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Carley, 47

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About Me

Well it appears that my last description of what I am looking for was taken the WRONG WAY so.... I am going to rewrite this with truth, hope, desire, and much more. ME: attractive, fit, intelligent, loyal, grandma, employed, independent, adventurous, stubborn, respectful, logical, artistic, tactful, tender hearted, dreamer, I have two wonderful grandsons that mean the world to me. They have succeeded in wrapping me around their little fingers. Love from a child is the most heart warming feeling there is. When I am with them it seems that happiness and love just floats all around us. I feel that as adults we tend to take life too seriously the most of the time. Why? I'm not sure. I desire someone who can give me that same heart warming feeling that I get from my gbabies. My age is not correct, I am 50. Yes I am the big ***and loving it. Maybe its just "I don't give a sh*t attitude anymore". What I mean is not a whole lot bothers me, don't get me wrong, there are things that annoy me (gum chewing, people who answer for me, people who don't pick up their animals poop). If it's not of real importance, then I don't choose to worry about it. I take care of myself. Physically and mentally. I have recently decided to stop smoking, was doing real good however, the past couple of days have been trying. I am not giving up, I will do this. I do not mind others who smoke doesn't bother me in the least. I will never ever preach about smoking to anyone else, that is a personal choice, you smoke ok, you quit ok. I am a nerd at heart, lol. If I could have afforded it or if I have been brave enough to leave home, I would have gone to college to become a Forensic Pathologist (before it became popular (CSI fans) lol. I spend alot of time digging in the dirt for fossils, gems, gold or arrowheads.. Enjoy weekend getaways. Going to out of the way diners, antique shops, state parks, doesn't matter where or why just the enjoyment of something new. The past three months have been eye opening with dating men my age. It seems that you all can talk a good line, you have figured out what to say, when to say it and how to say it - unfortunately you haven't figured out that your actions are a contradiction of everything you say you stand for. And then again it very well could be just me.....I have strong values and morals when it comes to dating - maybe being monogamous is just not acceptable anymore....to be continued....Bob Marley - "The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for." first date would happen after the meet and greet of each other - ONLY if we both chose to go out on a date

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lennie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    You can find me at the beach searching for sea glass, riding my bike, Hiking the mountains, picking wildflowers and having lunch in the park.Enjoy finding new restaurants,the west village and great music.I have a great sense of style;I love the weekends...To capture my attention, it's all about the chemistry and passion. Gotta have it...:)Looking for a person who is happy with himself and is right where he wants to be in his life. Surprise me..captivate me...not interested in an interview...

  • Abital

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    It doesn't matter where you come from or how much stuff you have, just that you're an overall good guy, have a variety of interests of your own, good friends and family that you care about, and can make me laugh. I'm looking for someone who has what they want in life...except for someone to share the good, the bad, and all the in between. Like me, you don't need someone to make you happy-you've figured that out at this point. Simply, you want someone to be happy with you. You are energetic, with a youthful attitude. You are active, but like quiet times too. You know how to balance your work and professional lives, and have time to give to the right person. I have a great job that I enjoy most of the time, which is pretty secure (as long as my students pass the test). I have a wonderful and supportive family and awesome friends who let me enjoy their kids since it never worked out to have my own. I own a small home in the city with a managable mortgage that is pretty much all my debt. I take care of most projects inside and out, so I'm not afraid to get dirty or break a nail-although I do enjoy relaxing with a good pedicure. Don't be fooled by the extra pounds...I am fit and healthy, both physically and emotionally. I deal with daily stresses with exercise, not with medication. I can dress up, but prefer to be comfy and casual. My interests include reading, walking/hiking, kayaking, swimming, gardening, scuba, and antiques. . I'm willing to do lots more when friends call-Seabreeze, the beach, a game, etc. I love simple things-a day at the beach or in my kayak with a book, carving pumpkins with friends, a good movie, decorating the Christmas tree. A 100% match isn't necessary. Some common interests and values, a sense of humor would be good, as well as an openness and readiness to let something great happen. Yes, you might look at a picture and think "No way". That is fine... I know, however, that some people look better in person than in photos, while others don't look as good. I've experienced both. The best way to find out if a match is possible is to meet... "The scientists also note that online profile photos are poor proxies for the chemistry sparked by meeting in the flesh. Which leads to a lot of disappointing coffee dates. And many potentially successful matches never happen."Thanks for reading :) Something casual-drinks or coffee so that we can begin to get to know each other.

  • Reta

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a good person, and I am a lady-just not your average lady. While I don't ask for much and always try to give more in return, I do expect to be treated with respect and not lied too. I believe the essence of all great relationships must be based on communication and trust. I am not a squemish girly girl. I can clean up good, but I am a tom boy at heart. I like old cars, motorcycles, and animals. I have had pets most of my life., but none right now. I love most animals. I am sure you can see this side of my personality from the photos. Okay, enough on me for me. I am looking for a sweet, honest and secure man to go out with on dinner date, watch movies, long drives, ect. Just someone to wind down with and enjoy life with. I am financially stable and can pay my way. I don't need your money or any of your posessions. Just a little time and respect is all I will ask for. If you are looking for someone to hang out with and get to know, then maybe we can see eye to eye and have a little fun.******UPDATE******I have changed my mind. I am a pill popping, weed smoking, unemployed hefer with 6 kids. I need your money to support my drinking and other bad habits. I expect you to pay my bills and let me treat you like sh*tin return. I will not give you sex and will throw dishes at you and have you arrested at the slightest whim for anything I can make up about you. If you have a son who is over 19 i will give him sum *** you. Lets get together and have sum fun !!! Cant wait to hear from you. I need the money! I admire creativity and a man thats down to earth. Nothing like a nice dinner in a quit restaurant and good conversation. ****update******You can fix my car out there under the tree. I might bring you a glass of tea, but I spit in it first.We can then watch tv on the couch while you get us some dinner at burger bobs and then I throw it at you cause its cold.I'll be drunk by then so I'll call the police on you for tresspassing.Can't wait to meet you!

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