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Carley, 47
United States, South Carolina, Lyman

Offline, last seen Sun, 28 Jun 2026 09:54:10

About Me

Well it appears that my last description of what I am looking for was taken the WRONG WAY so.... I am going to rewrite this with truth, hope, desire, and much more. ME: attractive, fit, intelligent, loyal, grandma, employed, independent, adventurous, stubborn, respectful, logical, artistic, tactful, tender hearted, dreamer, I have two wonderful grandsons that mean the world to me. They have succeeded in wrapping me around their little fingers. Love from a child is the most heart warming feeling there is. When I am with them it seems that happiness and love just floats all around us. I feel that as adults we tend to take life too seriously the most of the time. Why? I'm not sure. I desire someone who can give me that same heart warming feeling that I get from my gbabies. My age is not correct, I am 50. Yes I am the big ***and loving it. Maybe its just "I don't give a sh*t attitude anymore". What I mean is not a whole lot bothers me, don't get me wrong, there are things that annoy me (gum chewing, people who answer for me, people who don't pick up their animals poop). If it's not of real importance, then I don't choose to worry about it. I take care of myself. Physically and mentally. I have recently decided to stop smoking, was doing real good however, the past couple of days have been trying. I am not giving up, I will do this. I do not mind others who smoke doesn't bother me in the least. I will never ever preach about smoking to anyone else, that is a personal choice, you smoke ok, you quit ok. I am a nerd at heart, lol. If I could have afforded it or if I have been brave enough to leave home, I would have gone to college to become a Forensic Pathologist (before it became popular (CSI fans) lol. I spend alot of time digging in the dirt for fossils, gems, gold or arrowheads.. Enjoy weekend getaways. Going to out of the way diners, antique shops, state parks, doesn't matter where or why just the enjoyment of something new. The past three months have been eye opening with dating men my age. It seems that you all can talk a good line, you have figured out what to say, when to say it and how to say it - unfortunately you haven't figured out that your actions are a contradiction of everything you say you stand for. And then again it very well could be just me.....I have strong values and morals when it comes to dating - maybe being monogamous is just not acceptable anymore....to be continued....Bob Marley - "The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for." first date would happen after the meet and greet of each other - ONLY if we both chose to go out on a date

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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