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Ossia, 49

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About Me

they say describe your personality in one word then give things to pick like,,, animal lover, which I am, but thats two words lolI will date men who have a few extra pounds..a few...not thirty!I prefer men in their 40s...I know I am 49....BELIEVE me ....I know...but I like men in their 40s its what attracts me. I would like to meet someone who is... 1 over their ex 2 honest about what they want 3 who has a job 4 who is NORMAL!!! seems like there is something wrong with a lot of people on here. 5 not solely interested in sex 6 who is not married or involved 7 who likes bikes 8 who does not drink every night...i will not date an alcoholic 9 no sideways pics...This drives me nuts...its not cute..its annoying 10 if u put up an old pic...you are already a liar...dont bother me. I am open n honest, know what i want and wont settle for less. I am affectionate n loving but that does NOT mean i will have sex with you ....so dont even think it fellas! I am not looking to get married, i am barely divorced....but i do want a monogamous relationship with someone i can be gaga over and will be gaga over me...is that so hard? Am i so unattractive? I am beginning to think so. I was told i am =( hurtsmy nephew died last sunday..a week ago today(sept 15, ***...i found out on tuesday he was a heroin addict....it killed him....if you know anyone who does drugs...know this....a druggie will end up in jail or dead....send ur druggie to jail!!! i would ratehr visit my nephew in jail and know one day he will be out rather than visit his grave side. He was 24 yrs old. He had a huge heart and a huge problem, but not many people knew...I wish i had. ok here is a bit of info that i have been keeping under wraps....but now i am getting nervous n scared....6 years ago i discovered I am BRCA2 positive...so in two weeks i am undergoing a mastectomy with reconstruction. im really really scared...1. of the pain, 2. of the fact that i am removing perfectly healthy tissue from my body 3. that no man is gonna want me afterwards...i will go in with breasts and come out with breasts, but they wont be mine. =( im trying to be proactive with my health ...an ounce of prevention...yada yada...but im still *** watch n comment...=) its not a date...its a meeting....an interview....an audition....not a date! but I would prefer public and for coffee or food or a walk in the park...some place quiet to talk and get to know each other. no frills, no lies, just openness and honesty

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am looking for a special guy who is has been successful and wants to spend time with a fun gal who is also very cultured, financially and emotionally independent. I have alot of European culture to my background and I'm very diverse personality wise. I have always worked fulltime outside and from the home over the years. I am an independent military 2nd generation Greek Gal (of 3 siblings) who has traveled alot for work and fun and would love to travel overseas as my next goals. You could say I have been social director with many friends throughout the years. I'm very honest and direct but very diplomatic with everyone. Treat me like a queen and I will treat you like a king. Treat me like a game and I will show you how its played! I'm not into any mind games. I do prefer to date men who have older college or out of the house children as they seem to be very grounded and mature from my experience. I am really looking for someone who has kids out of the house or no kids at all. If you want me to adapt to you and your family- you get to adapt to mine - with no drama. I deal with drama in my career all my life. I am getting to be low key and no drama gal that doesnt t need more. My interests are basically being an avid live music lover going to see live bands, indoor and outdoor concerts, and cooking / entertaining friends on the home front. I am not high maintenance at all. You should know I have a strong business networking background which allowed me travel for work and for fun - (the traveler and adventurer) with a hopeless romantic heart. I also enjoy staying at home as well. I am into fitness programs and leading a very healthy lifestyle which keeps a positive/good attitude which is crucial to my relationships. I thrive on learning and exploring new things and would just like someone to share my life with who I have that spark and is a good friend that respects me and my extended family. You must be an honest, solid good-hearted person who also does NOT smoke. You also must have good conversation skills and a good sense of humor too if you want to keep my attention. Treat me with respect and it will come back to you in alot of ways! Everyone has their form of drama so just be yourself and we'll go from there. Anywhere we can talk have coffee/drinks and have fun is good with me!

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    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a girl who loves to travel & long walks on the beach, romatic dinners or quiet nights at home with a good movie. i enjoy hanging with my friend listening to good music & reading good books. If i spark your interest drop me a line Meet for drinks or a long walk

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I\'m a hopeless romantic looking for love. My hobbies are making jewelry, catching up on my TV, and shopping. I need someone very special to stay with me and love me (and my interests).

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