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Kalie, 47
United States, South Carolina, Loris

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About Me

These online dating sites are like a candy store, and it makes meeting someone hard. This site gives you a lot of options but unfortunately not a lot of connections. I have been on and off of here for a while now, and what I have been seeing is quantity over quality. Too many choices. I call it fantasy dating. If you’re on a date and there’s any difference of opinion the man will automatically go on to the next woman, and I was doing it too until I realized it. When I dated in my 20's, couples went out a few times and became a couple. If there was a disagreement they worked it out and continued on. There was no bouncing from person, to person with ***possible matches. I find most people on internet sites to be looking for casual dating and sex. It’s no wonder with all the choices. In the end they’re alone because there wasn’t time to get to know anyone. At the age of 47, I don't have the need to sit in a bar, nor do I like to be alone all the time, so here I am. "A bitter woman says, "All men are the same"... A wise woman decides to stop choosing the same type of men. It will take kissing some frogs, and biding time, being picky, and waiting, but it will be worth it to know what forever feels like.I guess it goes without saying that I am here to meet a special man. I am looking for a best friend who would cherish the blessing of falling in love. Your partner will be your biggest supporter and your biggest critic. I am looking for someone who is confident, happy, sexy, healthy, available emotionally and ready to have someone in their life. I would like to be clear as to my intent on here, I am interested in getting to know someone to see if there is a possibility of something more. Dating is a discovery period where you can see if there is enough to move ahead into a relationship. Do I want be in a relationship? YES I do!!... So please have the same relationship goal as I do when responding to my profile. I eventually want commitment and to share life with someone. I'm an old fashioned girl with old fashioned values. I have a serious side and a fun side and I like to get silly. In a relationship being independent is a good thing, but its also nice to feel incomplete without your partner.I have a teenager at who lives at home with me and is with dad on weekends, so the weekend is when I usually have the most free time. I work long days, and during the week my job usually has me in bed early. My friends would describe me as ";... I like to go out and try new things as I feel life is meant to enjoy yourself! I am not a homebody unless I am real tired, sick, need to rejuvenate or have to do laundry!! I go to the gym, to be healthy. The gym is a big part of my life but it is not my life. I do it for energy, stress relief and the overall good feeling I get when I work out. With all due respect I am not in favor of *** weeks on end trying to get to know someone. I do not want a cyber relationship nor am I interested in dating someone who is not satisfied with just one great lady, and who needs to keep looking and keep chatting with other women. If mutual agreed after a few *** texts and some telephone conversation we should both know if there is enough mutual interest to meet.The ForksStarbucks! mmmmm Green Tea Latte! then 10 Pin BowlingPlease no more Tim Hortons!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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