 positive...so in two weeks i am undergoing a mastectomy with reconstruction. im really really scared...1. of the pain, 2. of the fact that i am removing perfectly healthy tissue from my body 3. that no man is gonna want me afterwards...i will go in with breasts and come out with breasts, but they wont be mine. =( im trying to be proactive with my health ...an ounce of prevention...yada yada...but im still *** watch n comment...=) its not a date...its a meeting....an interview....an audition....not a date! but I would prefer public and for coffee or food or a walk in the park...some place quiet to talk and get to know each other. no frills, no lies, just openness and honesty

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Life is short!! Laughter is important to me.. I hate Drama so if your life is filled with drama please don't message me!! I like sports!! Basketball, football, baseball... I like riding on motorcycles.. Antiques, cookouts, long walks, dining out,, I love music of all kinds, my ideal guy would be very confident, funny, the life of the party!! I am very independent and really want to be with someone because that's what I want to do not because I need to!! I have put my photos out there.. What's fair is fair if you don't have a profile pic don't message me.. I won't respond!! Dinner or drinks in a nice restaurant!! Good conversation, lots of laughs, and see where it goes from there!

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hello,I am interested in dating and, hopefully, someday finding the right person to be in a relationship with and perhaps marry. I am pretty outgoing, but can be a home body too. I have kids I love and a good support network of friends. Ideally, and I know nothing is perfect, the man for me would be: an active initiator of activities for us, a Christian, hold moderate to conservative political beliefs, enjoy and support my children and my parenting, maintain his circle of friends for his "guy time", respect my need for family and friend time (girls' night out, dancing, etc), teach me his hobbies and interests so that I can learn and understand how to support him in those hobbies or even enjoy doing them with him, trustworthy, reliable, and concerned for me and our relationship as a priority in life.Although I have listed what I like in a man, I would expect to support him in the same ways, receive similar support in return, and give him the love and respect he needs and deserves.I do enjoy swing dancing and would love to take more lessons with a willing learner. I also absolutely LOVE to travel and have done so on my own at times, but it's much more fun to travel with another person or in a group. I became Scuba certified in February, ***and would welcome the opportunity to explore that activity much more! Listening to live music (and dancing, if there is a partner available, as I don't freestyle dance) is always enjoyable to me, no matter the genre. I would like to hire a maid to clean, I do not like to cook although I can be skilled at it, and I do like doing laundry. I do not know why, but I do laundry with joy, maybe because it can be done and looked at as a job completed. My love language is touch. I love to read and am finally able to do so for pleasure, now that my MBA is completed.Are you energetic, have ideas for vacations and activities, can handle all the details of your life/kids/work and still put energy into a relationship? If so, please send me a note, don't just 'favorite' me, although that is always complimentary. :)

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I feel that I am a down to earth and happy person, who loves to laugh and keep a positive attitude. I feel that life is going by too fast and one of the greatest things is to share it with a special man. I am a romantic person which includes holding hands, cooking special meals, cuddling, long walks any time of the year,I am a strong believer in trust, loyalty, honesty and being sincere. I am a hard worker and strive to keep myself physically and spiritually strong. I try to learn something new every day about life and am a positive person to be around. Just about any type of music is appealing to me. I would love to travel one day. I have two wonderful children and would like to meet someone with or without children. I am looking forward to leaving this site to enjoy life with that special person :) we could decide together

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