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About Me

Yuck! I hate essay questions. And I'm not good at writing long, flowery speeches that nobody's interested in reading. Sigh..OK,here we go: I'm a single mom ***yr old boy. I work full-time in retail. I'm not necessarily looking to get married although I've never tried it. I've heard it's not so awful- depends who you ask, I suppose. I'm just looking for that "right" someone who is willing to put up with me for the next few whatevers. I'm not interested in the bar scene - been there/done that - I'm sure that it's pretty much the way I left it. I'm a Recovering alcoholic ***yrs. If you're a weekend-warrior ( or weekday), I'm not interested. An occasional, social drink is fine. You know which one you are. I'm very comfortable with quiet nights at home, watching TV or a movie, although I would NEVER miss an opportunity for a dinner out. I like pretty much anything on the radio but Country and RAP. I'm not into soaps - day or night-time. I don't really have any "hobbies". I'm saving that for when I'm REALLY old, my son is grown and I'm retired - so, probably not any time soon. I usually watch stuff like the news, HGTV, HLN, TMZ, Investigation Discovery, History Channel ...I guess my hobby is knowing what's going on. ; ) First Date?Ok - anywhere and anything I don't have to pick up at the grocery store, cook ,and clean up after. Sounds good.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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