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Lesly, 46

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About Me

Likes: my kids, laughter, my Kindle, my iPod, my laptop (are you seeing a pattern here?), honesty, music, curiosity, leisurely strolls, good food, kisses, coffee, road trips, Vodka and Cran, anything chocolate (ever tried chocolate jujubes?), kindness and respect.Dislikes: calories, bugs, dishonesty, poor spelling, tactlessness, doing dishes.I’m open to dating at first (not a serial dater, more monogamous), but ultimately looking for something to develop into a relationship.I am Really Good At:Laughing, genuinely, even at silly jokes.Being a mother.Cooking, but not doing the dishes. Seriously, I'll hide dishes in the stove to clean up faster if company's coming. Wait, is this list what I'm good at or what I'm bad at? And did I really just admit that I hide dishes? Oops. Hugging, and making others feel better.Balancing work and life.Not nagging, we're all adults here.Not dragging my man around shopping with me. I'm quite capable of going out by myself!What I'm Thinking About Currently:How I lived before Google.Kissing.Is 46 the new 36?Family.Music (love classic rock).Are you going to send me a message?The order of my Netflix queue.What to put on my Kindle next. :(You Should Message Me If:You believe in love and romance.You think that your already-pretty-great life is better when shared with someone, and you’re ready to find that someone now-ish.You’re as likely (and as happy) to spend Sunday lazying away as you are to be playing games and enjoying the outdoors, but no matter what you do, there will be brunch and coffee and laughter.You don't hate The Beatles.You aren't judgmental. Meet for a coffee or drink and see if we share a connection

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Leontyne

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Have to admit it's all about chemistry and finding those butterflies...and a sense of humor doesn't hurt ; ). It's not where you are but who you're with that's important and makes anything fun...but also finding someone you're comfortable with in quiet downtime is huge. I have great family/friends, enjoy pretty much anything creative...different types of music, art, sports, travel, & love cooking (definitely influenced by my Italian Mom). Btw, looking young for our age runs in my family and at a scrappy 5'4" sz 4 consider myself kind of a prissy tom boy...everything from mani/pedis & heels to being raised around bikes & sports : ) p.s.(As recommended by another member):--Attention--Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

  • Valda

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I don't believe any two people are born soulmates, but I do believe in attraction, chemistry, and being "right for eachother". I don't believe in "meant to be"; I believe in knowing when you have great mutual attraction, chemistry, passion, and friendship, and acknowledging when you feel "IT", being open to building and cultivating a blooming relationship, committing to it, and then working hard to maintain a good relationship.There is No perfect marriage.... No perfect relationship, friendship, partnership, or family... Any union takes commitment and work. But it takes both, or all, parties working for the good of the union.If I view your profile, but I don't contact you, it doesn't necessarily mean that you haven't piqued my interest. I just much prefer a man to make the first move, first contact, first follow up contact after meeting. I see that as part of you being a real man. (But getting mad and cussing out a girl you haven't even met yet....OR one you have....because she doesn't return your phone call as soon as you think she should definitely doesn't show that you are a real man.)I still believe a man should be a gentleman and treat a lady like a lady. He should be the pursuer, pay for dates, make her feel like a princess. I really am a hopeless romantic. Adversity of life's thunderstorms has only made me stronger. I do want a relationship, of course. Who doesn't, deep down? We all want to love and be loved. Let's start slowly, though. No rushing into anything.I love my family very dearly. I love animals and I have pets. I enjoy riding horses, though it has been quite some time since I've had the privilege. I like to read, and I enjoy going to movies, the comedy club, mini golf, bowling.I enjoy all kinds of movies... comedy, drama, horror, romance, suspense, action... not necessarily in that order. I like some of most genres of music.... and if it's a love song, so much the better.My work as a nurse tech at the hospital, working 12hr night shifts, is exhausting. But I love what I do because I love helping people, touching lives, making a positive difference when they are experiencing difficulties. When I provide care, people can feel that I really do care.I choose to look for the good in people, rather than looking for bad in them... but don't try to pull the wool over my eyes. I have been called gullible and naïve, but I am also perceptive and intuitive. I am kind and loving, but I refuse to be a doormat. I do not need a man to "take care of me", but I do enjoy being pampered and spoiled by a man who enjoys doing that for me. I am not desperate; I do not need a man in my life. But I do enjoy a mans company, I do want a relationship, and yes, I do want to find love again. The first date..... When I meet with someone from online, I prefer to think of that first meeting as just that... a first meeting.... meeting someone for the first time, having a conversation with them, finding out if there is an interest in having a first date.

  • Abrianna

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Let me begin by saying I hope you find everything you have dreamed of in a relationship. Everyone wants to be happy and share their life with someone who they can't live without. I am not different. He isn't perfect but he is perfect for me. Our desires for life will mesh as we grow as a couple but continue growing as indviduals. He will make my heart sing like noone else and I his. I am attracted to men who have a passion for living. A positive outlook and a great sense of humor. Someone who is quick to smile and is a gentleman in everyway. I have a relationship with Christ and would want the same in a man. Going to church doesn't make the relationship just as living with a spouse doesn't make the marriage. My hope is that he would love family and be kind and gracious to the elderly. I have a love of learning and enjoy reading and attending personal development events. I. I believe I am easy to get along with and enjoy most anything with the right person. It really is true it isn't where you are, it is who you are with. Blessings on your search!PS - If I don't respond it just means we would not be a good match and I won't waste your time or mine. It really depends on who the person is, what time of day we meet BUT I would like to be able to talk and interact so a movie would be out. This is your chance to impress me with your ability to take charge and make things happen :)

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