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Ossia, 49

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About Me

they say describe your personality in one word then give things to pick like,,, animal lover, which I am, but thats two words lolI will date men who have a few extra pounds..a few...not thirty!I prefer men in their 40s...I know I am 49....BELIEVE me ....I know...but I like men in their 40s its what attracts me. I would like to meet someone who is... 1 over their ex 2 honest about what they want 3 who has a job 4 who is NORMAL!!! seems like there is something wrong with a lot of people on here. 5 not solely interested in sex 6 who is not married or involved 7 who likes bikes 8 who does not drink every night...i will not date an alcoholic 9 no sideways pics...This drives me nuts...its not cute..its annoying 10 if u put up an old pic...you are already a liar...dont bother me. I am open n honest, know what i want and wont settle for less. I am affectionate n loving but that does NOT mean i will have sex with you ....so dont even think it fellas! I am not looking to get married, i am barely divorced....but i do want a monogamous relationship with someone i can be gaga over and will be gaga over me...is that so hard? Am i so unattractive? I am beginning to think so. I was told i am =( hurtsmy nephew died last sunday..a week ago today(sept 15, ***...i found out on tuesday he was a heroin addict....it killed him....if you know anyone who does drugs...know this....a druggie will end up in jail or dead....send ur druggie to jail!!! i would ratehr visit my nephew in jail and know one day he will be out rather than visit his grave side. He was 24 yrs old. He had a huge heart and a huge problem, but not many people knew...I wish i had. ok here is a bit of info that i have been keeping under wraps....but now i am getting nervous n scared....6 years ago i discovered I am BRCA2 positive...so in two weeks i am undergoing a mastectomy with reconstruction. im really really scared...1. of the pain, 2. of the fact that i am removing perfectly healthy tissue from my body 3. that no man is gonna want me afterwards...i will go in with breasts and come out with breasts, but they wont be mine. =( im trying to be proactive with my health ...an ounce of prevention...yada yada...but im still *** watch n comment...=) its not a date...its a meeting....an interview....an audition....not a date! but I would prefer public and for coffee or food or a walk in the park...some place quiet to talk and get to know each other. no frills, no lies, just openness and honesty

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    After being on this site awhile now and I have not yet gone out with anyone, I feel the need to add something to the top of my list...I want to Date !!!. Go on a Date, with a guy, that knows he is suppose to ask for a meeting/Date, and pay for it. Not to his home, not me paying my own way.... a Date..Anyone remember what that is?? Attacted to someone, and he ask to meet u, If I have to pay my own way...I will just go out with my friends...I guess I'm "Old school" I want a man to be a man....I'm Not a gold digger, I'm a Lady.. Looking for quality... Not quantity Sorry non-smokers only... allergies ;((I love dancing,lsu football and baseball games and tailgating, saints fan, movies, fishing, anything fun. High energy, fast moving, easy going would best describe me.I like all types of music mostly country music.I enjoy family, good food,friends and meeting new people.I want a nice good looking guy who likes to have fun. I still believe in romance, candle light, special nights.I'm looking for a gentleman, who likes opening doors, has manners, and knows how to treat a real lady. A nice, energetic, fun guy. Someone who is nice looking, well built, and cares about his appearance. A guy who likes to dress up or dress casual. No lazy guys. Must have a job or income !!! Non-smoker only....Allergies..sorry CONVERSATION FIRST, GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER. GUY CAN MAKE SUGGESTIONS.

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Apply here to join me at Eagles games!!I enjoy dating, and if by a miracle an equal partner surfaces from a computer, how cool is that! Please respect my values though: Be single, keep your word, and text rarely. I live at the beach and am blessed by this gift of sand and sea almost right outside my door. Biking/running the boards or carving on my new Trikke, or hitting shows here or in the City..it's all good.I am very comfortable in my own skin. From getting dirty in a dive bar to dress up and fine dining, or theatre, or museums, or comedy clubs, or cooking (authentic Tuscan is a specialty) and watching old movies. Anything. I am very well traveled and well read. I would love to meet someone who also travels - someone who has a broad world view. I love to learn. I enjoy spending time with a man who is intelligent, well traveled, knowledgable about world politcs and events and can converse. The art of convnersation is a wonderful thing! Because I am unpretentious I like spontaneity in a guy too. Humor, happy with life and kindness makes me smile and laugh too!Oh, and my mind is one of my favorite places. It's lovely when someone else capable of critical thought and debate can engage it. Witty, wacky, and silly behavior is dear to me as well and when that guy gets me gut laughing and snorting, it's a click! I will talk, laugh, go out, stay in, grab a coffee, see an outdoor concert, walk on the boardwalk, whatever! It depends on the person.

  • Benita

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    UPDATE:I do not date black men or guys over 54...You gotta be able to laugh it's a huge part of who I am also looking for a guy who tells the truth, honesty is as essential as breathing for me. I am looking for a guy who likes to get out and do stuff bike riding, antiques, anything as long as we have fun.I like to read, do gardening biking, hiking,antiques,flea markets,concerts, love movies and music and just some one who gets me.I want some one who wants to include me in their life.I work a lot of hours through out the week but if i find a great guy i will re-arrange my schedule to spend more time with him could it be you? I joined the gym trying to get there several times a week would love to find someone who likes to exercise of some kind walking, bike riding ect. with me. a few things you can write to me about i stole from someone elseWhat turns you on/off In Life?What sound do you love ?Do you have any tattoos. why or why not ?Do you have any phobias ?Describe your perfect vacation ? How many times a week is normal to have sex ?What is your favorite season and why ?What is the first thing you do in the morning ?Olny 55% of pepole can raed tihs. I cdn'uolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The pheonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rseearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno't mtaetr in waht oerdr the ltteres in a wrod are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it whotuit a pboerlm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Azanmig huh? Yaeh and I was awlyas tghuat slpeling was ipmorantt! If you can raed tihs, palce it in yuor porflie. ;)If your really with your soul mate expect this:(A)ccepts you as you are(B)elieves in "you"(C)alls you just to say "HuI"(D)oesn't give up on you(E)nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)(F)orgives your mistakes(G)ives unconditionally(H)elps you(I)nvites you over(J)ust "be" with you(K)eeps you close at heart(L)oves you no matter what(M)akes a difference in your life(N)ever Judges(O)ffers support(P)icks you up(Q)uiets your fears(R)aises your spirits(S)ays nice things about you(T)ells you the truth when you need it(U)nderstands you(V)alues you(W)alks beside you(X)-

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