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Lesly, 46

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About Me

Likes: my kids, laughter, my Kindle, my iPod, my laptop (are you seeing a pattern here?), honesty, music, curiosity, leisurely strolls, good food, kisses, coffee, road trips, Vodka and Cran, anything chocolate (ever tried chocolate jujubes?), kindness and respect.Dislikes: calories, bugs, dishonesty, poor spelling, tactlessness, doing dishes.I’m open to dating at first (not a serial dater, more monogamous), but ultimately looking for something to develop into a relationship.I am Really Good At:Laughing, genuinely, even at silly jokes.Being a mother.Cooking, but not doing the dishes. Seriously, I'll hide dishes in the stove to clean up faster if company's coming. Wait, is this list what I'm good at or what I'm bad at? And did I really just admit that I hide dishes? Oops. Hugging, and making others feel better.Balancing work and life.Not nagging, we're all adults here.Not dragging my man around shopping with me. I'm quite capable of going out by myself!What I'm Thinking About Currently:How I lived before Google.Kissing.Is 46 the new 36?Family.Music (love classic rock).Are you going to send me a message?The order of my Netflix queue.What to put on my Kindle next. :(You Should Message Me If:You believe in love and romance.You think that your already-pretty-great life is better when shared with someone, and you’re ready to find that someone now-ish.You’re as likely (and as happy) to spend Sunday lazying away as you are to be playing games and enjoying the outdoors, but no matter what you do, there will be brunch and coffee and laughter.You don't hate The Beatles.You aren't judgmental. Meet for a coffee or drink and see if we share a connection

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Acheflour

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Just looking to meet someone to start off as FRIENDS!!!!! and then just see from there. Now that all my children are grown and out of the house I want to be around drama free people interested just enjoying life.I am very independent and stay very busy in my life. Also, Would love to go out on a date that doesn't feel like a job interview :)Please no murderers or rapistI AM NOT LOOKING FOR A HOOK UP Pretty much open to anything

  • Valda

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I don't believe any two people are born soulmates, but I do believe in attraction, chemistry, and being "right for eachother". I don't believe in "meant to be"; I believe in knowing when you have great mutual attraction, chemistry, passion, and friendship, and acknowledging when you feel "IT", being open to building and cultivating a blooming relationship, committing to it, and then working hard to maintain a good relationship.There is No perfect marriage.... No perfect relationship, friendship, partnership, or family... Any union takes commitment and work. But it takes both, or all, parties working for the good of the union.If I view your profile, but I don't contact you, it doesn't necessarily mean that you haven't piqued my interest. I just much prefer a man to make the first move, first contact, first follow up contact after meeting. I see that as part of you being a real man. (But getting mad and cussing out a girl you haven't even met yet....OR one you have....because she doesn't return your phone call as soon as you think she should definitely doesn't show that you are a real man.)I still believe a man should be a gentleman and treat a lady like a lady. He should be the pursuer, pay for dates, make her feel like a princess. I really am a hopeless romantic. Adversity of life's thunderstorms has only made me stronger. I do want a relationship, of course. Who doesn't, deep down? We all want to love and be loved. Let's start slowly, though. No rushing into anything.I love my family very dearly. I love animals and I have pets. I enjoy riding horses, though it has been quite some time since I've had the privilege. I like to read, and I enjoy going to movies, the comedy club, mini golf, bowling.I enjoy all kinds of movies... comedy, drama, horror, romance, suspense, action... not necessarily in that order. I like some of most genres of music.... and if it's a love song, so much the better.My work as a nurse tech at the hospital, working 12hr night shifts, is exhausting. But I love what I do because I love helping people, touching lives, making a positive difference when they are experiencing difficulties. When I provide care, people can feel that I really do care.I choose to look for the good in people, rather than looking for bad in them... but don't try to pull the wool over my eyes. I have been called gullible and naïve, but I am also perceptive and intuitive. I am kind and loving, but I refuse to be a doormat. I do not need a man to "take care of me", but I do enjoy being pampered and spoiled by a man who enjoys doing that for me. I am not desperate; I do not need a man in my life. But I do enjoy a mans company, I do want a relationship, and yes, I do want to find love again. The first date..... When I meet with someone from online, I prefer to think of that first meeting as just that... a first meeting.... meeting someone for the first time, having a conversation with them, finding out if there is an interest in having a first date.

  • Devin

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I love the simple things in life enjoy the beach bowling movies and cuddling. If all you wanna do is talk dirty keep on looking... I would like to go on a real date unstead of someone just trying to hookup.

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