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Joya, 47
United States, South Carolina, Manning

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It's a blessing and a curse to be stuck at 16. I'm trying my best to get a little closer to 47, while keeping my childlike amazement and joy with this world. Despite many highs and lows, no matter how many times I've been knocked to the mat, bloodied and bruised, I always get up, determined to try again. And again. As clichéd as it might be, I believe I meet everyone for a reason. I find something to love in everyone. I find something to learn from everyone and their experiences. Music in my life keeps me from taking things too seriously. My tunes are my life. So many beautiful songs that resonate in me and touch my soul. If you get me, I'm rather easily amused, but also easily distracted. Like a crow, shiny things stop me in my tracks. I crave new experiences and interactions in my life, and am perfectly fine with agreeing to disagree. I burn the candle at so many ends and work as hard as I play.Admittedly, upon meeting, I'll know if there is that much sought after "spark" that is unexplainable, but undeniable. Even if it is the tiniest of flickering flames. Gigantic fires grow from even the smallest combination of friction and heat.I like when a man knows and appreciates traditional gender roles, without thinking less of me and my feminine attributes and tendencies. A man who is comfortable with who he is, but open-minded about new activities and ways of perceiving life. Nothing is off limits in my conversations. I am a very outgoing, people loving person, but they say opposites attract, so if you're shy that's fine, as I embrace all the beautiful differences in people.I am clever, quirky, and charming. A sign of high intelligence is a high tolerance for eccentricities. Especially here in the south, where everyone's a character. Would love to meet similar or someone who compliments these qualities. If you're a Hunter in search of their Dr. Gonzo.I'm on a new path and have been basically walking it alone. Some parts of it require solitude and my own strength, but lately I find myself wanting someone along for the ride. Hopefully, there's a man out there trying to get back to the proverbial garden, as well. Other days, only my gorgeous Manolos will do and my progress is negligible. But forward, just the same. I want someone with me who's just as comfortable being the tortoise or the hare.You might enjoy being sincerely appreciated and encouraged, our shared dry wit, knowledge of pop culture, singing our favorite songs loudly, buying secondhand and receiving my well written, very silly, novella sized texts and messages. Must share the ability to have fun no matter what and flawless spelling skills ha ha.Sure, I share a big lonely bed with my kitten. That doesn't mean I want just any stranger from this site to immediately curl up with me. Please, do not contact me if you only have one thing on your mind. Unless it's a good concert you'd like to take me to. A great relationship starts with a good friendship. And that involves sharing things and events together, not immediate sexting or a booty call. Trust me, I'm not that lonely, especially with Nick the kitten. That doesn't mean there aren't times I long for a decent, funny, music/movie lover, who can make me laugh and I him, to make himself at home around my place. Silliness is another plus. If you can't share experiences, what you're really seeking in your path, trust, a new perspective on life, goals, how you're always evolving and moving forward, traumas, a warm fire and sharing a pleasing meal together then, sadly, I'm not the one. If not I'm sorry, I'm just not your dime-a-dance girl. I am very sensual, tactile, romantic and experimental and very particular who experiences that very vulnerable and powerful side of me. You just have to be patient, start the fire small. If you can make me laugh and are a kind, genuine gentleman, who adores listening to music, sometimes a little loud and analyzing it and wants to put some time in with me to create a solid relationship full of like and love, respect, truth, many nighttime conversations, getting a sincere "I'm sorry" for my failings and foibles, giving and being given to and, most importantly, tremendous passion that has to start with the small sparks of friendship. I am a princess, with none of the selfish drama and narcissism, not your empty conquest. I am hoping there might be an authentic man out there, with shared ideas about life and love. As the Faces would say, I'm open to ideas.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

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