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Ossia, 49

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About Me

they say describe your personality in one word then give things to pick like,,, animal lover, which I am, but thats two words lolI will date men who have a few extra pounds..a few...not thirty!I prefer men in their 40s...I know I am 49....BELIEVE me ....I know...but I like men in their 40s its what attracts me. I would like to meet someone who is... 1 over their ex 2 honest about what they want 3 who has a job 4 who is NORMAL!!! seems like there is something wrong with a lot of people on here. 5 not solely interested in sex 6 who is not married or involved 7 who likes bikes 8 who does not drink every night...i will not date an alcoholic 9 no sideways pics...This drives me nuts...its not cute..its annoying 10 if u put up an old pic...you are already a liar...dont bother me. I am open n honest, know what i want and wont settle for less. I am affectionate n loving but that does NOT mean i will have sex with you ....so dont even think it fellas! I am not looking to get married, i am barely divorced....but i do want a monogamous relationship with someone i can be gaga over and will be gaga over me...is that so hard? Am i so unattractive? I am beginning to think so. I was told i am =( hurtsmy nephew died last sunday..a week ago today(sept 15, ***...i found out on tuesday he was a heroin addict....it killed him....if you know anyone who does drugs...know this....a druggie will end up in jail or dead....send ur druggie to jail!!! i would ratehr visit my nephew in jail and know one day he will be out rather than visit his grave side. He was 24 yrs old. He had a huge heart and a huge problem, but not many people knew...I wish i had. ok here is a bit of info that i have been keeping under wraps....but now i am getting nervous n scared....6 years ago i discovered I am BRCA2 positive...so in two weeks i am undergoing a mastectomy with reconstruction. im really really scared...1. of the pain, 2. of the fact that i am removing perfectly healthy tissue from my body 3. that no man is gonna want me afterwards...i will go in with breasts and come out with breasts, but they wont be mine. =( im trying to be proactive with my health ...an ounce of prevention...yada yada...but im still *** watch n comment...=) its not a date...its a meeting....an interview....an audition....not a date! but I would prefer public and for coffee or food or a walk in the park...some place quiet to talk and get to know each other. no frills, no lies, just openness and honesty

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm a pretty easy going person...not hard to please..good listener..loyal and loving.. love to stay active I try to work out at least ***times a week..like to hike although haven't had much time lately..I like going out but do not always have to.. love to stay in watch a movie and cuddle with my special someone..Have 2 beautiful children who are everything to me they are amazing!!!..I like all kinds of music (with the exception of rap) from whats on the radio to 70's rock..basically I just love music... On first date anything from dinner to having coffee with good conversation..No where noisy so we can start to get to know one another and see if we have somethings in common...of course chemistry is very important!!!...I think having a great conversation and communication is so very important in a relationship so if we can talk to one another off the bat its a good way to start..

  • Nikki

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 21-28

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  • Joss

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hi.....I'm fairly new to this online dating concept so patience is much needed...Ok...I hate this part as much as the next person because I truly believe that the best adventure in all this is actually FINDING OUT for yourself about another person and forming your own opinion about them...But, since everyone seems to have a 'list', I will put mine on here as well..NOTE this is a 'preference list' not a 'make or break'..YOU:1. Active Christian2. Family man (you don't have to have kids to be this)3. Knows basic car maitenence or is handy around the house3. Is totally OVER the ex...4. Lives a life of integrity (if you don't know what that is, google it) lol5. Someone who likes to laugh and be goofy a bit6. Someone who loves to cook...ok ok, I know i'm pushin it here..lolAlso, I am prompted to write this due to my limited dating experience on here..what I am NOT looking for:1. If you are soooo busy and have to SQEEEEZE me into your schedule, don't bother you aren't really serious about finding someone.2. If you aren't totally over the ex, don't come my way, I don't like sloppy seconds3. If you need to serial date for whatever reason, I'm not your woman...don't like to share4. Oh, I almost forgot, if you're looking to have casual sex I'm also not your women- I want to be in a loving, exclusive committed relationship before that type of intimacy.If you're curious to know more, please stop by and say 'hi'...That's always a good startI truly AM looking for 'forever' and not just disposable- serious inquiries only....PS and yes guys, I DO have cleavage, just don't have to 'advertise' it on here like some others tend to do...lol Think 'outside' the box...

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