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Elfleda, 48

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About Me

Yuck! I hate essay questions. And I'm not good at writing long, flowery speeches that nobody's interested in reading. Sigh..OK,here we go: I'm a single mom ***yr old boy. I work full-time in retail. I'm not necessarily looking to get married although I've never tried it. I've heard it's not so awful- depends who you ask, I suppose. I'm just looking for that "right" someone who is willing to put up with me for the next few whatevers. I'm not interested in the bar scene - been there/done that - I'm sure that it's pretty much the way I left it. I'm a Recovering alcoholic ***yrs. If you're a weekend-warrior ( or weekday), I'm not interested. An occasional, social drink is fine. You know which one you are. I'm very comfortable with quiet nights at home, watching TV or a movie, although I would NEVER miss an opportunity for a dinner out. I like pretty much anything on the radio but Country and RAP. I'm not into soaps - day or night-time. I don't really have any "hobbies". I'm saving that for when I'm REALLY old, my son is grown and I'm retired - so, probably not any time soon. I usually watch stuff like the news, HGTV, HLN, TMZ, Investigation Discovery, History Channel ...I guess my hobby is knowing what's going on. ; ) First Date?Ok - anywhere and anything I don't have to pick up at the grocery store, cook ,and clean up after. Sounds good.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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  • Darby

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a strong person. I know what I want and I go after it. I am not afraid of the unknown nor am I afraid to take risks. I never take the easy way out of anything. I love to laugh out loud! I am attracted to people who are fun-loving and funny and can make me laugh. I enjoy being active, finding new interests and adventures, meeting new people and having fun! I am kind, giving, sincere and honest. I am looking for someone who is funny, honest, kind and open - and who is not afraid to state his wants and needs. I do not like people who are afraid to express themselves or who avoid conflict/confrontation. I like people who are confident, secure and proud of who they are. If you can make me laugh, I will definitely find you attractive!!

  • Ashley

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am crazy about the outdoors and all the adventures life can offer. I love to go fishing or just sit outside by a fire and talk. My goals include finding the perfect soulmate to share my life with, to complete me, be my reason to be. I am unique in that I can find beauty in everything and always seem to see the glass as half full, rather than half empty. I have a bubbly personality and love to laugh as well as make others laugh with me and not at me. I am a great listener and have the gift of gab in that I like to talk when having an intelligent conversation. I like all music except opera. I enjoy dancing and just being adventerous and spontaneous. I love to ride motorcycles, even though I don't have one myself. I love to do anything that gets my adreneline pumping. I have been ziplining, parasailing, mountain climbing, and even bungi-jumped once. I absolutely love love love adventure!!! I also have a quiet and serious side to my personality. I try not to dwell in the past being the future can be so awesome with that right person. I am independent and self-sufficient and am hoping to find that special someone whose goals and aspirations include making me the center of his univerrse while he is the center of mine. Yes, like many of you here, I have been hurt, but that pain makes us stronger as human beings and we learn to move on and keep striving to find that relationship that means patience and total devotion through good times and bad. Who I am as a person is defined by ALL of me - body, mind, soul, and spirit. I am looking for that special man who can accept me for who I am and not who he thinks I should be. If you're ready to take that leap of faith, by all means please message me. On a more personal note: I DO date, I DO like to have fun, and I DO enjoy meeting new people, BUT I think you all should know that I am looking for "Mr. Right" and NOT "Mr. Right Now" !! If pure sex is what you're after, then by all means please feel free to move to the next profile. I want a real, meaningful relationship and NOT meaningless sex!!!**************PLEASE READ THIS: *********** MY OWN PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND PREFERENCES**********PLEASE READ THIS***************1.) If you have NO teeth in your mouth, please do NOT message me as i am NOT interested!!!!! A smile says a lot without ever saying a single word!!2.) If you are a "player" and are on this website to see how many women you can "get lucky" with, do NOT message me as I am NOT interested!!!3.) If you do NOT have a job and your profession is listed as "disabeled" by all means do NOT message me, again NOT interested. I have a job and I also own my own business so I would expect that my date would have some sort of earned income. I work hard and will NOT be someones "Sugar Momma!!"4.) If you still live with your elderly and ailing parents, again do NOT message me as I am not interested. If you happen to live there by choice and out of love and compassion to be the caretaker, that I understand, BUT if you're there because you have no where else to go and cannot support yourself then my God, please do NOT message me. Any man who can't stand on his own two feet is really not a man in my eyes!! NOT INTERESTED!!!5.) If you drink till you fall down and sleep in your own pee on a daily basis and have no other hobbies except drinking, then do us both a favor and do NOT message me. LMAO6.) If your idea of a relationship is "friends with benefits" then please, Lord, don't even bother. It ain't happening!! ROTFLMAO7.) Finally, if your idea of a great date is suddenly growing what feels like 20 hands, that only grope and paw at me, while whispering sexually explicit ideations in my ear, then PLEASE do NOT message me!!! (Yep, I've had that happen to me before) I am NOT interested!!!! For my first date I would like to just talk and find out more about each other. That conversation can include a nice dinner or maybe even a walk. Getting to know one another is an important part of capturing my heart. I am not selfish and would rather be hurt with honesty than be made happy through deception. Because without trust, you basically have nothing, I would like to be able to trust you before I can let my heart discover yours.

  • Kera

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm down to earth, intelligent, fun, easy going, very open-minded, love to laugh, spontaneous, adventurous, love rollercoasters!! Hello! I have been divorced for 5 years after having been married for 20 years. I've dated and had one long-term relationship during that time. Not interested in one night stands nor young men. I seem to go for the "; type, but that does NOT mean that I won't stand my ground!! I can be quite outspoken and have a sarcastic sense of humor so you will have get that and not be too sensitive in that area...and I can take it right back!!I love traveling, dining out, movies, doing new and adventurous things, a glass or two of wine, being with friends, playing games (cards, etc.), attending sporting events, spending time with my children (2 boys, 18 and 20), taking a nap on Sunday on the sofa while you watch sports and so many other things that you'll find out as you get to know me. I love wine and cheese and chocolate-covered strawberries...sounds like the makings for a nice picnic! I love nice restaurants but also enjoy the hole-in-the-wall, undiscovered type of places. I can also cook and bake a few things...much more fun with an assistant! That's still way off but still an exciting dream....I'm ***some photos are recent, some are to show my personality) but feel like I'm 30! Heck, I even feel like a teenager again at times! I DO look like my photos ...you can't see the "few extra pounds"...there's a reason that I strategically did not post a photo of myself in a bikini!!! But I'm still an attractive person, both inside and out and that's exactly what I'm looking for as well. I'm interested in trying new things, love many types of music from classical to classic rock. Really into the 70s and 80s.Both of my kids are in college now so the dog and I have the house to ourselves!If you're interested in meeting, please send an e-mail to me here on meetville. I look forward to hearing from anyone who has interest and seeing if we're compatible. Thanks for reading!! Surprise me!! I love spontaneity! I just want the opportunity for us to get to know each other to see if we click.

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