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Abital, 46
United States, South Carolina, Lyman

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About Me

It doesn't matter where you come from or how much stuff you have, just that you're an overall good guy, have a variety of interests of your own, good friends and family that you care about, and can make me laugh. I'm looking for someone who has what they want in life...except for someone to share the good, the bad, and all the in between. Like me, you don't need someone to make you happy-you've figured that out at this point. Simply, you want someone to be happy with you. You are energetic, with a youthful attitude. You are active, but like quiet times too. You know how to balance your work and professional lives, and have time to give to the right person. I have a great job that I enjoy most of the time, which is pretty secure (as long as my students pass the test). I have a wonderful and supportive family and awesome friends who let me enjoy their kids since it never worked out to have my own. I own a small home in the city with a managable mortgage that is pretty much all my debt. I take care of most projects inside and out, so I'm not afraid to get dirty or break a nail-although I do enjoy relaxing with a good pedicure. Don't be fooled by the extra pounds...I am fit and healthy, both physically and emotionally. I deal with daily stresses with exercise, not with medication. I can dress up, but prefer to be comfy and casual. My interests include reading, walking/hiking, kayaking, swimming, gardening, scuba, and antiques. . I'm willing to do lots more when friends call-Seabreeze, the beach, a game, etc. I love simple things-a day at the beach or in my kayak with a book, carving pumpkins with friends, a good movie, decorating the Christmas tree. A 100% match isn't necessary. Some common interests and values, a sense of humor would be good, as well as an openness and readiness to let something great happen. Yes, you might look at a picture and think "No way". That is fine... I know, however, that some people look better in person than in photos, while others don't look as good. I've experienced both. The best way to find out if a match is possible is to meet... "The scientists also note that online profile photos are poor proxies for the chemistry sparked by meeting in the flesh. Which leads to a lot of disappointing coffee dates. And many potentially successful matches never happen."Thanks for reading :) Something casual-drinks or coffee so that we can begin to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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